Holding High The Flag Of Love By Chris

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Hi dear sister of God, you are doing the best you possibly can to support your husband and children yet he is not appreciative of your efforts, I urge you to continue to hold high up, that flag of love. I do understand that the experience can be most traumatising, demotivating and frustrating, but please continue to show the love of Christ for your husband. 

You sometimes have to pay school fees, practically responsible for the upkeep of the home, yet your husband embarrasses you with comments to suggest you are not doing enough, do not be discouraged despite the obvious pain. Continue to hold the flag of love for heaven to reward you with a solution and testimony. 

After spending your entire salary to support the home, you sometimes still have to borrow to ensure basic necessities are available but your "spirit filled" husband has been ungrateful in his relationship with you, I urge you to continue to lift him up in prayers for a change of attitude. 

Dear brother, you pay school fees, rent and other bills in the home and promptly too but your tongue speaking wife has no understanding of appreciation and encouragement.... Hmmmm!!!! " This can break a man down. Please do not give up on your wife. I urge you to take up your flag of love and hold it high there for Jehovah to see and intervene. 

You are consistently nagged by your wife for some of the responsibilities you do not yet have the empowerment to provide in the home, let your anger do not go beyond the specified time, keep loving your wife while you continue to pray to God for solutions. 

Dear husband/wife, if the tempter wants to use money issues to tempt you and then tear your family apart, consent thou not... The streams of income will yet overflow but only if amongst other things, you continue to hold high the flag of love. 

Jesus didn't promise us that marriage will be a bed of roses.. God didn't say that you will never be offended by your spouse. Our earthly and spiritual parents didn't tell us that everything in marriage will be done your way, style and approach. Our marriage counsellors did tell us clearly that issues that will try our patience and resilience will occasionally come between you and your spouse. 

To hate your spouse for her "bad" attitude is to say to God that your salvation was as a result of your good works. 

The recession will be over soon! The tides will change in your family. Stop treating your spouse with hatred. God is a God of love. 

Take note:

Love is a solution but hatred is not 

Love inspires good works but hatred evokes only evil

Love brings quick answers to prayers but hatred closes the Heavens. 

Love is not something anyone merits but what God graciously gives. Do not be fixated on the ingratitude of your spouse but be inspired by God's grace that you have received to meet certain financial, physical and matrimonial obligations. 

Your spouse may not show appreciation but note that God is taking note of your labour of love for your family and, in due season, He will reward you adequately. 

Do not quench the fire of love in your marriage. No! Not even Nagging, verbal abuse, ingratitude, denial of sex, laziness, lack of submission, etc.. 

All our actions and inactions will certainly come under God's judgment. Marriage is a ministry for which God will demand accountability from each partner. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Ayuba Samson - 2019-09-27 14:17:32

Wow that's a very good words of encouragement that can make family and relationship to last together even i the time of resecion is always good to make our spouse feel loved and keep them together.


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Paul Tochukwu - 2019-09-27 14:39:49

Marriage is not an easy task at all,  I just like that word of yours keep holding the flag of love high.  In our society today you hardly see a home that don't have one issue if is not from the husband it will be from the wife. The thing is that only the couple of this generation will have it in their that marriage is approved by God and he knows every challenge you are having in it what we have to do as is said on the post is to hold the flag of love high and attached it with prayer hoping that soon things will be better for good. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Oletu Cornelius - 2019-09-27 14:48:32

The pain many women pass through in the name of marriage is excruciating. This post is an encouragement to many. Marriage never promise to be a bed of rose 🌹 but many women end up at the receiving end. This will strengthen them. That for helping with your post.


