Dating For Fun Or Dating For Marriage

I have a friend who is into plenty relationship and each time I talk to her about all this relationships, she would say she is dating for fun not for marriage yet. Because she has had several breakups and so feel that true love does not exist that anything love is just fake. 

She even date married men and call it enjoy while it last that she want to enjoy her self very well and that I shouldn't blame her because her ex's have turn her into a fleet girl and that she is enjoying this  new her and at times say she is making cool money

So my question her is that is there actually anything call dating for fun not for marriage because I see it as a relationship without a prospect. What's your take on this issue??

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  • Hearing her points I wouldn't condemn her. But there's actually nothing like dating for fun in the real sense. Dating is an emotional feeling and trust a guy and a girl shares mutually. You date not just to satisfy your emotional life but to know more about your future hubby. 

    - Ajibade Adetunji - 2019-09-27 11:24:36 Quote

  • There are so many human being like that oooo, they will tell you the less you get serious, the less they suffer heartaches or heartbreaks. But this is not ideal at all as some people  will miss their true soulmates based on fun

    - Joy Olapade - 2019-09-27 11:25:13 Quote

  • Dating without s3x is dating for fun but I don't think that there is any dating nowadays that does not include s3x

    Once she involve in se3x, then surely she will face the consequences now or later 

    So my advise goes, do your part and let her alone since she is not ready to obey your advise instead giving excuses 

    - Adekanbi Oluwaseun - 2019-09-27 11:26:55 Quote

  • Well, in the above situation, I would advise her to stop that meaning she gave to dating, because sooner or later she might regret it.

    Dating is ment for fiancés who are ready to go into courtship and finally marriage, so dating in short is not the meaning she gave it, and more so it is ment for ready minds

    - Akanmu Benjamin - 2019-09-27 11:27:10 Quote

  • To me I will say she is right due to what she experienced but what am going to say is that she should stop that kind of life so she could get a husband, but if she continues like this she might end u achieving nothing. 

    - madali dumebi - 2019-09-27 11:30:21 Quote

  • Exactly just as ur friend portrayed it you. However, it works for some people and not for others. It is just that you can't eat your cake and still have it as. Adage says. While some ladies or guys are lucky with this some are not so lucky. It depends on individual destiny. Whichever way, one has to be watchful and careful. So that one won't make his or her prospective suitor for mere relationship. 

    - OWOLABI Ayodeji - 2019-09-27 11:30:56 Quote

  • Before she know she don run out of time. People that are dating for fun don't know what they want in life yet. And they could also be using it to get over an ex, which I think is quite unfair to the new person. If you are dating someone for fun then you have to make it known to the person that you are not really interested in having a future with him or her so the person won't also commit completely to the relationship. If it is not properly spelt out from the beginning you will just create another Demon. 

    It's bad but if you will be kind to make it known. 

    - Temitope John - 2019-09-27 11:34:03 Quote

  • Dating without s3x is dating for fun but I don't think that there is any dating nowadays that does not include s3x

    Once she involve in se3x, then surely she will face the consequences now or later 

    So my advise goes, do your part and let her alone since she is not ready to obey your advise instead giving excuses

    - Abdulganiy Idrees - 2019-09-27 11:34:09 Quote

  • I have seen a lot of girls do say that plenty times my own opinion concerning this is that when we start up something we expect the outcome result of to be great such as nnu u register believing that is the way to financial stability so I think we shouldn't start what we cant finish it, say no and be realistic in your your relationship or else you end up hurting your partner or yourself join nnu and make money so you can be honest with your relationship.

    - Kalibus Ambrose - 2019-09-27 11:34:20 Quote

  • What she’s into can be likely linked to prostitution. There is nothing like dating just for the fun of it such a relationship can be seen as friends with benefits. Before one should date someone he/she should be hopeful it will lead to marriage and not just dating for fun. Going into dating is to know each other more and see if the relationship can lead to something serious.

    - Onekeneke prince - 2019-09-27 11:34:51 Quote

  • Their is nothing like dating for fun its that this days we are not just been serious with each other when we are into relationship, the real reason we go into relationship is because of marriage but due to the way the world is now many are not true to their relationship, the  guy just want to get in between the leg while the girl just want to get her bill paid that's why people these days say they date for fun.

    - Adegbemileke Alex - 2019-09-27 11:37:18 Quote

  • Because of high rate of guys who play women many now belief there nothing such as true love but it's a big lie if you wait patiently and you have good instinct you will surely find a love that is true

    - Ayantunji Aanuoluwapo - 2019-09-27 11:47:18 Quote

  • I have no issue in her choice of lifestyle but what am not comfortable with is that she dates married men and have fun and seems to be okay with her attitude, maybe she has no plans of getting married in future because if she does I think she won't be dating married men because her right husband won't come by dating married men

    - Ukora Kenechukwu - 2019-09-27 11:47:45 Quote

  • Everyone has their life to live and we are all responsible for the consequences of our actions and in actuality there is nothing like dating for fun, dating should be a serious commitment. 

