Five Reasons Why Women Fall Out Of Love

LOVE is a beautiful thing and its value is to be adorned and cherished for a life time. The affection and emotion that comes with LOVE isn't the type to be taken for granted no matter what. Love demands proper care, adequate nurturing, time, attention and lots more to make it last long and stand the tests of time. 

1. Attention: The level of attention that's invested in a particular thing will determine the level of its outcome. For instance, the amount of time and attention you dedicate to your work will determine the level of your productivity. The same measure is applicable to relationships and love affairs, when a woman is deprived of attention, she becomes lonely and bored around her spouse and once loneliness sets in she will begin to fall out of love gradually.

2. Adornment: Feeling appreciated, welcomed, complimented and special is very important for women because it gives them the feeling of being loved, cared for and appreciated by their partners. Little compliments like appreciating a woman's dress, shoes, nails, hair and acknowledging her efforts in other areas gives them more confidence and prestige. The moment a man stops appreciating his woman the moment he starts losing her to another man that adorns her the most.

3. Emotional Disconnect: The major cause of emotional disconnection is basically lack of communication or poor communication. It is crucial that partners remain connected and make each other a priority in their everyday's life. A little phone call checkup during work time, phone conversations during free times and proper communication helps to grow and strengthen the bond between two lovers but the moment these factors are missing or inadequate one or both lovers would get discouraged and eventually the love and feelings begins to fade out.

4. Boredom: Boredom is the lack of enthusiasm, lack of interest, apathy etc. Relationships are supposed to be fun, interesting and enjoyable. I have seen situations where people fall off the ladder of relationships (be it friendship or dating) Most times, some men don't take adequate notice of the amount of time they invest on fun and socializing with their partner. Making time for special outings, picnics, visiting the cinema, going on vacation etc are parts of the vital things that booms the liveliness of the love they both share. So if you want your woman to stick with you for the rest of your lives, spice things up a bit more.

5. Constant Criticism: No one likes being criticized often times, too much criticism sometimes makes women feel less appreciated and unwanted in every ways. The moment criticism creeps into a relationship, it gradually kills the warmth, feelings and affection a woman has towards her man. The constant need to pick on and criticize everything she does gives room for doubts to set in and it lessens the woman's feeling for her man. Men should always try to appreciate the women in their life even when they are not up to the task. A little thank you accompanied with pleasant corrections will go a long way in balancing criticism if need be.



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  • Some people get married for d wrong reason mainly women so that could lead to an unfruitful relationship 

    - Enade ElviS - 2019-08-15 23:14:50 Quote

  • wow, I really learnt alot. 

    I once heard that women value presence above presents (gifts).

    - Samuel Clement - 2019-08-15 23:19:06 Quote

  • Love is beautiful when it is reciprocated and not being one-sided. If not it is a wicked thing, being in love and not loved back is painful. 

    - Chinemeze Ejelonu - 2019-08-15 23:42:21 Quote

  • Another thing that makes women fall out of love is EXPECTATIONS.

    When a woman expect her man to do or become or meet certain needs in the family/ relationship and in turn gets little or nothing in return, this quenches her desires for her man by making her see her man as mr wrong

    - Nwankwo chukwuemeka - 2019-08-16 00:06:53 Quote

  • Love is unconditional and a sacrifice. The reason why women fall out of love is that they need someone at hand to comfort, console and share there feelings with. They need proper attention and care

    - Samuel Okeleye - 2019-08-16 00:07:19 Quote

  • Women need all the love and care they can get. Their wants are unlimited and  therefore a man must be able to posses special qualities to satisfy his woman

    - Olubunmi Fagbemi - 2019-08-16 01:16:44 Quote

  • For me if the man does not give me the attention I need from him I will just walk away from the relationship. If he treats me like a slave and not like his most cherished love I will stop coming.

    - Kelechi Nwogwugwu - 2019-08-16 01:27:38 Quote

  • And as a man, be ready to give out all the time if need be else you are likely to loose your lady as well.

    - Lubem Terzungwe - 2019-08-16 01:34:33 Quote

  • 1. The husbands dont make them fall in love again. 

    2. Change of taste.

    3. Pride

    4. Lack of self control.

    5. Untrustworthiness

    - Kenechi Victor - 2019-08-16 01:53:12 Quote

  • Criticizing females in a relationship will bring total depression

    - Ajayi Victor - 2019-08-16 01:54:04 Quote

  • If these are all the reasons. Then why do they fall in love the first place. Which working mab would have time for all these?

