Helping Depression In Relationship Matters

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It is disheartening and bitter to see many dies of depression in our world of today. Many has forgotten that the power to be happy lies in there hands. 

It is a wrong occurrence to allow another man or woman determine your happiness. The moment you allow an outsider becomes a major determinant to your joy, then you should know it that depression is set to set in sooner. 

Men and women might fail you but believe me there are many other good guys and ladies out there who are ready to take you for who you are. 

Be your self and be real. Never try to please anyone in a relationship by adjusting there ways of life. Show your real color and tell who you are to your partner. 

Not complaining about your ways of doing things means he/she is pleased with your ways of life. 

Acting to be who he wants you to be will in no time lead to hatred, fighting, bulling and beating which are major component of depression. 

Please say no to depression in your relationship by being a self motivator/determinant  towards your happiness.

What do you all think guys?? 

Helping depression in relationship matters - By Zayyan Shaibu - 2019-09-25 11:55:55

I wont even wish depression on my worst enemy. It sucks out your very being, and the saddest aspect is that even if there are others there, they might not be able to drag you out.

i just suggest to keep up with the persons personal health and to see a therapist if need be, a professional therapist, not your local wise man/woman. People need to take mental heath more seriously.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Henry Moore - 2019-09-25 11:58:37

Depression has a lot to do with low esteem and it occurs regularly when one experiences failed relationship. To get over it one has to reevaluate the relationship and see what are the gains of being in a relationship one is not valued. If the situation is so then  let go and move on with your life.

It's better to get involved in  activities that would make one happy. Believe in yourself and  know that there's always someone out there who would appreciate you for who you are. See a psychologist if need be . There's always sunshine after the rain.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Obinwanne Nwizu - 2019-09-25 12:22:38

I do not agree that you shouldn't go out of your way to please someone you're in a relationship with. The fact is that relationships are all about going out of your way and making sacrifices. It is only wrong if the sacrifices are one-sided- that is, if it's only one party making the sacrifice. 

So, I think the sentence should look more like this: "do not go out of your way to please someone who wouldn't go out of his/her way for you. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By kosisochukwu Blessing - 2019-09-25 12:28:02

Depression is really  bad and  is  very important for someone  going  through  it to see a therapist. If you are not  happy  in your  relationship is better you quit the  relationship and  go for  what makes you happy. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By TOCHUKWU KINGSLEY OKOYE - 2019-09-25 12:57:44

Depression is really a bad thing and we should always try to be happy no matter the situation in life. We should never allow ourselves to fall victim of depression and anxiety because it can lead to one committing suicide. 

No matter the situation you find yourself in whether it's in a relationship or not we should always try to be positive and believe better days will come. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Austin Chinedu - 2019-09-25 13:08:42

Depression is one of the worst sickness in any relationship, depression comes with many negatives thought like sadness, kill joy you are pressure and always thinking of negatives thought, in any relationship you don't see joy, happiness the best way out is you quit that relationship of your life.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Adebayo Gbenga - 2019-09-25 13:15:56

Feeling depressed  or depression  could cause so many Hazard on human being, at that time nothing in life would seem meaningful to you, you would feel like doing anything just to rid of that depression at that particular moment and it's can leads to committing of suicide,so I think the best to do anytime you feel depressed is to talk to somebody about it

And you would just feel better after letting it out, and always remember that your case is not as worst of those out there, no matter how worst you think your case is, there are still people that you are way better than out there and they are just doing fine

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Adeniran Adebola - 2019-09-25 13:38:45

plsease everyone should avoid depression

Depression can lead to many things if your partner is making you unhappy please leave that person he/she is not meant to be yours because relationship is supposed to bring happiness to ones live not depression

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Esther Nwachukwu - 2019-09-25 13:59:07

I won't wish depression on any one even my enemy, because it kills. I was once a victim of depression in relationship, I thank God that I am free today, I thank God for my life today. Depression can be hazardous on human being, at that time nothing in life seams meaningful to you, U feel the best thing to do it to take your own life.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Devin Glory - 2019-09-25 14:45:59

Well depression can be helped or be avoided if we act carefully on this we pay attention to.. 

