A Must Read For Every Woman

Just like all men are born equal the same way all women are born beautiful. Beauty, they say, lies in the eyes of every beholder. The last time I checked, we have over 7 billion people on earth and over 14 billion eyes to catch a beauty. So it's heavily impossible for a woman not to be beautiful in the eyes of at least a man. 

As a man, have you ever engage a lady in a discussion, whose beauty caught your eyes, only to your greatest amazement that she could not speak good English language? Unfortunately that is all most women have in their bag, their beauty. 

Listen women, men do not only want a princess or queen they want one with brains. They want a woman they can be very confident of in the public, not only because of her facial configuration but also her content. They want a woman who other men will admire her intelligence. They want a woman that is a fountain of wisdom and counsel. 

Men knows that time is a factor that will reveal the vanity of beauty and the brilliance of a beautiful brains. So when given the option, a hand full will opt for brains but many will wish to have a woman with both.

So what do you do as a woman to add rubies to your value? Read books. Yes, be an avid reader of books for in doing so, you will broaden the horizons of your knowledge.

What are the other things you feel a woman can do to add value to her self?

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  • Women they say are beautiful but most women are only beautiful at the outside but in the inside they are totally something else women should know that the way in to a mans heart is his tummy so even if you are not beautiful at the outside at least you have an opportunity to be beautiful in.another way so all am trying to say is that women should learn how to prepare dishes at their early stage in life.

    - Muorah Kelvin - 2019-10-06 10:01:10 Quote

  • Yes you have a point bro , men do not only look at beauty when choosing a woman ,they look at other factors like vibrance ,intelligence and some other thing when choosing a woman because they know as Time flies beauty tends to fade off 

    - Ademola Shanu Ajibola - 2019-10-06 10:02:46 Quote

  • Some women are always carried away by their beauty, because they think they can get anything they want through their beauty, and this later comes back to hurt them. Women should focus more on acquiring Education which will make them live independent lives in the future without looking up to any Man for support

    - Samuel Chidobi - 2019-10-06 10:04:43 Quote

  • It's true a lot of men want women with beauty and brains but not being able to speak English or not being so enlightened should not be a factor for a man to believe a woman is not good enough, just like Men want women that will grow with them financially, there is nothing wrong in a Man growing with a woman intelligently and in the academical aspect. We were all put in earth to complement each other. 

    - Phoebe Olawale - 2019-10-06 10:09:47 Quote

  • A woman can add to her value by being self independent because no man would want to be with a woman that is always hot demanding and also she can add to her value by having a good character

    - Allen Preye - 2019-10-06 11:21:21 Quote

  • A woman can add to her value by being self independent because no man would want to be with a woman that is always hot demanding and also she can add to her value by having a good character

    - Allen Preye - 2019-10-06 11:21:28 Quote

  • Beauty without brains to correspond can pose as a big time turn off. A man needs a woman who has more than a pretty face to offer. Someone to counsel, advice and sometimes guide them. Someone they can actually show off confidently in public without any fear of embarrassment. Most especially someone with a great attitude and character.

    - Ndukwe Ikechukwu - 2019-10-06 11:29:52 Quote

  • A woman must not look down on herself and i believe nowadays men wants a woman who doesn't depend on a guy ie she must be smart, hardworking and purchase a good character. 

    - Chioma Sharon - 2019-10-06 11:31:54 Quote

  • As a woman who want to be forever relevant and a priceless jewel before her man must be ready to learn and unlearn, prepare for the unpredictable, be hardworking, add to yourself virtues in cooking, in fashion, in business,in relationship with others, and every aspects you know that surrouds you

    - Afolashade Michael - 2019-10-06 11:34:41 Quote

  • For the woman who are very beautiful . man want them and they love to engage with them, a woman who had unique beauty with be mans want forever. Though there may be few conflict, but woman can't do without man and also man can't do without engaged with a woman.

