Help!!! Lecturers Are Sharing Me

I am student of Federal University Oye Ekiti. I am studying Business Administration and presently in my last year. I never had a problem in all my courses but I have a problem in a particular course and the lecturers in charge refuses to pass me and four lecturers only teach the course at Oye but they all planned to have sex with me. I was told that if I want to pass the course without reading all I have is to let them have sex with me. Out of frustration I had sex with one of them thinking I am free still they refused. Without passing this course I will never be able to graduate and it my second stay in campus while my mates would be convocating in the next third convocation ceremony, I keep hiding this from parents because they will be so bitter since they are 60+ of age. Will sleeping with the left three Lecturers be perfect so I move on but the truth is am not ready to nurse a child or abort any child because I won't identify the father since they all want to have sex with me. 
Please Sir/Ma what can I do? 
What is the best step to take? I am confused and frustrated.

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  • My dear the mistake you made was even sleeping with the first person because he will still go and tell the other three that you have slept with him. This kind of issue is no longer new in nigeria, all you need do is to report him to the appropiate authories for imidiate action.

    - achor nelson - 2019-10-09 18:08:12 Quote

  • Well ,you show let an higher authority know about it in school ,anx it should be a female ,if she doesn't believe you you should try setting them up so they can be caught red handed and take care of 

    - Prince Michael - 2019-10-09 18:10:34 Quote

  • Why go through with such a shaming and scandalous act  isn't there any high authority that can help you try to find help from the right source at least maybe not all of them would be of the same bad fruit, then report to a close relative I would advice you tell your parents about it and try get evidence if it's a voice recording or something to back your claims so they don't turn the table on you and spoil things totally for you. 

    - COURAGE AGBONS - 2019-10-09 18:15:14 Quote

  • You just have to report the case to a female lecturer that has grounds in your school and also pray for directions please don't have s*x with your lecturer or you report the case to the school authority or your school SUG president

    - Maxwell Kenneth - 2019-10-09 18:28:04 Quote

  • My sister, im sorry for the kind  situation but I will advice you to report those lecturers to the school authorities. So that those lecturers would be either sack or asked to let you take the exam.

    - Chinonyerem Promise - 2019-10-09 19:13:18 Quote

  • This is the level of moral decadence we are in in the world today. Actually, you needn't sleep with any one of them. what you should have done is to make sure you prepare for the course very well and take the exam but immediately after the examination, you should go and report the case to the school authorities. If you have already written the exam and you are sure of yourself, I will adcise you to call for your script. Though that is daring and risky but if you do, they will bring in an external supervisor to mark it and see if you actually passed it or not.

    - Emmanuel Akinduro - 2019-10-09 19:17:58 Quote

  • This is a serious situation that requires a strong decision. In this state dear my candid advise for you is that, don't use passing a stage to tamper, tarnish or distroy the glorious future. They just want to take advantage and leave a clause on you.*Be Wise* Pray and and refuse them. You will surely graduate by God's grace

    - Ayodeji owoeye - 2019-10-09 19:18:47 Quote

  • My sister go and seek elders in the community and the campus who have fearing of God and be prayerful, to see them in private and nature them with word of God at same time they will hand over you to them and warned them that nothing should happen to you either in the campus or outside the campus and prepare a a statement which will put to record if anything go wrong they will be punished with the attachment penalty!

    - JIMOH WAHEED TAIWO - 2019-10-09 19:24:12 Quote

  • The best thing to do is to go and report the lecturers to the body or association of students affairs. Association of students affairs sees that every student studies in the school without encountering any problem at all especially molestation from some bad lecturers. If you report to them,they will punish the lecturers or even sack them.

    - Emmanuel Agbasielo - 2019-10-09 19:30:12 Quote

  • Well one thing I know is that. There's nothing prayers can't do for you. They are God to predict your future. All I think you need to do is pray and ask God for forgiveness then pray and commit them into the hands of God and have faith that he will do it for you.

    - Noah Hezekiah - 2019-10-09 19:37:54 Quote

  • It saddens my heart how lecturers behave in our universities, because I don't know the reason why you must sleep with a female student before you will give her mark.

