What Must A Lady Have Before Getting Marriage

In life man must have a good job or business, a car, house and many other things before getting married. Then, What must a lady have before getting married??

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  • 1st is Godliness (this entails every form of pure mannerism to survive the scares that result from marriage)... every other thing will be added unto her. 

    - Bolarinwa Bodunde - 2019-08-24 01:04:37 Quote

  • I believe a lady should not go into a relationship with the mindset of being dependant... She should be independent as much as she could.

    - Ayodeji Oladokun - 2019-08-24 01:04:52 Quote

  • A lady must train herself to be submissive with good attitude. Also, a lady must have the wisdom and understanding to support and relate with spouse without issue.

    - Musa Diko - 2019-08-24 01:14:39 Quote

  • A lady must have a good character before getting into marriage,  tolerance is not excluded also

    - Irobi Emeka - 2019-08-24 01:24:51 Quote

  • It's best if she has a certificate... So, if she gets married to a man who gives room to a working class wife, she can easily support the welfare of the family without placing much burden on her hubby. 

    - Bolarinwa Bodunde - 2019-08-24 01:27:50 Quote

  • God and a good character is a fuel for sustaining marriage, if not accident is inevitable. Submission to the husband to is there. They that know there God shall do exploit even I marriage

    - Taiwo Enoch - 2019-08-24 01:48:23 Quote

  • In my point of view, a lady must be comfortable to an extent before getting married. She can not just dump all her burdens on the husband. Also, if not educated, she should have a handiwork or anything that fetches little or more profit. 

    - _itunnu_ Aishat - 2019-08-24 01:59:14 Quote

  • A lady should be prepared emotionally that she is somehow cutting off from her parents to be with her husband. 

    - Emmanuel Paul - 2019-08-24 02:13:54 Quote

  • A lady should also have something doing so as to support the man, its not only the man that has to do everything 

    - Bukola Ayobami - 2019-08-24 02:23:36 Quote

  • Job, money, happiness, at least she should be able to stand on her own. Marriage is all about supporting each other 

    - Lawal Jojolola - 2019-08-24 02:50:16 Quote

  • A lady must have respect and heart of summiting that will be a good thing a lady required before getting married

    - kuza sunday yaka - 2019-08-24 03:00:12 Quote

  • I think even if she doesn’t have a job, she should have a skill or degree that could get her one. Or she should use her skill to set up something for herself, which could be able to sustain her and her kids in the long run. I’m not saying she should be made before she gets married but I believe that she should be heading towards that

    - Maduka Nnamdi - 2019-08-24 04:36:43 Quote

  • A lady should have good character, be submissive, able to adjust to being married, be caring, know how to please her man, be neat and know that she is his help mate before getting married 

    - Rejoice Ahaiwe - 2019-08-24 05:20:22 Quote

  •  A lady should have a handjob added to educational qualifications if any ,she should be a woman her husband can't wait to go home to and one that can make her home a peace fortress for her family

    - Eseosasere Aiwanfo - 2019-08-24 05:38:26 Quote

  • In our society today, some ladies  desire a man who can carry all their burden. Life dose not work like that again.

    I think a lady should be financially OK before marriage.

    - Okabure kevwe - 2019-08-24 05:51:52 Quote

  • Ladies should also have a source of income because there would be bad times for the husband and his job and the wife would be able to help him in tough times.

    - Akindutire Samuel - 2019-08-24 06:43:05 Quote

  • The society has made it a must for the man to be able to feed a family before going into marriage but what does a woman need to have before going into marriage

    1.She must be caring and be able to cook for the family; a lot of girls nowadays don't even know how to prepare noodles talkless of real foods and thats pathetic. A good wife material should know how to cook 

    2 she must be submissive and pacifying 

    - John Akingunola - 2019-08-24 06:43:48 Quote

  •  A lady must have the following thing before getting marriage,she must have self confidence, inner beauty,wisdom of how to handle a man,the ability to manage and support system

    - AUDU KUJE - 2019-08-24 06:47:46 Quote

  • In the Nigeria of today , People say no one will marry an uneducated lady or rather a lady that doesn't have a source of income ...So you have to be a bit established before you get married.

    - Eka Ntuen - 2019-08-24 06:54:02 Quote

  • A marriage worthy Lady should also have these qualities

    Respectful and dutiful





    Caring and honest

    - Ibrahim Deji - 2019-08-24 06:57:23 Quote

  • She must have that marriage mindset, that's she must know that she's entering into another man's care. She must have that mothering instincts which enables women take care of children

    - Odoemenam Onyenwearku - 2019-08-24 07:05:43 Quote

  • To me a lady must be educated and established too,you can't come and be begging for school fee money from your husband every time give him space he is a human being too 

    - Gift Anunobi - 2019-08-24 07:11:49 Quote

  • Good character, ability to tolerate pains and must be ready to submit herself to her hibby

    - Alade Bashirat - 2019-08-24 07:17:12 Quote

  • A woman need job as well in other to assist the husband to be, she also need quality education, good character and  good praying habit before getting married 

    - Chinwe Igboh - 2019-08-24 07:17:51 Quote

  • A lady mist have good courtesy nd patience nd also a job at hand I'll advice because things might go wrong with the husband's job later on

    - Christina Yusuf - 2019-08-24 07:18:51 Quote

  • She must have a decent job, a good sense of humor, be a good friend and of good character and other things 

    - Adeseolu Kazeem - 2019-08-24 07:21:27 Quote

  • ​​​​​​A lady most understand meaning of marriages before getting marry

    - Abdulrasheed Ibrahim - 2019-08-24 07:31:26 Quote

  • A lady should be all for her man,she ought to possess good virtue, character,a lady can of course be independent as it were so she can reduce man's burden,thatymy take on it

    - Chimezie Okafor - 2019-08-24 07:31:46 Quote

  • The sense of understanding and commitment to her husband,also she most be educated and be able to support when needed(meaning she must have some money too),to avoid disrespect from her husband.

