Is Tying Wrapper On The Chest As A Lady At Home A Big Deal?

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A man and his wife were seen to be involved in a serious argument just last week. The couples were seen yelling and throwing abusive words at each other. When asked what the problem was I was dazed to find out that the cause of their altercation was because of a wrapper.

The man explained that he was mortified when he brought friends home only to meet his beloved wife tying a wrapper on her chest. The wife on the other hand said there was nothing to it as she doesn't tie it outside but inside the house. She said it makes her free and that she's a woman and women are supposed to tie a wrapper.

Guys in the house, would you allow your wife or girlfriend to tie a wrapper on her chest?

Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Chukwuemeka Ngene - 2019-09-15 07:23:02

Tying wrapper at home as a lady is not a big deal but you must know the time to tie wrapper and the time to dress well as a woman. Doing the right thing at the right time, tying wrapper in the daytime is not really acceptable because it's meant two things either you are still doing the house chores or you have not taken you bath. As a woman you should know how to compose your home and do everything the right way at the right time. That's what men want. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Olubamide VICTOR FIYIN - 2019-09-15 10:31:34

Tying a wrapper is not bad if a lady is within the  jurisdiction  of a compound but a lot of ladies as locally taking it beyond the compound used and have taken it to the use of fashion water and buying things in close and nearby areas of the house which is not proper for the environment and for the people that will be saying them therefore  All ladies  should bear it in mind that they will be polluting the mind of people by tying up around the environment .

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Adaranijo Muhammad Toha - 2019-09-15 10:35:19

It seems weird and awkward seeing a lady tying wrapper around herself in the house. It doesn't seems right at all, it makes her look odd to the husband. It's during the olden days our mothers tie wrappers around themselves, and that was because the world wasn't civilized enough back then, and not when we now have skimpy dresses ladies can put on when in the house,skimpy dresses that will even make them look more attractive to their own husband.. So therefore, it's really a bad idea tying wrapper around the house in this 21st century

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By IFEOMA MBAH - 2019-09-15 11:00:09

My opinion is that it is not ideal for a woman to tie wrapper on the chest.I see such women as dirty and unkempt .

A woman should look good all the time,especially the married ones cos these men see slay queens all over the Internets,on the road,shopping malls and even their offices. They tend to compare their wives at home to these slay queens .

Women should always look hot for their husbands at home.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By JOHN David J. - 2019-09-15 11:21:33

Going with the real fact concerning those two couples, the woman in question is wrong for her to tie a wrapper on her chest will sitting in the sitting room infact for the husband to be annoyed, then there was really something wrong with the tying of the wrapper on her chest and probably her sitting mode. As a woman is good to tie wrapper am not disputing that fact but, the manner, condition and where it is been tied do matter alot. And a a woman when the husband told her that he don't like what she did what i expect from her is to apologise for doing wrong and not picking up quarrel with him. Let her take note this may begin to bring serious issue for her and the entire family.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Erhieta Anthonia - 2019-09-15 11:37:59

As for me as a lady you are not supposed to be tying warpper on your cheat in the house.there are other things you should put on at home for your husband or boyfriend even if there are not at home. Because you are not an old woman

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Sarah Bwala - 2019-09-15 12:08:13

Tying wrapper on the chest is actually not good for a woman, like for us here in the North we like it, but when you look at it, the disadvantage is much one of which it makes the breast saggy on time, and a woman is not supposed to stay with wrapper on the chest all day long, it makes her look unattractive and men hates that a lot. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Shina Oyebolu - 2019-09-15 12:13:11

If tying wrapper makes them free, I see nothing wrong in it, as long as she doesn't where it outside... if a husband or a boyfriend has visitors or friends coming to the house and will not like to see the wife or girlfriend tying wrapper, he should call the wife or girlfriend and inform her... this something that needs to be discussed bcs woman wear bra all the time and its really stressful...