    - Prosper Akunwanne - 2019-08-16 02:02:38 Quote

  • 1.Greed

    2. Lust

    3. unfaithfulness 

    4. Lack of money from spouse

    5. Violence 

    - Okoye Daberechi - 2019-08-16 02:15:55 Quote

  • To my own opinion they fall out of love, when they aren't with the right one.

    - Martins Timmy - 2019-08-16 04:55:16 Quote

  • the fifth point reason is very common among most couples i've come accross, the husband criticising the wife small insignificant ossues thereby forcing the wife out of holy matrimony

    - IBRAHIM HAFIZ - 2019-08-16 05:56:19 Quote

  • Truth be told every woman needs love and attention so when she does not get from a man she backs out

    - Lynda Igwe - 2019-08-16 06:08:32 Quote

  • You did justice to this one and you deserve some Thumb up on this

    - Iorpine Loya - 2019-08-16 06:12:57 Quote

  • (1)cheat- if they found out their lover is cheating they will fall out of love. 

    (2)lack of attaintion

    (3)not showing them true love

    (4)lack of money

    (5)not being the real guy u pretend to be

    - DAVID J IHEKE - 2019-08-16 07:37:35 Quote

  • They are not really straight forward... 

    They don't trust

    They are so full of suspicious acts

    - Miracle Mbalisi - 2019-08-16 07:52:29 Quote

  • No human is perfect there are some women no matter what you do for them they will still fall out of love.. because they can't be satisfy 

    - Andrew Unugiaseh Daniel - 2019-08-16 08:21:55 Quote

  • love itself is a delicate matter. Women needs love the most. And if you do not give them, they will look somewhere else for it

    - Anthony Bassey - 2019-08-16 08:24:09 Quote

  • Thank you very much for this, I'm currently in this situation, I'm in a long distance relationship, and I'm beginning to lose whatever connection or feelings I have for him,cos this attention and communication is lacking.

    - Ogazi Precious - 2019-08-16 09:31:04 Quote

  • It really depends on the reason the woman fell in love in the first place ,if it for right reasons that means there is no reason to fall out of love

    - Henry Bode - 2019-08-16 09:44:40 Quote

  • Women fall uot of love majorly because of lack of attention b4 anyother cause

    - Moses Osgood - 2019-08-16 09:58:07 Quote

  • Women fall out love for these reasons;

    1) when they feel that the man is loosing interest in them... They ain't sure they need them

    2) the gold diggers fall out of love when money is gone

    3) when the guy no longer love her

    4) when the guy cheat

    5) when the guy no longer take care of her

    - Justice Mike - 2019-08-16 10:02:33 Quote

  • Is very bad. Women should be carefull.

    - John Asuzu - 2019-08-16 10:15:08 Quote

  • 1 violence

    2 lack of money from spouse

    3 unfaithfulness

    4 lack of self control

    5 change of taste

    - Ozowara Samuel - 2019-08-16 12:17:50 Quote

  • The tips are worth it. . The men should step up in making thr relationship conducive for our ladies

    - Ndumele Obinna - 2019-08-16 12:28:21 Quote

  • The main reason there is attention, if you don't give your woman the necessary attention that she deserves then, you are wasting your time

    - Uche Emmanuel Kelechukwu - 2019-08-16 13:00:34 Quote

  • Lack of communication is very important reason too

    - Oluo David - 2019-08-16 13:03:01 Quote

  • Some men fall in love with ladies thinking love at first sight is all without trying to check out the kind of lady she is and later everything turns out to what wasn't expected..

    - Hassan Adebayo - 2019-08-16 13:46:18 Quote

  • No Man in this world can satisfy a woman because all their need and want can't be melt all the time. What it is the best to be Contemted with what your partner can bring to you in relationship. 

    - Olayiwola Aliu - 2019-08-16 16:59:31 Quote

  • relationships and love affairs, when a woman is deprived of attention, she becomes lonely and bored around her spouse and once loneliness sets in she will begin to fall out of love gradually.

    - Onuh Felix - 2019-08-16 20:16:34 Quote

  • Many women fall out of love in marriages because they went into it for selfish reason and might end up getting nothing profitable.

