How Can I Stop Having S8x With My Younger Sister?

I am 20 years old I have a younger sister who is 17 years old, but right from the age of 11 then she was 8, we started having s8xual inter-course, oftentimes I try to stop it but it's now a habbit and I find it difficult to stop. We can't stay a month without having sex with each other, I can't stop it neither can she, we've visited many prayer houses for counseling , yet to no avail.

Please in really need  your advice please ?

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  • To my own suggestion, I would advise both of you to stay far away from each other. I mean one of you should travel far away so such act won't tend to occur any longer. Mere looking at this, it is beyond spiritual situation I think. It has become an addiction. So,my advise for you is to stay away from one another for the time being.

    - Adekeye Stephen - 2019-09-25 17:46:03 Quote

  • Firstly, inform your parent or guardian about it and your desire to stop or it and if you feel inconvenient to tell them, inform an elderly person that you can confide in for proper counsel and above it all, stay out of sight with your sister so as to starve the emotion. 

    - MICHAEL ADEGBENRO - 2019-09-25 17:46:07 Quote

  • The best option is to stay far away from each other and it’s not something natural you both need prayer and forgiveness from God you need to let your parents know about this so they can keep an Eye out for you guys Incase you still attempt it 

    - Rasheed Lukmon - 2019-09-25 18:05:46 Quote

  • Brother you and your sister truly need help, is your parents aware of this? Because is an abomination that you both are committing, better. Be open up to your parents so that they may know what to do next.

    - Nwagwu Chiwendu - 2019-09-25 18:12:21 Quote

  • Have you tried separations? You can't have s8x with someone you can't see, go to a far away land, start afresh, cut all ties and link with her for the time being... I'm very sure that will work

    - Mathew Paul - 2019-09-25 18:18:50 Quote

  • This is terrible ugly, all what you need to do now is to inform your parent about it and to seek counseling from a pastor and you need to control yourself also whenever you have the urge of s8x try to leave  the house completely go to a place very far away from her. It's a continuous something I don't think it will end immediately but you have to try and avoid her maybe this, you will be free from such sickness.

    - Iniobong Mathew - 2019-09-25 18:19:09 Quote

  • First, tell your parents and the elders of your family

    Secondly, stay far away from each other

    Third, pray earnestly about it

    Lastly get busy with any other things aside s8x entirely. Good luck

    - Matthias O Michael - 2019-09-25 18:21:46 Quote

  • First of all tell you perent about it

    They will know the best way to handle that situation,  and again you guys should give your self a break,  what I mean is, one of you should travel or go and visit with any of the  family member,  so as to stay away from each other, any decision your parents will take should be final because they really want the best for you and will not mislead you so try and tell them about it

    - Patrick Juliet - 2019-09-25 18:28:04 Quote

  • You both need to stay far away from each other without disclosing your location to another for long period of time and within this time you both should try and have a partner like boyfriend or girlfriend that will take over the feeling away.

    - Olorode Fuad - 2019-09-25 18:35:27 Quote

  • You both should stay far away from each other and tell your parents not to allow you guys see each other till further notice because if you guys continue will this, it's gonna affect you guys in the future and while you are away from each other, make sure you go see a therapist/ counselor

    - Osikha Cynthia - 2019-09-25 18:36:22 Quote

  • Firstly, you need to seek forgiveness from God because your action is a sin and no religion condone such action, secondly I believe it's a psychological problem which will require you both to meet with a counselor or professional counseling and probably a therapy. Thirdly, I believe if you people can stay far away from each other for very long time, the feelings will wear off. 

    - Gbolagade Kazeem - 2019-09-25 18:40:11 Quote

  • My brother what you should do is that, stay far away from her,make sure you don't see her for a long period of time before things get worse. You can also tell your parents or old ones at home about it because i have seen its an addict in you already. Take one of those steps and you will get a solution.