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Okoro chidiebere Henry - 2019-09-15 12:19:13

I believe if there is understanding between couples, it won't boomerang to that manner, if am the man I would call my wife In a romantic way and tell her that I will be expecting visitor to the house and that she should dress properly, as a man you need to apply wisdom to this matter.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Amisu Abdullahi - 2019-09-15 12:36:20

I really won't appreciate my wife putting on wrapper in the house because its not really making sense in things type of civilised era, she can put on other things that could make her fee like a short gown or just a bump short that's still advisable by me because it look more appreciating than the wrapper.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Paul Ebuka - 2019-09-15 12:46:04

Is it never a big deal ,nor is it a problem to tie wrapper is OK for women it makes them feel relax, but I know why her husband is worried because of his friends may be there might be looking at his wife. But since her hard visitors she should have wore top and then wrapper 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Nelson Roni Enan - 2019-09-15 12:56:29

Tying rapper on the chest is not bad. But for my wife to tie rapper it depends on the scenario or place, definitely she won't tie what she doesn't have. The man should select the type of clotheshe wants his woman to wear by buying the ones you want he want her to wear.That means you as the husband also play a role in this aspect.   

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Olat Mike - 2019-09-15 13:08:06

Tieing of wrapper round the chest.

For sure I can't allowed such from my wife or girlfriend. Whether inside the house or outside.

It doesn't even speak well of the fellow. 

What If there's an emergency, during the cause the wrapper fell off......

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Emmanuel Aibueku - 2019-09-15 13:22:33

Tying wrapper in your matrimonial home or in your boyfriend's house isn't a bad deal for the Lady but it could be for the Man or husband. It could be a great turn off for the man but that shouldn't be a yastick to arouse quarrel or fight between the man and the woman/lady..

Its simply just a matter of community, toleration and understanding between the 2 individuals.

Guys, tell your women the things you like and things you don't as regards dressing and Women, make your men see reasons if the need be just incase you are doing or going against what they don't like...

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Sometochi Okolo - 2019-09-15 13:46:31

I thank God someone threw in this question because it something I see very often, for me I am an advocate of ladies not tying wrappers whether in the bedroom or outside, it makes you look old and less attractive or maybe unattractive, I think nice casual clothes is okay, and guys shouldn't complain about wrappers  if they've not bought the skimpy causual clothes they want to see on their wives 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Adetola Simbiat - 2019-09-15 13:58:49

Lolzz this is really funny but I can understand the husband reaction to this being that men like women more when they are packaged and considering he came home with friends he might have boasted of his wife to his friends then coming home to see rapper on her ,and also men should understand women we often get tired of clothes like the bra and panties they make us uncomfortable.🙏

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Dennis Uchenna - 2019-09-15 14:04:22

Yeah, why not.. I will, but remember the man was angry because she did it when he brought his friend to his house, women should learn to respect the way they dress once a visitor comes to the house. Because your dressing speaks a lot about you...

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Alli Temitope - 2019-09-15 14:20:13

Tying rapper in the house is not hygienic  for a woman,i see know reason why a woman should tie rapper in the house,there are lot of wears you can put on to avoid heat..Neighbor can bang in,friends too,seeing u like that can be somehow,aside from that always look attractive to your man by putting on nice wear in the house not by tieing rapper..

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Paul Tochukwu - 2019-09-15 14:34:18

Tying a rapper is not bad, some women likes tying rapper on their chest. If the man is complaining about his wife tying rapper at home that means he don't know his wife well before marrying her,  for me I think I am OK with my wife tying rapper at home. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Agbo Ephraim - 2019-09-15 14:55:38

I abhor any married lady who still tie wrapper around everytime, first of all its not hygienic because most of them don't bother to wash the wrapper clean, secondly should dress to appease your husband let him still have that urge to be with you, married women should try their best to look attractive especially newly married

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Paul Nwaso - 2019-09-15 15:03:32

If i have a quarrelsome wife who is ready to fight at a least provocation, I will not allow her to tie wrapper in the house because she can be disgraced in fight as the wrapper can be removed easily and her private parts shown to the entire universe. By then it's not only has that received the shame but the entire household.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Adebayo Agboola - 2019-09-15 15:27:54

Tying wrapper isn't a big deal at all. Women tie wrapper to receive fresh air and to feel free. If the man isn't okay with it, he can talk to the wife about it instead of quarrelling. It shouldn't be new to him, if it's new to him, then the husband doesn't know his wife very well. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Adekoya Ayomide - 2019-09-15 15:39:47

To me, i won't really allow my wife to use wrapper in or outside the house. There are other clothes she can wear to be free in the house rather than putting on wrapper. What if she sees an unexpected visitor of mine, is that how she will present her self to the guest?