    And I don't blame some lecturers because some students are the cause, they will be disturbing lecturers to sleep with them so that they can pass, because they have no time to read 

    My advice for you, report to the school authority, fight it and trust me no lecturer will disturb you again.

    - Jerry ifeoluwa Adebayo - 2019-10-09 19:40:22 Quote

  • This issue takes the wisdom of God my dear Sis. All I would say is for you to be very prayerful, because I don't think you sleeping with the four lecturers is the best solution though..... I pray God see you through

    - Olajide Esther Olamide - 2019-10-09 19:41:00 Quote

  • Honestly.. For Christ sake this issue is getting out of handle in Nigerian Universities.. Is it that the government doesnt know about it or that the know and have decided to keep mute... Students keep on having carry over not because they are not studying but because lecturers want pressures.... Pls my dear You need to forward this case and stop opening your legs

    - Eustace Chinwenmeri - 2019-10-09 19:41:54 Quote

  • I think the best thing for you to do is find a way to protect yourself I mean try to arrange another meeting with the lectures involved set your phone on voice recorder and record the conversation and then report the case to a person of higher authority or the police 

    - Ekeji Chidoziem - 2019-10-09 19:47:07 Quote

  • God my school 

    Sis the best thing is to report this matter to your parent and school authorities 

    Those lectures are like that though but you just have to outsmart them

    - Akinbode Boluwatife - 2019-10-09 19:48:24 Quote

  • You started it already then have it with all, because I don’t know why you can’t just set them up and you went ahead to have it with one of them. Also you said without reading so read and pass your course dear.

    - Damilare Adegbite - 2019-10-09 19:51:00 Quote

  • I didn't know such things happen in our school. I am also from fuoye

    I believe that tou should not give in to their request. Pray very well and tell your parents. They are in the best position to help you. Also inform your dean. That man is actually nice and i know he will listen to you and hell you out

    - Ifagbemi Toluwani - 2019-10-09 19:52:36 Quote

  • This is a very serious situation and it needs to be handled with serious care and mindsets. now 3 lecturers want to sleep with you after when you already slept with one of them making it four lecturers altogether that plan to sleep with you together. what you have to do is look for someone in a better and right position to talk to about this whole issue, consult the school board of directors or maybe The Vice Counselor if you can see somebody that will link you to him or her. whoever the person might be but then do not take such step by Sleeping with three of them because if by any means you try such actions the consequences might not be funny. you might be exposed to a lot of STI. it's not just about getting pregnant how about and all that consider the other part TOO.

    - Obinna Elvis - 2019-10-09 19:54:14 Quote

  • My dear, remain focused and do not panic, what you need is to study hard, work for your success and be glad you did. The reason you are in school is to study and to seek for favor from the lectures, to have s8x with them is never the best option for you but will make you lose your integrity.

    - Christogonus Uneze - 2019-10-09 19:58:00 Quote

  • You made the mistake of agreeing to sleep with one of them... It is still possible to stop it, by reporting them to trusted school authorities and then seeing a counselor. . That's my take. 

    - Godswill Akpan - 2019-10-09 20:01:56 Quote

  • This is one of the most frequent chalanges that our female students are having in higher institution. Well, to my own point of view, my advice for you is to let your parent know about it, after which you should also put it into prayer because one day the Lord will arrest them in one way or the other.

    - JULUUS POLYCARP - 2019-10-09 20:02:19 Quote

  • The best thing is to report to the school management,if you want to pass,just read you book and be sure of what you will write in the exam

    Then if they fail you,you can ask for remarking 

    - Emmanuel Ayooluwa - 2019-10-09 20:04:47 Quote

  • Madam, you have to watch yourself. Reseat for the exam and gain ground enough so you will be able to defend your answer booklet after been marked down. So all you need is to do it excellently and take the matter up when been downgraded. No one will kill you for doing that

    - Oloruntobi Emmanuel Fapohunda - 2019-10-09 20:08:51 Quote

  • To me, it has been a serious issue that each school (higher institutions) must work on. Rather than a lecturer that doesn't know how the student has been struggling to become a person in his/her efforts and just to conclude it, a lecturer from no where will just show up  to ruin the student'life,...... 