    - Michael Adewunmi Oluwadarasimi - 2019-10-06 11:42:48 Quote

  • Award for this your post self. You cant marry because of a beauty of a woman but what she is capable of doing it is the main stay of any marriage....to me,  beauty is nonsense and intelligent is the key.

    - Agada Friday - 2019-10-06 12:00:10 Quote

  • You have written well. But I am a woman and I guess next time when writing such an article, let it be free from criticism. Is as if you're attacking the woman. Be reminded also that most women that knows their onions aren't looking only for men whose pocket are filled with cash but also brain

    - Chimezie Anyiam - 2019-10-06 12:00:24 Quote

  • A woman can add value to her by trying to be very good in her morals and values, she should have a career she is aiming for  she must protect her dignity at all times

    - Abdullahi ibrahim - 2019-10-06 12:02:27 Quote

  • honestly it really did happen to me, I met a beautiful lady on a blessed  evening when coming from the petrol station, I walk to her and tried talking  to her, she didnt answer me,  the second time she stopped and I was like hello beauty how are you doing, she said fine, then I continue  and told her I really  appreciate her beauty that she is the epitome of beauty, and gbam, she didn't  talk again, I continued  talking, next thing  she ask me was can I speak Yoruba,

    - ayomide Ayomide - 2019-10-06 12:13:10 Quote

  • Men need a lot from woman a part from good english, like well behaved woman and hard working woman, a woman who is contender with a men, above all God fearing women. 

    - Austin Chinedu - 2019-10-06 12:18:33 Quote

  • I think this is really for women but just in my own short contribution, I think a man wants a woman that is respectful and responsible and does not gossip about when she has valuable things to use her time to do.

    - Gabriel Akinbode - 2019-10-06 12:35:55 Quote

  • Nice write up dear..as a woman things you should do to add value to yourself is to mentain good character and behaviour... No man on earth will accept a woman with a very bad character because is not with it...and another thing is for you as a lady or a woman to take very good care of yourself... Don't look neat or clean on the outside and be Dorty on the inside...cleanliness can also add value to woman.

    - david moses - 2019-10-06 12:38:28 Quote

  • I think if a woman tries being independent of anyone men would want to marry such people,they would want to marry her because in times of hardship she would be able to provide for the family and one of the most important is character and morals that they should try to imbibe

    - Oyinkuro Precious - 2019-10-06 12:39:39 Quote

  • Yeah I love this, but why are people always on female matter this days,. Nobody talk about how a man should improve themselves mentally, socially and physically. It's all about what a woman can put on the table, but nevertheless I always love the talks. A woman must believe in herself and love herself because if she don't, who will? 

    A woman must be self confidence and not over confident because it can break her. 

    A woman should have the ability to solve a problem quickly, like think fast and that's why it's good to read books. 

    And a woman should be able to take care of her internal and external body. 

    - Adelokun Temidayo - 2019-10-06 12:41:48 Quote

  • What makes a woman beautiful is not just her beauty but her caracter and intelligence. Men look out for a woman with respect, diligence, virture, hardworking and someone who will always support them. Not all women have these virtues and so the word from the bible ”a virtuous woman who can find"

    - Henry Moore - 2019-10-06 12:42:42 Quote

  • This is a very good post, if our women can read this i guess it will help a lot , because no man is ready to take liability as a wife so to say , in fact someone like me ,my wife to be must be industrious , in fact we must be competing with money ,as i control my business so as she also manage hers too

    - Bamidele Oluwafemi - 2019-10-06 12:43:00 Quote

  • I had a friend who once told me he was admiring this certain lady from afar the day he got to talk to her in person he was soo dissapointed her english was nothing to write home about. Is not all about making up everyday forming slay queen but you can not offer anything to the public. A lady should learn how to be independent you don't have to depend on your man always .She should have vision create opportunity where there is none. She should be a dream chaser always think on how to better future. A woman should know how to carry herself not just talking anyhow in public.

