How Can I Make Them Reconcile?
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years now and our relationship is so smooth that he's already thinking marriage. I've met all his siblings and we're all cool. One of the younger sisters came to spend her holiday with me the last time. I refused meeting hss Mum, and i also refused letting him meet my parents when they came visiting. Not because I don't love him enough or have something to hide, I'm not just ready for such introductions.
Although all my siblings are aware of us but they are yet to meet because of distance and location. He's been looking forward to my younger sisters visit and same as her. But she's kinda antisocial and has a hard time interacting with new faces. If you don't know or understand her, you could call her rude.... And that was exactly what happened.
He tried to be free and playful but she's rather reserved. They couldn't get along well and he told me in her presence that she's rude, he doesn't like her and might never want to see her again. When I tried to talk about it, he repeated same thing and I've been quiet about it since then. He stopped coming over to my place and prefer we see outside just to avoid her. I asked her and she said she likes him but doesn't just know how to be free and playful with him.
I'm unhappy and uncomfortable about it but in as much as I love him deep, she's my sister and they have to get along. It's stressful and I don't know what to do. Some times I blame myself for not mentioning her attitude before her arrival, like I'm the cause of it all. I'm so confused, pls any advice?