Yesterday evening was a tough one when my mom wasn't around. I was sitting on a couch next to my dad's room when I heard little screaming from my dad 's room, wondering what could be going on, I stood up to check it out. I was shocked to see our house help being grinding very hard by my dad. The scene was actually a shocked to me because it was so ridiculous.
I left the scene and walk straight to my room because I can't withstand the situation. They probably forgot to close door properly as the urge got serious. S8x urge can be bastard, although I knew something for sure that my dad must have forced the poor girl to do that horrible thing. Now she has left the house since morning and she haven't got back while my mom is asking for her, I don't know what to say about her whereabouts.
My father has been begging me not to tell anyone, but whenever I face my mom, I felt so bad and guilty of knowing the truth but cant say it out.
I want you guys to give me an advice on how to handle this case, should I tell my mom or keep it to myself?
Telling your mom will actually break her heart and as well ruin the marriage. You have caught them now it's time for you to be smart about it. Tell your dad that is such repeat itself you will tell your mom and as well report him to the police and also let him know that your very ashamed of him for choosing house maid over your mother and talk sense into him. Don't break your family over a silly mistake for no man is perfect bro.
To tell your mom is not the best solution, if you tell your mom that means you want to destroy the family and it will later affect you too. Just call your dad and let him know that if he repeat it again you will surely tell your mom and you didn't care what will happen. Tell the house help to be careful too.
Sometimes you av to keep the truth to yourself telling her the truth will only make things worst and u your might even end up ending their marriage and you will also feel guilty for that
I think telling your mom will eventually break your mom and dad apart so why not keep it a secret between you and your dad if you want to have that happy family again I know what he did is not good just for peace to regin
You should know that the moment your mum hears about it, their marriage would be over. To save their marriage, I'll advice you sit your dad down and talk to him, let him know what would happen if you tell your mum, PS. Don't make it too threatening. Make him promise never to do such a thing again,
No man is perfect.. You can never know why it happened in the first place. It could be something he needs therapy for. It could be that he was seduced and he couldn't hold it in.
I don't think you should tell your mum... just keep it to yourself for the mean time and tell your dad if such repeat itself u won't take it likely with him... because if you tell your mom u would ruin their marriage
Don't tell your mum about cos you might end up breaking their marriage. Talk to your father and let him promise not to sleep with the maid anymore.
Also threaten him that if it repeat itself,you will tell your mother about it.
You telling your mom now would be better because the adage that says nothing can be hidden under the sun.... If she found out later and she new you know about it you will regret not telling her on time. So what am saying now is for you to let your mom know... But tell her to make a promise so that is won't cause any damage to the family... when telling her knee in front of her and beg her to forgive your dad before telling her what happened.... I guess this will work out....
Please don't make the mistake of not telling your mom.
Tell her what you saw but beg her not to be angry at your dad because urge can be so bad that it makes you do things you ain't meant to do.
So tell her,be the one to bring back trust in the family and make your dad promise to your mom that he won't do it again.
You don't have to tell your mom if you don't want to break up there marriage which is definitely affect you as well, just warn your father and the maid period
A very confusing situation at hand, but think about the repercussion of both.
Telling your mum would make her feel heart broken and cheated on. And on the other hand not telling her and she knowing you knew about it would make her hate you.. The beat thing is telling her and make your dad see the bad side of his actions
I believe it will be better if you tell your mom
Not telling her may result to more ridiculous activities because he will be thinking that if they got caught again he will beg you again
Besides telling the truth will help ur family and you too, you never know if the poor house help needs someone who can help her and now you've been given that opportunity.
You cannot just tell your mom like that, ladies are poor at handling things like this. Make her to see evidence that will make her to believe. And you are free from the burden of keeping it to yourself.
my dear some times we keep truth hidden just to make things be alright or else even you your self will be blamed for pouring out the truth, so all I could say is to cut your dad a serious warning that such never repeat it self or else your telling your mum
You're in the best position to reprimand your dad and threaten to expose him if caught again. Also try as much as possible to get the maid out of the house without your mum suspecting.