    - CHIOMA MBONU - 2019-10-06 12:57:31 Quote

  • Kudos to the poster . Thanks very much. So many women think that we only look on the aspect of beauty. Me personally loves a woman that can com out in public and be bold. I really love a woman that is intelligent enough. Many women of nowadays thinks that we only looking for beautiful ones. We also look for brains. A woman who can give out something. And lastly a woman that is humble too

    - Adirika Chisom - 2019-10-06 12:59:17 Quote

  • The points stated are all pointing to making a woman more resourceful rather than just being a partner, s*x mate and equally for friendship sake. So its important to learn morals, have personal development mentally and otherwise, cux with that you have added extra values to what is already being about you and men appreciates such women unlike those that are after other gains to catch up. 

    - PETER MMADUEKE - 2019-10-06 13:13:27 Quote

  • A beaurhful well painted face and properly maincured nail is not enough o ladies,you should look for a way to improve tourself academically.when a man discover you cant be taking out in the mist of friends he starts avoiding you.that is why men who are nothing before and are married to illeterate wife will go for educated women as second wife once they've attain certain height in life.if you dont start improving yourself now you will have yourself to blame latter.

    - Ibebunjo Funmilayo - 2019-10-06 13:33:20 Quote

  • True talk, as it is said what a man can do a woman can do better, thank God this post unveils it all, a woman has to work on herself not only on her beauty but also on the content she posses upwards, cause with the two she will fill much more better and confident enough to face the outside world, and thus becomes an asset not liability to any man that finds her.

    - Nwamadi Venansius - 2019-10-06 13:42:27 Quote

  • I think it is also important that a lady has good self-esteem, this is what some women lack that creates entrance of foolish men, and also women, into her life, also they should limit the amount of friends[not just the amount but also the type/the sensibility of the friends] that they have as friends have the ability to influence her and change her behaviour and attitude towards reading via their acts and advices. 

    - Victor Pelumi Dosu - 2019-10-06 13:42:33 Quote

  • Women need to change their mindset of been inferior to men, to me we are all equal but it depends on how you train yourself, if you are the type that depend so much on much, I think you need to start doing thing on your own because only you can achieve greater things for yourself

    - Adebowale Jamiu - 2019-10-06 13:46:08 Quote

  • First God is the author of all wisdom, and excellence comes from Him. So the woman should ask the giver of wisdom for it and it shall be given to her. Secondly, she should relate with people that will help her grow in all round.

    - Okwalogbo Amarachi Joy - 2019-10-06 13:57:13 Quote

  • Hmmmm,  nice writeup,  there are so many women that thinks that once they are beautiful,  they can capture the heart of any man.  Yes,  that's true,  but its your attitude that will determine whether the man will stay or leave. 

    Be a virtuous woman,  be a fountain of knowledge to everybody around you,  so that any man that come across you will call you Blessed!!!  Be a lover of God

    - Oluwadarasimi Stephen - 2019-10-06 14:00:17 Quote

  • Nice update, I love this  write up most woman are proud woman  attitude show how they feel in mind it very good  for a lady  to have a good  self esteem lady should  start improving  there self now so that you  won't  blame yourself 

    - Afolayan Lekan - 2019-10-06 14:20:43 Quote

  • 5hanks very much for this, a woman should not only depend on her physical beauty because beauty is within. Your character, attributes and attitude defines your beauty. Women should be independent and should have a good self esteem.

    - Ayelaje Glory - 2019-10-06 14:23:10 Quote

  • Your writeup is ok.. But a man need so many things in a woman apart from intelligence and speaking good English inner beauty matters alot too God fearing, submitting, sincerity 

    - Luckru Bako - 2019-10-06 14:23:31 Quote

  • Yes this a good post,because some women depends on beauty. Beauty without brain is rubbish. Women should also add.Moral value , shroud in spending, and very hard working, ability to accommodate people around, e.t.c and this add to beauty

    - Olusola Fetuga - 2019-10-06 14:24:51 Quote

  • Every lady out there should not depend soleley alone on their beauty but they need to be widely knowledgeable in various aspects so even when a man walks up to them and wants to know what the woman entails, he's going to be able to place her in a high self esteem.

