First of all this write up is originally written by me as a result of real life happenstances and I honestly mean no disrespect to anyone, I just want to point out some disadvantage and it's possible solutions. The following write ups contains a few aspects of negative characters in Most Nigeria girls.
1.Dependent: These aspect is very common, it is more or like a stigma in the life of most Nigeria girls. In Nigeria almost or should I say majority of girls depend on a man's income either through relationships, hook-ups, prostitution and so many more.
2.Selfishness:If you've been paying attention, you'd know or see that alot of marriages in Nigeria are down or are always engaged in one form of fights and misunderstandings. Why this? It's because alot of ladies marry cars, looks, money and many others material things, but fail to look deep into the heart of that individual 'Man'. Girls with this selfish character usually don't care about the key things, the vital things of this country, all they care about is "MY",only themselves and fail to realize that women are powerful and can contribute in the upgrade and growth of the country.
3.Control: Ha! Relationships.....alot of issues in relationships and most times marriages is as a result of over controlling character. She always want to know what is going on,i agree it is not a bad thing to know or to be concerned, but this "To Know"-It could be on her man's phone, his calls, his office and even down to his discussion on family and friends, control in money, control in decision making, control over who to speak to and who to help with money.
4. Bad Attitude: First of all, let me define a Date. A Date is a meeting between two or more group of individuals in respect or an avenue to get to know more about themselves. In Nigeria, you will invite a girl for a date and what you see is she and her girls "Hungry Friends". A normal civilized and reasonable lady should know what a date means and also how to carry herself with good manners, good home training.
Nigeria ladies are Beautiful, Smart, Vibrant, Go getters and pioneers in our society. I believe if notable strong women in Nigeria can look into the scheme and upgrade the girls perspectives and thinking, this could influence their everyday life. These would bring out the best women Entrepreneurs, best business women, high respected women in the society and Independent.
Well I agree with the writer on this .But looking at it from Another angle I’m a lady I know know most ladies who feels a date has to be by the man alone some even went as far as inviting two or more friends just to show there low thinking I believe if everyone can think as this high class and hardworking women things will I’ll be very fine
I will like all our girls to see this post they need to understand that all this things they are opening their legs for are cheap and they can get it themselves if they are ready to Work hard and be focus.
As a Lady don't be a burden on someone that they began to avoid or treat you like a piece of rag you deserve more know your value and worth.
You can't argue with that, most of our girls are like that though it's not all. I myself have met some decent girl with decent behavior but they are bound to have atleast one of these negative character. No one is perfect
I just hope these post would be able to make all the girls out there believe in themselves and realize they worth more than there imagine and try to focus more on how to make sure they become independent and always work hard to become a better version that way there never become a problem to a man
Interesting! I like this post in particular, to every lady going through this post should know they have more value they can add to their life's rather than waiting for a man that has acquired it all to take them to alter.
I don't mean to be rude, but the truth needed to be spoken. The kind of orientation Nigerian girls have about their men is way to low to their standard. Nigerian girl should learn the habit of giving not receiving, so things can happen in a different way...
This is so educating and enlightening. Most ladies don't take even the most important things serious thereby leading to various issues. In every relationship, there is no limit or constraint on who should give or receive as both partners are expected to take up the responsibility attached to dating. The stereotype thinking that men should take full charge is wrong, let's help shape the world and educate the younger ones.
Well as a Nigerian I know this is true but it doesn't apply to all ladies truth be told, I think it only to ladies with low self esteem and have their minder on my husband should do everything for me, but with this post I wish it can reach Nigerian ladies so they can learn from this
Well this in for the most part true. Sadly some of these stem from the upbringing and social environment they were exposed to. Some parents don't teach their children how to empower themselves, some unconsciously raise them to be shallow and materialistic, to only use certain things on the surface to judge people. And in the case of overcontrolling, this commonly stems from a power complex and trust issues.
In this present day, ladies don't think of making it on thier own, their believe this days is that men are to work and take care of them, am not disputing that though, but the ladies too should be able to bring something out of their pocket.
Wat is really happening nowadays is because of our thinking now. Most girls believe they will end up in the kitchen. But that's totally wrong. You work hard and be focus then u achieve ur aims even by then no men can treat u anyhow since you okay financially on ur own. So you will be independent, you won't have to depend on any guy before you do anything
I really still don't know why most of our girls are just not concerned about what they can do and make a difference in this generation all they want is a man who will give them a pleasurable life with out them making one for themselves independently....although don't get it twisted we have hardworking girls in this country but they are few
In this, I see that he tried to make the point clear. And its a good thing that all ladies need to see and to change their life. But if we look at it in another angle not their fault I mean does that fall victim of such thing. What causes that is poverty and a person that av tasted poverty will be mad of little grace. Which the little grace don't last long it only last long for those that are contented and have the nice attributes of woman and human.