Sometimes majority of the bitterness couples are going through in their relationship would have been avoided if they learn to respect their partners privacy and avoid some conversations... 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Ndukwe Ikechukwu - 2019-09-25 16:00:17

Depression is one of the worst state of mind one could be in as it opens the mind to all sorts of negative thoughts including the dreaded suicide thought. Whenever you feel depressed in a relationship try to forget what must have lead to the situation band try to unwind.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Adisa Olamilekan - 2019-09-25 16:07:10

Depression is not a good thing at times depression lead to sucide if care is not taking so don't let anyone create depression in your life be strong and focus with whatever serious you are interested into.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Okonkwo Olisaemeka - 2019-09-25 16:35:04

Depression is a very bad condition that can stay as a life-long problem. People suffering from it feel that they're not important or that nobody can understand their feelings. The best way to deal with someone who is depressed is to spend more time with them and always show them love. It'll take a while but the effect will be lasting.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By IFEANYI NWOKEDI - 2019-09-25 17:37:55

Well it is those who suffers from inferiority complex will allow other to run there lives for them. Self worth,self confidence and integrity are factors than enhance ones ability. If one allows him/ herself to be drawn into depressed mode you are on your own for me no dull moment Depression is far from me.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Ilesanmi Iyanuoluwa - 2019-09-25 18:05:10

When depression is already setting in , the best thing is to opt out of that relationship. And by the way , I dont think pleasing people is a bad thing , there are some things you have to keep to yourself for a better relationship. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Taiwo Itunuoluwa - 2019-09-25 18:10:47

Everyone go through depression at a particular stage of one's life but the difference is the number of days for them to get over it ,depression is not good,it kills if not properly handle

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Samuel Olarewaju - 2019-09-25 19:01:07

In this life what we all need to do is to be outspoken, and also be mindful of people you tell your problems to, there's nothing in this world that Don't have a solution just pray to God he's the only one that can help you out with what you are going through

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Omotolani Ruth - 2019-09-25 19:08:12

I belive it is not proper to allow someone else be your source of happiness or without a certain person or something you can't be happy it shouldn't be like that.

Let us all learn how to make ourselves happy without the appearance or help of anyone.and also when in a relationship let also learn to act and be who we are we shouldn't put on someone's else's image just because we don't wanna lose our relationship or partner.am not saying we shouldn't make them happy or make our relationship lively but let learn to be yourselves. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By David Nwankwo - 2019-09-25 19:36:20

Depression has a lot to do with low esteem and it occurs regularly when one experiences failed relationship. To get over it one has to reevaluate the relationship and see what are the gains of being in a relationship one is not valued. If the situation is so then  let go and move on with your life.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Nwosu Vincent - 2019-09-25 19:38:33

Yaeh this is the truth and only but the truth. Never allow depression to be part of you in a relationship. Know who you are and act as you are and not acting as demanded by your partner because if you do it might result to another problem in future

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Cecilia Tolulope - 2019-09-25 20:10:09

Depression is a very bad, don't ever feel less in a relationship your partner should not make you feel less of yourself and also your happiness lies in your hand, always make yourself happy and never give up on yourself. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Obalu Johnkennedy Kenechukwu - 2019-09-25 20:11:39

Indeed you are a motivator..

I am glad many still have it in mind to be their brothers keeper because depression has eaten deeper than we think in the lives of we youths.

To stay out of depressed life you need to be happy always and to achieve it, you need to be successful and I must warn us that we do not need anyone to tell us that we are successful because they didn't know how far we have gone with our goals .... 

Beware of Destiny Distroyers ( DD )

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Shalom Michael - 2019-09-25 20:28:47

Depression is killer disease and shouldn't be welcomed at all. Happiness comes from external factors and its momentary but joy comes from within. People should learn to love themselves first before loving others and to take life as the most precious gift and let no one take that away.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Richard Ngirigwa - 2019-09-25 20:50:09

I wonder why people make such mistakes, or choices. 

I once heard about a lady, she drank sniper all in the name of "he broke my heart" what nonsense, a guy also. 