    - Adekoya Ayomide - 2019-09-25 18:49:12 Quote

  • I want you to know that if you are eating a certain kind of food and it is affecting your system, i trust you will stop eating such. What you and your sister is doing is ruining your spiritual and future life, yet, you say it is difficult for you to stop it. For nine good years you have been s8xing your immediate younger sister and your parents don’t sense it, how careless? Are you waiting till you get her pregnant before you stop it, don’t you know you have brought a curse on your family? And you want to get married and raise your own children in the nearest future. Common! Do all you can to stop it. Involve your parents in it and let them find a means of helping you to stop this Addict which you introduced to your sister.

    - Jinatu Akinsola - 2019-09-25 18:57:02 Quote

  • I think you both should consult a counselor or a pastor 2 address the issue and pray for them because it's not only a physical problem but also a spiritual .and let your parent be aware so they can seperate you two. 

    - Nicholas Usiahon - 2019-09-25 18:59:48 Quote

  • In my opinion, you need to inform your parents about it. It is an addiction that has been fed for 9 years. It's not a joke. The solution will not be found in any prayer house. You need to take practical steps to destroy that addiction. Obviously your parents will need to send your sister to school far away from where you are but that alone won't be enough because there needs to be something or someone to replace the vaccum that your sister's absence will create. So you need to get a new hobby, new friends and get a girlfriend. Your parents also need to keep close watch on you so that your sister doesn't find a way to sneak back and still engage in the act with you. 

    - Victor Johnson - 2019-09-25 19:05:38 Quote

  • To my own opinion, I would advise both of you to stay far away from each other. I mean one of you should travel far away so such act won't tend to occur any longer. Mere looking at this,It has become an addiction. So,my advise for you is to stay away from one another for a while

    - olalekan Adetutu - 2019-09-25 19:15:16 Quote

  • You guys are really in a state of great ungodly speed,  in my opinion  is that you two should talk to your parents about it instead of counseling house,  talk to them and they will lead you right.... 

    - Ameh isaac - 2019-09-25 19:15:33 Quote

  • I'll advise your confess to your parents, and ask God for forgiveness, and your parents should take you both for deliverance because you guys have brought ccurse upon your selves.if not problem await you in the future

    - Ubi Samuel Ikpi - 2019-09-25 19:19:33 Quote

  • It's advisable both of you stay apart for a long period of time and during that period create a distraction for yourself try to adapt living without your younger sister being close to you.

    - Adebisi Opeyemi - 2019-09-25 19:21:27 Quote

  • Hmmm so somehow,  you guys should try and separate from each other, cause incest is a very  big sin unto God and you guys should pray and fast towards it let God have his way in your lives. 

    - Okwute Chinecherem - 2019-09-25 19:32:07 Quote

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    There is no situation beyond the spiritual.. this behavior of the above victim is the hand work of the devil.. the bible says anyone that does such act the punishment is barrenness, so all he has to do now is look for a true man off God to conduct deliverance for them and they must engage in fasting and prayers..

    - Odion Glory - 2019-09-25 19:47:12 Quote

  • This is serious and inhuman, only God forgives sincerely. You have to both pray and fast about it, also get counseling from one or two guidance counselor on how to overcome such incorrigible acts. In a little period of time, you get to learn more about abstaining from an unreputable doings of yours.

    - Oloruntobi Emmanuel Fapohunda - 2019-09-25 19:52:27 Quote

  • This is really serious.you should tell a good and responsible elders you are very close with,he will surely gives you the best thing you have to do about this and also be praying about it and i believe God will take perfect control

    - Idiris Opeyemi - 2019-09-25 20:04:36 Quote

  • Incest is a grave sin with dire consequences both now and in the future. First of all you have to seek for forgiveness from God and confess to your parents. After that look for a good church for deliverance from those curses.

    - Ndukwe Ikechukwu - 2019-09-25 20:10:50 Quote

  • The only solution i think you need to apply is the power of self discipline and self control,afterward you can alternatively venture into praying to God,then sit your sister down and make it clear to her you are sorry and let her know that it was a very preposterous thing which should stop immediately

    - Ilesanmi Olayinka - 2019-09-25 20:25:59 Quote

  • This is a serious situation that should not be toyed with, you are committing incest and you need spiritual help. How can you be attracted to your sister in that kind of way. That is crazy. 