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Olayinka Collins - 2019-09-15 15:53:54

To me it doesn't matter and at some point it does matter. Cause most of nigerian girls and women does it so it has become a character, but to me as a learned person, i won't allow if worse comes to the worst put on a pyjamas.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Maxwell Nwachi - 2019-09-15 15:59:14

I see that women of this day want to  do things the that they like, what is the  problem that your husband says he does not like you tying wrapper on the chest, This is the problem I have been having with my wife ever since we got married, she ties wrapper both in day and at night, I have given her night gown she complains that it's too tieth for her ,she said that she will buy another one  ,over two years now she's still tying her wrapper, but I want advice ladies that is very good for you to tie wrapper at home when your husband is with you or when his friends are around please  ,men do not like it. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Ude Cletus - 2019-09-15 16:03:39

The truth is that some women who live alone even go naked inside their rooms because just as the men need cool breeze on their body which makes them often remove their top wear, the women also need it, and tying rapper is one of the ways they receive cool breeze and still cover their private parts. For this reason, I will definitely allow my wife or girlfriend to tye rapper inside the house. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Udeme Phillip - 2019-09-15 16:03:50

Most Nigerian women dress in ways that attract their men sexually when not yet married but once married they begin to dress like old women tying wrapper and scarf like women of ancient times forgetting that their sexuality was a contributing factor to the reason why they are married to their husbands.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By TOCHUKWU KINGSLEY OKOYE - 2019-09-15 16:04:44

As for me I don't like it because I feel it drags the breast down and most men out there wants to be seeing everything and tying wrapper doesn't help in that department. So see it as archaic and it doesn't I wouldn't want my wife to put it on no matter what. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Prosper Chinonso - 2019-09-15 16:16:32

Honestly that tying of wrapper of a thing irritates me. I will not be pleased seeing my wife or girlfriend tying wrapper when I have visitors in my house. It's not supposed for a lady to be tying a wrapper no matter what ... There are other wears that can provide her with whatever she thinks a wrapper provides her

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Eric Anyanwu - 2019-09-15 16:23:53

I would not want my wife or girlfriend to tie wrapper on her chest because it makes them look unattractive,  a decent woman should be more attractive to their spouse to avoid their spouse to commit adultery outside 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By BITRUS SALAMA BARAYA - 2019-09-15 16:24:48

Tying wrapper on the chest is absolutely not acceptable by me even ad a Lady. Because it slacks the breast make one have a falling or flat breast and for married women who have given birth already, their breast tends to slack and if she keep tying wrapper on her chest, she will no longer be attractive to her husband or boyfriend again.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Michael Odewumi - 2019-09-15 16:51:15

Before the friends came around, the wife had been tying wrapper around herself and the husband has been seeing it and he did nothing about it.  But when the friends came by, that was when he had issues with it. I guess the husband's friend made jest of the wife appearing in the wrapper. I'm guessing the husband is easily influenced by what external bodies say about his marriage.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Sayaolu Remilekun - 2019-09-15 16:55:35

It depends on the husband like if he doesn't like it then she should stop it can,cos I personally as a woman I don't like it I don't tie wrapper even in the house u will rather see me with kniker in the house.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Kelvin Coker - 2019-09-15 17:15:54

Lolzzz😝😂...okay, this is kinda funny

But wearing wrapper is not even an attractive thing to wear because it makes you look old and sorta unattractive. It also plays a very vital role in sagging one's breasts so I don't think it's advicable to wear it both inside or outside the house. It's not Good 👎

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By George Belema - 2019-09-15 17:27:13

Tying of wrapper isn't really a big deal to many men but some don't like the fact that their wives tie wrappers because they find them unattractive and unpresentable, I personally don't have a problem with that, for those that do please tell your wives what you want them to wear, I also think that next time while bringing friends home he should inform his wife first to avoid another series of confrontation

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Destiny Future - 2019-09-15 17:30:33

Well, it depends on personal difference. For me, I think there is nothing wrong with that when in the house. I also think that a woman should be able to understand his husband, like what he likes and what he doesn't like. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Galion Ishaya James - 2019-09-15 17:47:44

Well, for them to fight because just raper was a complete misunderstanding. I see no reason in them entering into unnecesary argument. Wearing rapper is not a big deal. I think the man should try and understand. Wearing rapper gives a woman a good way of receiving ventilation into their pathway.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Onyinye Okafor - 2019-09-15 17:48:14

Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? 