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Ruth Oyeleke - 2019-09-27 16:57:55

May God help us,  in marriage, the husband and wife have to be determined to give their best,  its not good for the good deeds to be one-sided,  we need each other. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Prince Ezinwa - 2019-09-27 18:49:17

You made a good point dear, God is love there is nothing I mean absolutely nothing a man can do in life without love, you see when the devil noticed you are doing the right thing leaving your best life of righteousness, he comes to destroy that which you have, he comes to deprive you of that right and level which the lord has lifted you up to.remember yhr devil came to steal, kill and to destroy. but the son of God came to give life in aboundance, so do no let the trials and tribulations of life bring you down. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Emmanuel Agbasielo - 2019-09-28 00:16:20

Wow, this is great. To tell you the truth,marriage is not a child's play ooo. One must be ready to face the ups and downs in it. Marriage is for the strong, marriage is for those who are ready to endure forever and tolerate the excesses of the other person involved. Thanks a lot for this post.


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Oretan Ayomipo Micheal - 2019-09-28 00:43:00

This is a great word of encouragement for every relationship I believe this will help to build up a strong up a happy and successful family.... Love is truly a gift of life that people should cherish and never take for granted but most people don't understand concept of love and how to treat their partner well in their relationship


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Omosivwe Jonathan - 2019-09-28 18:46:45

Thank you for this message, really educative. Couples should understand that as they live together there’s bound to be misunderstandings and arguments and in all of that, they should let love lead and temper justice with temperament. As a man, respect your woman in every sense of it and as a woman;do same and you’d find out that your relationship will be filled with happiness and joy as God’s promised. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Okwute Chinecherem - 2019-09-28 20:31:07

Marriage is not a bed of roses but so many women suffer in their marriages and see what they didn't plan or expect to happen in such marriages but God will see them through. Thanks for this post so encouraging. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Okafor Chigaemezu Ifeanyi - 2019-09-29 07:13:07

I thank you for talking about this. There are many families that hacmve broken up because of this. I believe that if they had been showing more love and patience to each other, then maybe things would have been better for them. Our married people please listen to this advise for the betterment of your marriage. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Abubakar Sadeeq Salihu - 2019-09-29 13:18:06

something about love if any of you want to show that you care so that somebody cannot take that person away from you but if you overdo it you come and regret it later I have done that twice and it really pains me a lot deep down my heart I don't know what to do I will only give up and forget the past to me I don't know how much I spend on a girl I don't care even if it is hundred thousand I spend on a girl as long as you show me there is no more interested fine I know the money I lost I will definitely get it one day and I'm a man I can work hard to get it all I need to do is stay humble and get you your girl who stay with you for the rest of my life


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Olaniyan Damilola - 2019-09-29 19:08:37

I've always been scared if this thing that call marriage,  but this piece strengthen me,  this writer deserve an accolade,  marriage isn't bed of roses,  it is the coming together of two imperfect humans becoming one body and living together forever,  interesting we think,  but tough to succeed.  May we all succeed in our own marriage 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Idi Grace - 2019-09-29 22:50:07

When there is love nothing is impossible, even God loved us so much that he died on the cross for us. I believe even if a couple encounter a problem in their home and their is love they can resolve everything immediately. We forgive and tolerate each other because of the love we have for each other. 


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Ndukwe Ikechukwu - 2019-09-29 22:55:02

In this era were men have become so lazy as to leave the responsibility of the entire house hold to the wife is increasing, family love and ties tend to weaken. It's not always easy for the women to cope in situations like that but as they say let love lead. Even if you spouse doesn't care God does and he alone will reward your labour of love.


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By derek Obot - 2019-09-30 00:19:14

Sometimes in the family the burden of  caring  for the family is always one sided but whichever way it is in your family whether as a man or woman just keep on  doing the good deed for the love of the family


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Dairo Idowu - 2019-10-01 15:25:04

I strongly agree with you but to be realistic is not an easy task to bear those and still continue doing the work. It will get to a stage been a man or woman you will be discourage but with the grace of God, you will scape through.


Holding high the flag of love by Chris - By Olaifa Kikelomo - 2019-10-14 15:12:43

The pressure under marriage is too much though am not married but I am a mother of one but the pressure I went through despite the fact that we not living together is only me that understand it but still am still trying my best to keep our relationship alive.  But sometimes I do wonder if we get married how am I gonna cope with him.