Telling your mother is not the solution because it may end their marriage and it may affect you self,some time we keep the truth to ourselves to save situation, tell your dad that if it repeat itself again you will tell your mother
Truth conquers all, tell your mom the truth and leave the rest for God. You would have yourself to blame when a worst situation comes. Your dad is an adult and a vulnerable man having a house help in his house, he definitely will have an explanation for his act and will sort it out for good with his wife. Painful truths are better than comforting lies.
According to a movie I watched recently, the guy found out his mother has been cheating on his father, out of anger and guilt, he told his father. Fight ensued, the marriage ended. Years later the guy wished he didn't tell his father, he said it was their problem to deal with, not his and he should have let them settle it themselves. He feels like he's the one that destroyed their family
I think this should be kept to yourself because your father must not know that you are aware it this because anything can happen and if you alse tell your mum about this, it might lead to divorce
Do what's best for your family, if you don't want your parents to have issue which u will defiantly suffer repercussions of, please keep the matter to yourself and try to talk to your father about the things he's doing
Save your family let that be a secret to you call your dad and talk to him
secondly does your mum have time for your dad is she the type of mother that is always busy and doesn't have time for her family. Ask yourselves this question if true then you need to talk to your mum also
How will you feel,if you where in you mom shoes if you tell her?I tell you some secret are better not told
Make them send the hopuse girl away with enough money to start herself up again
No one knows tomorrow
I think you should blackmail your dad, not for your own gain but for your mom's. Make him show your mom so much love and I believe that after a while he'll feel sorry and remember why he loved her. Telling her will just cause her lots of pain and possibly wreck the home
AH telling your mom is not the best solution is better you just keep it to yourself and never open it up to anyone else cos immediately you tell your mom about it you gonna use your mouth to scatter your family and your that won’t be happy with you till dead so just stay calm
If you truly love your mum and you want her to be safe then you have to tell her. Aside the fact that your dad has cheated on your mum he has endangered his health too because we were not told if he used protection on the maid and who knows if the maid is clean down there. Therefore if you don't tell your mum then her life may be in danger of STI. She also needs to know the truth about the kind of man she is married to. The truth is bitter but it's fruit brings peace.
I think telling your mum will be better, although it depends on the situation at hand, if your mum has always being up and doing and faithful to your dad, then I'll advice you to tell her, cos it will continue repeating itself and your mum will be so angry if she later discovers you knew and didn't tell her.. After telling your mum then it is left to her to choose either to forgive your dad or not.
In life, it's either you win the fight and loose the war, or you loose the fight and win the war. I think the latter is better. Talk to your dad about it. He might be pass through issues too that you might not know. What if your mum has being starving him of s3x. Talk to him, make him understand how you feel. From there, you'll know your next point of action.
I'll advice you don't tell your mum because telling her will cause her pain....try to talk to your Dad and advice him. Let him know that he is bigger than what he is doing and make him understand that his wife is enough for him
My brother please do not tell your mother about the incident
Just try and keep it to your self
In this way you are saving your parents marriage
Because if you tell your mother, you might lose both parents
Just be watchful and make sure that hosehelp doesn't come back to your house again
Telling your mom would probably ruin all what your family has built, I wouldn't want you to do that because it will surely break your mom's heart, all you need to do is make your dad promise he won't repeat such act again and if he does you would leak his secret affair out and get him locked up
Telling your mom will cause more harm than good. Imagine destroying the family with this issue? I really know it will be hard on you but you have to be matured, reasonable and wise at the same time. Meet your Dad, discuss with him as a man he is, make him know how much disgrace he has brought upon you for choosing a house maid. Try to find out the problems that led to that and then help him to device a means to solve it. Then advise him not to indulge in such act again, letting him know that next time you notices that, you will treat him like a stranger and make sure he faces the book.
Hmmm, this is a delicate position. Not telling your mom yet is fine though eventually you'll have to tell her and have a talk with your dad to desist from such acts and try as much as possible that the maid is not staying with your family again because they might still engage in it again and this time no one will find out