    All the panel of each institutions must come together to reason to this issue, for solution

    - Jinadu Oluwadamilola Solomon - 2019-10-09 20:09:54 Quote

    • This is quite serious. I think you should report this case to police and try as much as possible to get a strong evidence. You can record your next conversation with them as proof. If you decide to sleep with them they might still fail you not to mention other health hazards that would come with it.

    - Soromtochi Chilaka - 2019-10-09 20:14:48 Quote

  • ​​​​​​what a wicked people are they,since you slept with one you can not avoid the ignore the others but SIS you need to take your stand and pray that God will touch there heart 

    - Abioye Damilola - 2019-10-09 20:16:43 Quote

  • I think that it is beat that you report this issue to a senior officer in the school then tell your parents but try as much as you can to get a solid evidence so that you can sue them to court .

    - Onoyima Chukwuemeka Francis - 2019-10-09 20:18:13 Quote

  • Well, you are definitely in a state of dilemma and that's understandable, but with this at hand it's a very serious situation. I wouldn't support you sleeping with the other three lecturers nor letting yourself fail the course as well. My advice for you is to get concrete evidence on their intentions probably a recorded conversation with one of them and report the matter to a trust worthy lecturer or the guidance and counselling unit. I am sure that should yield a positive result as not all staffs and lecturers would be that promiscuous 

    - ILORI IFEOLUWA - 2019-10-09 20:21:25 Quote

  • They told you if 'you want to pass without reading' according to your post. What were you expecting? To not read but pass automatically? This is one of the problems with Some Nigerian students. We deliberately bring problems to ourselves. It's okay if you don't really understand a particular course. All you have to do is study harder, use past questions or make enquiries with others who are more knowledgeable than you and see if you won't still pass. But No! We all want shortcut to success. 

    - Eunice Bassey - 2019-10-09 20:35:55 Quote

  • This is very common to Nigeria tertiary institutions and unless all these lecturers are brought to book and they face the judgement ,it will not stop and another thing is you must make sure the faults is not from you too,i believe setting one of them up will help you solve the issue.

    - Taiwo Itunuoluwa - 2019-10-09 20:37:26 Quote

  • Well,thank God you have a little concience left in you. Personally, i suggest you should stop thinking about the convocation and focus on your study. You need to make through your own effort and stop trading your body with marks for you can contact all this dreaded disease such as hiv which can geopardise your future

    - Promise Chijioke - 2019-10-09 20:49:09 Quote

  • You still have a ground.  I believe one of your best options will be to set them up. Plant a camera or have someone recordyour conversation withthemasking you to do the deed. You'll pass your courses and get even more

    - Nedolisa Onyeka - 2019-10-09 21:01:48 Quote

  • My dear you are the cause of your problem. Looking at your story very well i can see a line where a criteria was given to you "if you do not read very well" meaning you did not do your own part as a student but wanting to pass the course, nothing they say comes easy. You brought this on yourself and even went ahead to sleep with one of them even knowing the consequencies.

    Well i will advise you retrace your step. Seat back and study your book as if it is the last thing you hold in this world. Do not sort any lecturer with your body. You can make it on your own

    - Ukaha Edith - 2019-10-09 21:12:50 Quote

  • I feel your pain my dear. But sincerely i can tell you that you shouldn't make a big mistake og not letting your parents know what's going on and nothing should be hidden because it will be a great scar if you're totally frustrated and tempted to want to sleep with the other lecturers which they might ended up not making you to scale through in the end. Talk to God in prayer and Am sure something good will happen. 

    - John Alabi - 2019-10-09 21:13:14 Quote

  • My sister i can see it in your post that you are not a prayerful person, you can even settle this matter wth your God even without saying it to anyone, God can do it for you just go on your knees and take the matter to your God and read also with this trust me you will see your results and give thank to God

    - Joshua Ayomide - 2019-10-09 21:16:23 Quote

  • Help!!! Lectures are sharing me   

    I think you take the case to court so that they will jugde them and to know the father of the child the court are going to verify that in hospital .so that when you deliver the child they should know the person among who is going to take responsibility of the child 

    - Salihu Mohammed - 2019-10-09 21:22:54 Quote

  • In this kind of situation, the school management needs to be informed. All you need to do is to report to the appropriate authority in the school, the power that supperceeds the lecturers to make them face the strict school law. Probably, you can record their voice while telling you about s8x in other to have evidence when you report them.