The one that shocked me most was of a guy that committed suicide because he failed an exam. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Omosivwe Jonathan - 2019-09-25 20:59:33

When you’re in a relationship with someone there shouldn’t be any reason to form or act like what you’re not just to impress the person. You should be yourself and your partner will learn to love you for who you are, if he/she doesn’t then now you know that person isn’t right for you. And more sadly some people act in ways they’re not comfortable with just to make the partner happy and that’s wrong. You shouldn’t make someone happy at the expense of your own happiness, it’s totally wrong. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Otito Okigbo - 2019-09-25 21:07:00

Your right, well all of this i found out later on after going through a very depressing period when I was having issues with my girlfriend and the way she hangs out with the so called Yahoo fraudsters. I always felt it's cause I wasn't loaded like them and she always choose them over me, really hurt cause she was the one that made me feel the way no woman has ever felt before

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Onwa Matthew - 2019-09-25 21:13:32

Yes, you have spoken well. I think we should adhere to this advice. You don't need allow someone determine your happiness. No matter the situation, don't worry be happy. Always do what will make you feel good and happy.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Idi Grace - 2019-09-25 21:36:54

It's true don't do things in relationships to please your partner because you will surely get tired of pretending someday. Trying to please someone is like denying yourself of being who you are and one day your real colour will come out so just be yourself then the person will love you for who you are. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Paul Raphael - 2019-09-25 21:48:28

Depression can really become a serious psychological problem. If a person is having a level of depression there is need to tackle it that moment before it becomes a extreme case. It's best to fill your days with happiness and don't let anyone take your joy away.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Paul Raphael - 2019-09-25 21:48:42

Depression can really become a serious psychological problem. If a person is having a level of depression there is need to tackle it that moment before it becomes a extreme case. It's best to fill your days with happiness and don't let anyone take your joy away.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Famakinwa Mercy Hannah - 2019-09-25 21:52:36

Depression is not good and it's easily kills, it's better to get over what that can depress you and go on with life and be happy in whatsoever you do

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Goodness Onuchukwu - 2019-09-25 22:00:19

Depression is one of the worst things that can happen to any one. This is the very reason why people take their own lives, because they feel it's better to be dead than depressed. As someone who wants to be in a relationship, apart from being yourself, i would advice you find out who you really are and what profitable things you want to be actively engaged in. This is because, if one enters headlong into a relationship without finding out his or herself, you become so engrossed in that relationship that you begin to feel neglected by your partner. And because there's nothing more in your head aside that relationship, depression might begin to set in. So I'd say, spend your time on quality activities and escape the monster called depression.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Jesutofunmi Igbokoyi - 2019-09-25 22:00:37

Depression doesn't come in relationships or because of relationships. I know it might not be easy, but I'd advise that any and everyone going through depression should see a therapist. If a relationship is toxic, flee! Stay away from anything that brings you depression no matter how important it is. Nothing is more important than your life and sanity. Please let's stay safe.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Onekeneke prince - 2019-09-25 23:16:01

One sure key to disappointment, failure and depression is trying to please everyone. Depression is something that no human should pass through, happiness is free but most people don’t understand that. Depression comes stage by stage till you end up taking your life, so cut off anyone that likes putting an end to your joy and be happy.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Onabanjo Rereloluwa - 2019-09-26 02:00:19

Converse with one individual about your emotions 

Help another person by volunteering 

Eat or espresso with a companion 

Request that a friend or family member check in with you normally 

Go with somebody out to a movie theater, a show, or a little social affair 

Call or email an old companion 

Take a stroll with an exercise pal 

Calendar a week after week supper date 

Meet new individuals by taking a class or joining a club 

Trust in a pastorate part, educator, or sports mentor

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Olatayo Olaoluwa - 2019-09-26 02:04:43

I hear of this almost all the time and am like would you love me for who I am if when we started dating I wasn't financially okay and after 6 years I am still the same way. Wake up people no one will love you for who you are if you don't have a good character in place and even if you do have a good character in place you still have to update yourself each day in day out. The word you will find someone that will love you for who you are is wrong 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Abdulmaleek Habib - 2019-09-26 03:45:33

depression is a very dangerous state which when someone find his/herself into finds it difficult to come out off, so I don't pray or which depression on anyone close to me. Being real just how to avoid it. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Adewunmi blessing - 2019-09-26 05:48:18

This depression of a thing is really more than this...is another text book in its own...psychologically you need to be happy with yourself....with all the happenings and ur troubles one should be more stronger... There's no one without an issue.... Some partners will not even open up...they jeep it to their selves....hurting their self...we must learn to find happiness for our self....

