Firstly marriage can be or said to be a well known union of people as a partner in a personal relationship. The major problem are as follows;
1. Trust between partners.
When you are in a serious relationship with someone you love the tendency to trust your partner and for your partner to trust you too.
Trust isn't gained easily over night it takes time to develop trust and there are things you can do to build that trust.
2. S8x in marriage.
Loving each other doesn't actually conclude that your s8x life will be awesome. Maybe one of you is eager to have s8x than the other or your partner wants to make love in a way in which your partner thinks its romantic but you don't really feel alright about it. One partner may engage in masturbation and also watching pornograhy which the other partner may not like.Whatever the reason may be s8x can be a huge problem in marriage.
3. Money issues.
Quarrelling about money is bad for lots of couples in marriage,but it still happens every time. When you are married you should at some point have a one on one conversion with your partner about how you guys spend money. Maybe one of you is a spender and the other one is a saver argument may surely occur at some point. Wait up for (solution to marriage problems).
Which other common problems do you know? share with us.
Getting to understand each other and adapting each other's difference
You cannot fully understand your patner during courtship because during that time, everyone is trying to measure up .... When you are in marriage, you begin to discover a whole lot in your patner which can lead to quarrel and misunderstanding. If taken with a matured mind, you both will sort things out
Another crucial issue is commitment, most couples don't want to commit to their marriages which mostly if not cautioned, leads to a divorce
Another is patience, an aggressive woman needs a patient husband to cool things down, one has to be calm for the other to make the marriage work.
Family pressure, a certain relationship could be going great buh have to suffer from pressure of family maybe they don't like the partner coming from a certain ethnic group or something, Your love for each other will have to be strong to survive this
In all these highlights the main problems in all is lack of understanding of the couple. In marriage everything is not to be voiced out and that is the main driven force that married couple can achieve. If they can read the body language of another then all their problems are gone. You know when to ask and when to give.
Other issues in marriage include; planning, in some marriages only one person does the planning of which the other partner might not be too comfortable with it. Child spacing is another major issues in marriage as some parterners might want to have planned spaces between their children but the other might think otherwise. The list is endless and marriage involves a lot of management skills to succeed in it.
Problems could be easily solved if couples see themselves as one not just a helpmate but seeing each other like themselves, problems arises no doubts but not letting it exceed beyond that's the goal, nobody's marriage is perfect but individuals can work towards perfection
Being secretive is also a big problem in Marriages. If you’re married to someone, you guys automatically become one. So you should be able to share whatever it is with your partner
Money problems are mainly common in marriages. But there are other problems in marriages like:
Poor communication: When there is lack of communication, theres bound to be misunderstanding between partners
Chores: Distribution of house chores is vital and should be done considering both parties.
Also, there's bound to be pressure from the family of both parties concerning different issues.
That's my view of this topic though. I encourage fluent flow of communication between partners.
These are common problems that couples don't act upon instead they always believing that love conquers all. For instance money problem in the era that we are living now breaks a lot marriages and relationship.
The problems in marriage can be lack of proper understanding, one needs to be aware of the other likes and dislikes so as to give the rightful attention and care to satisfy ones desire. Proper dialogue should be initiated to harness any mishaps in the union.
I think another key factor affecting Marriages today is People not being Contended with what they have both from the Male and Female aspect, The Husband maybe in some situations looking outside for other women, while the woman may not be contended with the money 💰 the man is giving her. So being contended is very good.
I see marriage as a life time relationship, (forever together) most times in marriage there might be one issue or the other that will come up. I believe that if this three factor are the back bone of your marriage, you will enjoy your marriage life on earth. Firstly trust, secondly love and lastly understanding.
One of the problems I know couples face is the interference of a third party when issues arise. Most couples do heed to the advice of third parties be it friends etc which ought not to be so. Whenever issues arise in marriage...it should be within the home between the husband and wife and since marriage is for the mature and emotionally fit,they should settle amicably.
Friends. I just want to add that once you have become couple, you should mind the kind of friends you keep because some of them are very toxic as they will begin to envy you and even plan to break your home.
Secondly. Learn how to spend quality time with your partner, don't make excuses because of work so that you can properly bond together.
While this is all true, at the end of the day, love, loyalty, trust and understanding conquers all. As long as the couple has a solid foundation in all these, the issues mentioned will not be hard to overcome. They'll be able to sit, talk, understand and find solutions to whatever problem may come their way.