    - Olugbenga Owoeye - 2019-10-09 21:25:48 Quote

  • In this kind of situation, the school management needs to be informed. All you need to do is to report to the appropriate authority in the school, the power that supperceeds the lecturers to make them face the strict school law. Probably, you can record their voice while telling you about s8x in other to have evidence when you report them.

    - Olugbenga Owoeye - 2019-10-09 21:25:48 Quote

  • You were the one who brought it self down and also u gave them the privilege to do so only calling of some youth in d school to do rally will help to stop that and don't also agree be wise. 

    Enough is enough for the wise

    - OKHAKUMHE CLEMENT - 2019-10-09 21:30:43 Quote

  • Put all this best I. Studying,  they will have no options that to pass you. Pay someone  who knows the course  to teach you  and be determined  to do your  best.  Where.  You  pass on merit  he will have no option  that to let you  go.  Your  faulted  when you  agree to his options 

    - Itoro Akpan - 2019-10-09 21:34:04 Quote

  • Am also a student of fuoye ,never knew this is happening in our school as well,this is really frustrating sis,but I want you not to be fraustrated ,tell it to God ,he is your father he will hear you and deal with them .

    - Akinfenwa David - 2019-10-09 22:09:56 Quote

  • See dear, this is your finals and there's nothing  you can do about it, you have already started having s*x with one of them so go on and finish with the rest. If you don't want to get pregnant, you go and do family planning, atleast go so the can administer noristrant into your body, it will prevent you from getting pregnant for one month 

    - Nwosu Vincent - 2019-10-09 22:21:09 Quote

  • Well you made the first mistake by sleeping with one of them when you know they are four lecturers handling the course,the best thing is to report to the school authorities and also try put it in prayers, try your best to read n pass the course,the lord strengthen you like he did to my sister when she was faced with something similar to yours, don't give up, you have come a long way.

    - Dick Ezinne - 2019-10-09 22:26:53 Quote

  • This kind of issue so rampant in our dear sister, you should have let the authority know what was going on before you had the first sex... But, i know with God all things are possible, tender your matter before him, am very sure he will take absolute comtrol

    - Bankole David Oluwatobiloba - 2019-10-11 18:00:11 Quote

  • The mistake here is you shouldn't have had anything with any of the lecturers. You can report them to higher authorities with enough evidence, that's the only way you can get yourself out of the mess

    - Zainab Abidemi - 2019-10-11 18:18:45 Quote

  • Don't make sleeping with them an option. You can expose all of them  by either planing with friends or recording them and post it anonymously let them go viral. You should  even report the issue to the school authorities with the proof(the audio or video record) 

    - Nicholas Temiloluwa - 2019-10-11 22:51:52 Quote

  • This is what most lecturers do with some of their students.they make students especially the female ones have s3x with them in another to pass their course for them.sometimes dey even threaten the student that if she dosent agree he would fail her even if she passes.i think the best thing to do is to report to the school management.

    - Ugwuodo Jonas - 2019-10-11 22:52:56 Quote

  • That's  my problem  with  some girls. ...why would  you  sleep with  any at first  place?  My advice  is  that  you should  look for  any female  lecturer that's  in  high authority  and  report  to her and  pray God inintervention. 

    - kosisochukwu Blessing - 2019-10-11 23:18:07 Quote

  • The mistake has already been made by you sleeping with one of them. But still you need to report them to a senior authority which preferably a female so as for her to understand and take action immediately before it's too late.

    - Owoyemi Motunrayo - 2019-10-12 09:21:13 Quote

  • Wow this kind of news is usually a sad one to hear, you should not have made the step in sleeping with the first lecturer   

    My own candid advice is to try reporting to the right agency

    - Okechukwu Stanley - 2019-10-12 18:38:37 Quote

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