    - David Jacobs - 2019-08-17 01:00:40 Quote

  • Some times getting married to the wrong person. Secondly lack of communication 

    - Kingsley Okorie - 2019-08-17 04:29:30 Quote

  • Some do because they are not satisfied with a man or rushing into it instead of doing it in a gradual way

    - Taiwo Enoch - 2019-08-17 04:52:02 Quote

  • So many people make the same mistakes so women get married to a man because his wealthy if d money stop coming she will run

    - Kingsley Okorie - 2019-08-17 13:34:30 Quote

  • Some people get married for d wrong reason mainly women so that could lead to an unfruitful relationship 

    - Dominic Olah - 2019-08-17 13:46:04 Quote

  • Lack of communication as well, but women should learn to take responsible and invest in the relationship, relationship is not a ready made well, both partner needs to be play their part

    - Akindele Oluwatobi - 2019-08-17 21:27:21 Quote

  • We women fall out of love,if weren't not given attention and the right treatment.. Its sad

    - Efosa Favor - 2019-08-19 13:49:58 Quote

  • Some people, i guess fall out for no reason at all.... Give them heaven and earth, they still gonna follow someone that has nothing. 

    - Richard Ngirigwa - 2019-08-19 15:43:58 Quote

  • 1. Nagging

    2. Communication

    3. Understanding

    4. Supportive... Among other things.

    - Adamu Usman - 2019-08-19 16:24:00 Quote

  • Lack of observation: most men don't notice when a woman need them most because they are not paying attention to the little things that matters, sometimes the woman don't need your money, may be she need your hands around her or a shoulder to cry on but because you are not observant, you may end up giving her what she didn't ask for, not all women have the courage to always say how the feel but if you observe always, you will always give her the attention she needed

    - Tony Olih - 2019-08-19 22:56:37 Quote

  • Smiles.. 

    it's a different thing to be inlove with some one and to love someone. To fall out of love means to stop being inlove with someone. One of the biggest reason for falling out of love is Failure to give your partner/spouse Attention,This always leads to lack of communication and when communication is dead everything dies too cos communication brings the bond in the first place. After communication dies, Boredom sets in each party stops feeling the vibe/affection from themselves. And finally..they break bonds, everyone then goes their separate ways without even feeling bad most of the times because their hearts had already stopped beating for each other long time ago(when boredom sets in). 

    - Iyanuoluwa Phebian - 2019-08-19 23:59:14 Quote

  • I think it's all the way all the way you are brought up some men that lol just too much some people they are raised in a broken home so why they grow up like that they don't say anything good especially somebody that they have been lied to lend their goal of the ceremony has a li you have been cheated yourself brother the cheat that is why most of the time happens God will help us

    - Barnabas Ilesanmi - 2019-08-20 20:25:58 Quote

  • 1: unreliable partner, wen u have a spouse u can't rely on that love dies and face away with time.

    2: unfaithfulness, wen u are not faithful to ur spouse because of greedy act, u want more and u want to taste anything different from the one u have that love can die instantly.

    3: lack of communication, poor communication kills every relationship or rational communication waiting for who to call who first, if he or she don't call me I will not try it and call him or her by so doing the love is dying.

    4: distance is a bad barrier, distance give divided mind if u don't love ur spouse from ur heart and you don't understand him distance can take away ur love life.

    5: pride and lack of that word I'm sorry. Pride is a bad poison in any relationship, learn how to be humble and to be apologetic to ur spouse it help a lot, do not wait for who to say I'm sorry first, whether u are wrong or right always use that word I'm sorry to ease ur argument and move on with ur love life but wen a relationship lacks humbleness and respects it kills ur love for each other.

    - Richard Ejiro - 2019-08-21 12:28:04 Quote

  • Women fall out of love because they didn't get what they need from the man

    - Ibraheem Danteni - 2019-08-21 12:57:20 Quote

  • wow I really love these five reasons but I think something is missing here. I think lack of money in this our present age can also lead to falling out of love. 

    - Chinwuba Henry - 2019-08-21 13:37:03 Quote

  • Truth is you can never satisfy women to keep them in a relationship as a man. No matter how hard u try, they will never appreciate you wholeheartedly. 

    - Julius Titus - 2019-08-21 17:36:45 Quote

  • Ladies will stop loving you because they do not get what they need and the man is always opposite her want 

    - Oluwa Segun - 2019-08-22 08:38:41 Quote

  • Attention, women love attention so much and at the same time so much attention irritates them. Bottomline they are complex and complicated, you can't understand them.

    - Nonso Augustine - 2019-08-22 11:59:54 Quote

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