I don't see anything wrong with tying wrapper on the chest at home, as long as you don't go outside with it. To save your marriage, if your husband doesn't like it please stop it. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Elizabeth Idowu - 2019-09-15 17:58:56

Yes I believe its a big deal because guys can see other ladys dressing and dislike tgeir woman forever because of this singular act. To dress properly within the house gives respect to the woman and the man feels fly that his woman is sociable and not dirty,  stinky and wrapper person

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Adindu Godsgift - 2019-09-15 18:14:14

Well it depends on individual mindset and perspective, for me I don't see any reason in dying wrappers at home. Some guys do like that while some doesn't, but in this case the guy would have informed his wife on time to avoid misunderstanding.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Abdullahi Nurudeen Olayiwola - 2019-09-15 18:17:26

the husband reaction to this being that men like women more when they are packaged and considering he came home with friends he might have boasted of his wife to his friends then coming home to see rapper on her ,and also men should understand women we often get tired of clothes like  of all its not hygienic because most of them don't bother to wash the wrapper clean, secondly should dress to appease your husband let him still have that urge to be with you, married women should try their best to look attractive especially newly married

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Chinonso Henry Ikueze - 2019-09-15 18:27:48

Every man has desires and wants, and things he expects from his wife or partner. If your husband has a problem with you tying wrapper and more so, when his friends came visiting, why don't you simply apologize and then make the necessary adjustments in trying not to repeat it next time? for the sake of peace and harmony. I find no reason for the altercation. if lots of women with broken homes were humble and wise, most of the broken homes wouldnt have been broken.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Victory Tega - 2019-09-15 18:35:44

Tying wrapper makes a lady feel unattractive...many men hates women that ties wrapper..it makes ine feel old, I believe they are some casual clothes we can get at the market something free and airy rather than tying wrapper all day long

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Folakemi Obatimehin - 2019-09-15 18:51:11

It is not only bad, it is very bad. That act is usually being practice by old women I don't know how the spirit has managed to catch up with our young women. You even see some women in face me, and face you buildings tying rapper, opening bodies leuring another woman's husband into immorality . And once it is part of them, you hardly can change them .

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Abdulafiz Musa - 2019-09-15 18:53:23

I see nothing wrong in what she did. She can dress the way she likes at home, even if it's to entice her husband. However, the husband on bringing friends home should notify or signal to his wife to change her clothing as visitors are present. If she doesn't do this then, she's at fault, else, she's right.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Obi Gladys Ifelunwa - 2019-09-15 19:26:33

Even as a woman I am, I personally hate tieing wrapper on the chest, it old fashion pls not even when a visitor is around, it does not make one look attractive before our husband Biko, look for free wears rather than wrappers.

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Uche Aku - 2019-09-15 19:27:56

As the husband doesn't like it she should stop out in the wrapper as she should be submissive to the husband. It also makes them unattractive which can lead the husband having na affair outside

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Boluwatife Ogungbesan - 2019-09-15 20:23:47

Depends on who's house and the aim of doing it. If it's your house no problem and if it won't seduce people who are in the house. 

But to be on a safer side, don't look too tempting. People wicked o

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Okwute Chinecherem - 2019-09-15 20:28:09

I think there are other free clothes to wear instead of tieing wrapper. As a married woman if you want your man not to look outside you ought to look yummy and smell good always. 

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Is tying wrapper on the chest as a lady at home a big deal? - By Joy Madufor - 2019-09-15 20:45:28

For me is not a big deal. I understand how he might feel to see her with such dress but that does not mean that is bad. Though men of nowadays don't like their wife's on wrapper must especially on chest. It looks old but it makes one to be free too.

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