    - Michael Kasali - 2019-09-27 11:47:59 Quote

  • This issue depends on her previous experience about relationships and how she has been treated but no matter what she as face in a relationship dating for fun is not the right thing. 

    - Agunbiade Victor Oluwatimileyin - 2019-09-27 11:48:28 Quote

  • Make a standard for yourself that if you're not ready for marriage then you're not ready for dating. If not then its for fun. If you want fun then get a hobby,do what makes you happy. why should you use another person heart for fun.

    - Shalom Michael - 2019-09-27 11:51:15 Quote

  • dating for fun, i don't think is polite to do thing of such, when you date for fun you just keep wasting your time, courtship is meant to know who is good and bad for you, so date for marriage not for fun.

    - Adebayo Owoniyi - 2019-09-27 11:51:47 Quote

  • there's nothing like dating for fun. You can't date anyone you don't like. You date people you like even before the feelings fade away. just tell her to be careful

    - Odujobi Aderonke - 2019-09-27 11:52:34 Quote

  • I don't believe in dating for fun, because it's not right to date someone you can't get married to, what if you get pregnant as a result... 

    - Josiah Gabriel - 2019-09-27 11:53:20 Quote

  • That is what some ladies don't understand they believe they are Iike men that can flirt and still get their dignity. After spoiling their lives they will now be looking for men that will marry man will want to marry a flirt .ladies be wise

    - Anthony Onyekachi - 2019-09-27 11:56:05 Quote

  • Just like she said, there's nothing like love, there's no serious person out there, that's what she believed. 

    Same with every other person, like me, am not ready for marriage yet, so, it's for fun now. 

    - Richard Ngirigwa - 2019-09-27 11:56:09 Quote

  • For me I don't think there is anything like dating for fun,  dating are meant for fiances who know that the relationship is heading to somewhere and not two people playing. Dating is meant to be for two lovers who wants to know more about themselves and know they are heading to somewhere. 

    - Okwute Chinecherem - 2019-09-27 11:56:21 Quote

  • Dating for fun could be a risky thing to do because one might not know when the good person or the right person person gets dumped too. And dating for fun has implications attached to it. So it's better not to be in a relationship than to toy with people's feelings 

    - Osofisan Boluwatife - 2019-09-27 11:56:50 Quote

  • Its unfortunate that most people this days just date for fun.they start with seriousness like its for real but they have hidden in their mind and nothing more.

    - OLALEKAN OLADAPO - 2019-09-27 11:59:10 Quote

  • When a lady is coming up, so many men admire her but the truth is she can't get married to all of them but the fact is, it takes Gods grace for the lady not to fall evictim of all.  Most people date for fun but they actually have the specific person they loved most. 

    - Madaki Bennix - 2019-09-27 11:59:35 Quote

  • If it were to be I will stop dating her because she has made it clear to you that is into it for fun... 

    Unless u are also into it for fun too

    - Chiegwu Chisom Nancy - 2019-09-27 12:01:29 Quote

  • For the initial idea of dating , it is just for fun without the consideration of marriage at all, but with timt, for example a relationship for as long as five years should start considering marriage, at this point, they should be knowledgeable abut each other enough

    - Malachi Olaoluwa - 2019-09-27 12:01:30 Quote

  • Wat she's doing is calls promicious attitude and more so what her ex did wasn't enough reason to be promiscuous.  Who knows maybe it was dat potential her ex saw DAT made him to leave her. 

    And nor is tanishing once image  and reputation d best way to enjoy life? 

    - Abiona Olawale - 2019-09-27 12:07:00 Quote

  • The youths we have everywhere now date for fun mostly and not for marriage, looking for s3x here and there that's why most of them contact incurable disease and later regret they should have gotten married to the person that lives them dearly with all the heart

    - Samuel Oladeji - 2019-09-27 12:11:17 Quote

  • Alot of people of people have gone through break up but that doesn't turn someone into fleeter (prostitution), dating are not for people how are serious because the reason of dating is to search for compatibility with partner not have fun.

    - Godwin Emmanuel - 2019-09-27 12:15:52 Quote

  • Maybe the truth is that she isn't ready for marriage yet. But the did effect of these her actions is that she might find it hard to stick to husband. 

    Marriage is going to be very difficult for her if she doesn't change. 

    - Okafor Chigaemezu Ifeanyi - 2019-09-27 12:23:38 Quote

  • I wouldn't blame her for current behaviour and character and I don't know what she went through in her past relationships but that's not the measure for her promiscuous act which I don't support.

    - Idowu Samuel - 2019-09-27 12:36:32 Quote

  • That is why people need to be enlightened before they go into any kind of romantic relationship unless they will leave themselves vulnerable to so many hazards and they will now ckme back heart broken and heart hardened

    Its as a result of bad 

    She juat needs someone that will show her love and someone that will accept her

    - Joseph Lawrence - 2019-09-27 12:38:12 Quote

  • There is nothing like dating for fun,u are dating for problems in the nearest future,because in every action u take now there is a reaction tomorrow, that he disappointed u does not mean another will do the same,it just mean he is not the right person for u,God is preparing a better and more loving person for u if only u will be patient

    - Nnaji Gift - 2019-09-27 12:51:39 Quote

  • yeah some people date for fun and you the guy would think she's into you that she loves you very much which is a lie because she knows what is going on, she just need your money and make fun for herself 

    - Ayanfeoluwa Adeniyi - 2019-09-27 12:56:26 Quote

  • There is nothing like love at first sight lemme warn you guys. It may seem like that at first but later when bad things begin to happen, that's when you go around complaining. Although anyone that said there is nothing like dating for marriage has had a lot of heart breaks to actually say that. You can actually date for marriage if you are a devoted person.