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Idris Muhibbah - 2019-09-26 07:19:08

I think you're right

No one should be in hold of your happiness only then can you be happy, don't get depressed because of things that sometimes don't matter when you can provide all that you need

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Temitope John - 2019-09-26 08:36:38

I think we are all guilty of this. Depression is a very serious issue and the problem is we try to attach our happiness to people around us. While that is not a bad thing entirely, the moment you start to let another person take away your joy is when the problem starts. You are responsible for yourself. Be the source of your happiness. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Owolabi kikelomo - 2019-09-26 09:07:10

Depression is a heart sucking. If care is no taken, it can take ones life quickly. All i do is to be happy everyday. Not that I don't have troubles but I still want to live long. So i just put it aside. In every relationship, try to stay happy. Because happiness is part of the pillar that strengthen any relationship. Some people just desire you being in their shoes. So for you to avoid that from happening, just have to be happy and strong.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Victor Oladele - 2019-09-26 09:40:48

Yes oh, you have spoken reasonably well. One thing I have learnt in life is that to reduce dissapointments and depression, you have to lower your expectations from human beings. Expectations can really be misleading 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Olamide Oluwatosin - 2019-09-26 14:19:58

Depression is a very deadly disease as it suck like parasite, it's better we take responsibility of our own self than depending on someone else, especially in a relationship don't ever think that guy or lady will always be there for you all the time. Make yourself happy and take good care of yourself. 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By OLALEKAN OLADAPO - 2019-09-26 15:09:55

It is unfortunate to see how depression is destroying things and people in our societies today.many have killed themselves believing they can make it or probably because their spouse dump them.you have every right to be happy as the key lies in your hand to be happy.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Okpala Obinna - 2019-09-26 23:38:24

The word depression is a case of being in a mood where by if not controlled goes into a full hare fire because depression is a mood where I won't advise anyone to go into because it's really a bad omen!!!

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Jude Aguoru - 2019-09-26 23:45:30

Depression is not a good thing at all. It's a joy killer and has the ability to make you less productive.

When you've failed in so many things including relationships, depression sets in. From studies and research, failure has being the main cause of depression.

Food for thought "the key to happiness is in your hands, don't let emotions weigh you down because its man's greatest enemy".

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Ayeni Oluwatosin - 2019-09-27 05:30:28

You've actually hit the nail on the head. Most depression in homes arouse from self inferiority and i ability of partners to take up challenges. As a mature adult it is neccessary that you are bold enough and courageous to face challenges. Husbands that are hard working expects their wives to be equally so. This is a wrong concept, it shouldn't be so ,because women no matter how strong can never be equated with men. However some women are apparently intelligent than some men. Therefore both should be caareful not to cause the other to be depressed.

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Rotimi Adebayo - 2019-09-27 09:52:32

I am with you, you have just give a word of encouragement, a word of motivation. In real life, we try to win people's hearts by doing what they want or what will please then , whearas we are only ruining ourselves, nice one sir

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Deborah ibukun - 2019-09-27 10:22:14

from my own point of view ,depression is the most dreadful diseases .most people in the world today are dying of depression sum with d case of not being love,no friends,abusive words,poverty and many more ,we ourselves can help eradicate depression. The first and important step to take to eradicate depression is to love yourself.If u can love urself for who u are,depression will Neva step in .Thanks 

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Helping depression in relationship matters - By Akanu-ibiam Onyekachi - 2019-09-27 10:44:39

I am in support of wht=at you have said and am happy i have seen someone who knows the right way to live ... 

Being your self is very important when your in a relationship.. let the person love your for who your and not who he or she wants it to be . But this implies only when your sure what you are doing is the right thing to do and you are potraying the right character and values but when you dnt posses good values and potray a ood character, your partner has the right to change and be a better version of your self..

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