    - Adegbiyan Favour - 2019-10-06 14:35:57 Quote

  • A woman should not just be beautiful facially but mentally, psychologically menace and must be very eloquent, fine no one is perfect, you might not have every qualities but learn towards perfection we learn everyday and every time so as a lady try and be in a class of the above qualities if not everything.

    - Michael Abioye - 2019-10-06 14:40:06 Quote

  • I feel no matter the beauty she really needs to have a good character because no man likes a lady with an absurd character.... So I think irrespective of the intelligence she has character is key

    - Sodiya Olayinka - 2019-10-06 14:44:43 Quote

  • Men knows that time is a factor that will reveal the vanity of beauty and the brilliance of a beautiful brains. So when given the option, a hand full will opt for brains but many will wish to have a woman with both.

    - Niniola Abdulazeez Omololu - 2019-10-06 15:01:30 Quote

  • The two primary things are god fearing and humble ness the rest varies example are carrying service,bring educated, respected although all qualities may not be found in one person but these are important.

    - Obika Foster - 2019-10-06 15:32:51 Quote

  • I say a woman needs to be God fearing and also honest with him. Another thing is for a woman to be really hardworking. What is the point of being a wife and you still go out to other men to commit adultery just because of money. Having the fear of God is mostly important

    - Subomi Oloyede - 2019-10-06 15:40:56 Quote

  • Truly and truly, beauty is not everything. Most men want a woman they can rapport with and connect on an intellectual level. Unfortunately, most women cannot offer that. Women need to empower themselves intellectually and academically not just for men, but for themselves 

    - Laura Oselu - 2019-10-06 15:41:18 Quote

  • To women Beauty is just with time and that's not what will make ur man last because a lot of beautiful charming are out there..Add more knowledge to ur beauty..

    - Okoro Micheal - 2019-10-06 15:41:53 Quote

  • Men needs more than your beauty as woman, in fact a time is coming that that beauty will be useless. So you need to equip yourself will virtues that can be of great benefit to you and your man.

    - Seun Afuye - 2019-10-06 18:08:37 Quote

  • What most men want in a woman is someone who is independent they don't want to burden their self that much. And when a woman is independent she would not only support the nan but will also gain more respect from the man. And the man would not have burden himself that much

    - Zakari Stella - 2019-10-06 18:18:24 Quote

  • I really agree with the writer of this post.Many girls now tend to believe and have more confidence in their beauty rather than their intelligence.All they know how to do is make a man tend for all their needs even before marriage.if you know you fall in the category of this  kinds of girls, better change now and focus on your studies because it will really affect you in the future.

    - Ugwuodo Stanley - 2019-10-06 18:29:49 Quote

  • As a woman,its good to appear beautiful but let what you have on the inside complement your beauty. Acquire skills, be good at what you do and learn to be independent

    - Chinomso Nwokoma - 2019-10-06 18:30:44 Quote

  • Every woman should note this, because it is really helpful a man wants a woman he can show off to his friends, a woman he can that can represent him in places

    - Adekunle Victor - 2019-10-06 18:45:42 Quote

  • Me I feel the ultimate thing a woman can do to add value to herself is to go to school and be educated. Men are naturally intimidated by women they feel are better than them.

    - Immanuel Sam-Ndubueze - 2019-10-06 18:46:34 Quote

  • My fellow members talking about reading books is not the solution to keeping a man to your self. There are many men that has dismissed their women because of majority of reason apart from being out spoken fluently. This life is full of mystery

    - Chinwe Okeke - 2019-10-06 19:32:49 Quote

  • All that was said is really good, but today woman needs to learn value and the value is, and what is the place of a woman in our world. 

    Woman are not to compete with their man but compliment their man. 

    - Joseph Jegede - 2019-10-06 19:33:59 Quote

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