    - Ime Henry - 2019-09-27 13:01:29 Quote

  • In my own view one can date for fun and not for marriage, why because sometimes you may like guy for one reason or the other but not interested in marrying the guy. I have heard such issue before this guys dated for fun and not for marriage because they made it clear to each other before dating. 

    - Maxwell Nwachi - 2019-09-27 13:01:35 Quote

  • There is different between pleasure and relationship. Nothing like dating for fun. The one who claims such is only in to it for pleasure and he/she is nothing other than halot/ Casanova respective. Dating is always about a plan for future that eventually gives the rose of life. Moreover, pleasure is just a bodily comfort for a while that doesn't last long or has a happy ending, but true relationship in the other hand is a life time joys and happiness that beautify the world.

    - Hassan Kamaldeen - 2019-09-27 13:11:59 Quote

  • First before dating you should already have the idea and goal that you are dating to marry and also you be stable in all aspects, financially, emotionally and the likes. So to me there is nothing like dating for fun. 

    - Nzomiwu Achiever - 2019-09-27 13:17:45 Quote

  • It's good to reason before dating, observe your to be partner if you are eligible for each other dont just jump into a relationship... At least there are people that started dating in secondary school that end up in marriage. Like I said BE WISE....

    - John Adeyemi - 2019-09-27 13:43:09 Quote

  • For real there are some ladies that dating for fun,is not that they want to but due to some circusmstance in life that led to such life style so I suggest such ladies should seek advice.

    - Stephen Eke - 2019-09-27 13:44:28 Quote

  • There is something we call friends with benefits. That's having interest in someone without dating the person. It happens to me once and I'm caught in the middle. Now I'm married to the person. I actually wanna date him for fun. But it leads to marriage. So if you wanna date for fun, think deeply before venturing into it

    - Owolabi kikelomo - 2019-09-27 13:46:38 Quote

  • Yes there's dating for fun, when you see a girl dating a married man how did  you expect that, to be relationship. My brother that is dating for fun because the girl is enjoying what ever the married man buying or giving and married man enjoying the service of the girl. 

    - Paul Tochukwu - 2019-09-27 13:50:51 Quote

  • Well it depends on the one somebody chooses,some choose dating for fun which I can i also call, dating for the guy's money or dating for the girls's money, and in this kind of dating I would say there is likely to be 2-5% love, while the dating for marriage is the kind of dating in which the both girl and boy would confine in each other letting themselves know that there date should lead to marriage to avoid any heart breaks and advice for this kind of dating where the love is likely to be ranging from 90-99% love.

    - Edward Chinecherem - 2019-09-27 13:53:40 Quote

  • Well I would say her reasons for turning into a flirt is not valid enough, what if in due course she gets infected. In every relationship the best is hoped for, a relationship should have a aim and the both parties should be aware of themselves. If you all about flirting your interest should be clear too. I think more matured and responsible that way.

    - Allwell Ekpe - 2019-09-27 13:58:28 Quote

  • It's in two part, dating is for fun according to what is in vogue while in christiandom is not allow. Many are dating only to catch fun and few of them end it to marriage. And this is very rampant among student but it's very wrong. 

    - Dairo Idowu - 2019-09-27 14:11:26 Quote

  • Dating for fun is always fun until the future comes and it tells. Its even better to date for marriage ratherr than go about tasting every girl. Its better we date for marriage so we can start knowing the behavior, attitudes of our spouses and we can change the ones that need to be changed before we step into marriage

    - Alabi Philip - 2019-09-27 14:35:27 Quote

  • Some guys have really made ladies bitter due to the way she was treated in the relationship and through this,the ladies have decided to hurt different guys also. But my advice to the lady is that she should move on and stop dating for fun,she should get a better guy and settle down

    - Tolulope Ijimakinde - 2019-09-27 14:40:49 Quote

  • Dating for fun is one thing I dislike my whole life because I see it for what it is which is pure waste of time. 

    If I want to date, I will first of all consider the age of the girl to know if it's the right age for me to marry and knowing fully well that am AA by genotype so my only concern is just the age of the girl and her character. 

    I don't date for fun. 

    - TOCHUKWU KINGSLEY OKOYE - 2019-09-27 14:46:51 Quote

  • People do date for fun but that doesn't make it sensible. You can't just date someone to pass time. You should date someone when you have the plan of getting married and building a future together with that person and not just for the fun of it

    - Banigo Tamunomieokomibi Rowland - 2019-09-27 15:07:03 Quote

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