Dilemma: How Can I Get Rid Of The Love I Have For Him?
2013/2014 While I was in secondary school, I had a crush on a guy (Gbenga) but I never showed it, he was close to my best friend's boyfriend.
Later on, Gbenga came to me and told me he has interest in me for a long time but couldn't tell it out, after a month. I decided to give him a chance.... We started dating, after a week he started misbehaving, I see him a lot with different girls in school, I do feel jealous and called him to ask him about the girls, he will always deny it.
Later I got to know he's dating another close friend of mine. After a month, had to let go since the relationship is not working out. After some months. A guy (Vincent) from Gbenga's class walked up to me boldly to tell me he also have interest in me. I refuse to date Vincent because I still love Gbenga. Vincent kept on disturbing me and I kept loving the guy that never looked my side.
To cut the story short I later got to know that Vincent is Gbenga's best friend. I really wanted to take revenge on Gbenga for all he did to me, so I decided to date Vincent. Vincent changed everything about me. He is Handsome, honestly, caring and will go extra miles for me. Always buy me things. We spent hours together everyday. We share a lot of memories together. He will always come to my side and I do go to his side.
My parents got to know and they always beat the hell out of me telling me am still young to start having relationship. That is how I fell in love with Vincent. After we finished our secondary school We still get along with each other not until I gained admission 2015. Things changed, we couldn't reach each other again.... Later I started living a different life without Vincent...... I never forget Vincent. Now Vincent is back and Am in another relationship which have known my fiance family.
What should I do???