    - Ebuwa Ehigiator - 2019-08-24 07:34:24 Quote

  • In all honesty I feel it's understanding who you've chosen to spend the rest of your life with. 

    - Kuye Emmanuel - 2019-08-24 07:42:33 Quote

  • God fearing, intelligent, hardworking, of good character/virtue and have a good job or business to support.

    - Eunice Aigbokhan - 2019-08-24 07:47:10 Quote

  • Before  a lady get married, she must have the

    spirit of submission

    Capacity to think and get things done without family interference and ability to say sorry

    - Olowolabi Bukunmi - 2019-08-24 08:01:25 Quote

  • Before a lady get married she has to understand the meaning of marriage and also have something doing in other to support her hubby and above all be submissive to her husband

    - Joy Eze - 2019-08-24 08:14:58 Quote

  • Homely attitude, Home builder, peace loving, mental, financial and emotional Intelligence.

    - Mfon-Abasi Idio - 2019-08-24 08:15:43 Quote

  • First a lady must be God fearing, humble, obidient and respectful before going for marriage.

    - Moses Osgood - 2019-08-24 09:33:06 Quote

  • To me the woman must have a good character and be GOD fearing too...and also have a job...or a hand work to always keep her busy

    - Ikenga Dominic Chukwuemeka - 2019-08-24 09:47:47 Quote

  • At list a lady should have been a graduate or at list have an hand work

    - Abdullih Shaka - 2019-08-24 09:49:31 Quote

  • It depends on the lady involve here. Each lady have their dreams and goals while some are just a regular lady that doesn't expect much for themselves.

    I lady should be able to support herself to an extent before she gets marries, I think

    - Mariam Tishe - 2019-08-24 10:22:10 Quote

  • A lady should be self dependent before going into marriage. She should not enter marriage to be dependent on the husband for everything this might lead to some issues 

    - Benedict Oge - 2019-08-24 11:05:47 Quote

  • It's all about what you are going to bring into the marraige or the man's life. And that should be being able to support the man spiritual, physically and emotionally. A woman without Godliness is finished, because then you have given the devil the opportunity to come into your home and do whatever he likes. The greatest thing amongst other things that a woman should have is being a strong and firebranded christian. Forget about all these pretty ones out there slaying up and down, they can't raise a child in the fear of God, rather they will want your kids to be like all these celebrities whose ways doesn't please God. And then will you realise that you have made a terrible mistake.

    - David Isaacs - 2019-08-24 11:22:39 Quote

  • She should be physically, socially , spiritually and emotionally  prepared to make her marriage work

    - JENNIFER CHISOM NWAESI - 2019-08-24 12:05:42 Quote

  • A lady most of job to support her husband not only husband should do everything, woman should support his husband also

    - Titilayo Olajide - 2019-08-24 17:44:44 Quote

  • The lady should have the fear of God and also have this calm and understanding spirit also she most be hard working she most have something doing in order to assist her husband when the need arrive.

    - Gracious Sampson - 2019-08-24 21:58:50 Quote

  • A lot is required from a lady before marriage. Firstly, her character matters a lot, Her integrity, commitment, humility and respect.

    - Onwukeme Juliet - 2019-08-24 22:38:48 Quote

  • For me, a woman that has good character, intelligence and love for her husband are basic requirement of a woman who is getting married

    - Chidera Duru George - 2019-08-24 23:32:24 Quote

  • Before a lady goes into a marriage she most have all these.

    1. Be a faithful child of God.

    2. The lady most be of a good heart.

    3. She most have the spirit of tolerances in her, to tolerate whatever that comes near her that is not her liking.

    And the last one.

    4. She most be a good cook(chef).

    - Miracle Nwancho - 2019-08-26 02:46:14 Quote

  • A lady must be godly, God fearing, understanding, submissive, tolerating and good FOUNDATION to support the man he's going to marry.

    - Esther David - 2019-08-26 12:23:42 Quote

  • Before marriage a Lady must have a teachable and a humble spirit, a source livelihood to support,wisdom to know what to do or say at every point in time above all she must have God

    - ifejirika chineme dianah - 2019-08-26 14:55:52 Quote

  • Before marriage a Lady must have a teachable and a humble spirit, a source livelihood to support,wisdom to know what to do or say at every point in time above all she must have God

    - ifejirika chineme dianah - 2019-08-26 14:56:20 Quote

  • Exactly what i have in mind,I believe a lady should not go into a relationship with the mindset of being dependant... She should be independent as much as she could.

    - Patrick Ofere - 2019-08-26 18:51:41 Quote

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