    - Oseodion Aziegbemhin - 2019-09-25 20:39:39 Quote

  • The best way of stopping this habit is to stay far away from each other, if not you both try to get a s8x mate for each other which must be close to you that you can contact as soon as you feel like doing it, who will make you satisfy yourself when you feel like having s*x with your sister again or she feels like doing with you... Also don't always be together in a private place, always discuss any speech together in public, no private or secret discussion affairs and no sleeping together in the same room, with this you are free from the bondage....

    - Gbenga Makinde - 2019-09-25 20:39:58 Quote

  • Firstly you people should give your life to Christ totally because i believe it's a spiritual case,and only the lord can intervene.Then u and her should be separated to avoid any affection.Always pray against spirit of lust

    - Deborah Edmund - 2019-09-25 20:50:17 Quote

  • This is more spiritual than it is physical. You both really need to seek spiritual advice. Often at times, witches and wizard torment people this way. And having a personal believe that you are going to stop it will go a long way in helping matters.

    - Chidiebere Uzo - 2019-09-25 20:50:32 Quote

  • What an abomination!!...not only did it happen only once but every blessed month. Such a thing should not even be heard of, the earlier u desist from such act, the better🙏🏼.

    - Okorie Chidinma - 2019-09-25 20:51:53 Quote

  • Hmmmm, this is a taboo oo. What could have caused such a distasteful act? Anyway , you guys have ventured into it and most times trying to put an end to bad things proves to be very difficult. I suggest that since you have been to prayer houses and there is no solution , I suppose you both should keep a very good DISTANCE and if possible lose contact for a long period of time. Also guide it with prayers.

    - Ikenna Salvator - 2019-09-25 21:24:34 Quote

  • This is called incest, I'll advice the both of you stay away from each other for years that is maybe you go to your uncle's place to stay for some years so as to stop this abominable act. It's a great sin and it can bring the wrath of God upon your family.

    - Michael Abioye - 2019-09-25 21:39:41 Quote

  • Is simple you guys  should give your self a 1000 miles distance, in that way you will stop seeing each other for son years. I think in that way that evil spirit will leave the both of you alone.This is very crucial, apply wisdom.

    - Agu Emmanuel - 2019-09-25 21:54:34 Quote

  • If this yur story is true, then I believe you need psycological help. How will u be comfortable sleeping with your blood sister. If you trully feel remorse about it, then meet your parent and explain your evil doings over the years and everything will be solved.

    - Yusuf Lawal - 2019-09-26 02:16:00 Quote

  • it's a taboo to have s8x with one's blood but since situation is like this I would say you both are addicted to it and when you're addicted to something you tend to get it at all cost so it's better if both of you stay far away from each other .

    - Oke Olamilekan - 2019-09-26 02:41:17 Quote

  • Nothing is new under the sun. This may just be another case of spiritual family warfare. You  both should be open about it to your parents. Yeah. That should be a good start. Let your parents know ASAP. 

    - Ugo Manuel - 2019-09-26 02:53:26 Quote

  • I know in this case many people will say it is spiritual but it's just a normal thing because both of you have gotten used to each other the best thing to do is to stay apart for as long as possible if possible don't even communicate with each other then hopefully the sexual feeling will go away

    - Ekerete John - 2019-09-26 03:22:39 Quote

  • Firstly you need to ask God for forgiveness because your actions are incest. Then I think you both needs to be checked in into a rehabilitation center, where your idealism of sleeping with your sister will be changed over time.

    - Onekeneke prince - 2019-09-26 06:40:14 Quote

  • My brother the act you both are into is an abomination, the land and God's forbid it, expose the ugly act to ur parent and relations around, go for deliverance, engage midnight prayers for 21 day, u can as well have a girlfriend, your sis should love another boy. Pls stop is bad, discipline yourself Biko I bag in the name of God pls😭😭

    - Obi Gladys Ifelunwa - 2019-09-26 06:40:40 Quote

  • Well, since you said you've visited alot of pastor's and prayer houses, I will say you leave that environment probably go to a place we're your sister won't have acess to you and remain there and also soak yourself in prayers never giveup. Don it in two to three month you see hatred for Sin. And also do away with you phones don't call anyone for three month.

    - Okoro chidiebere Henry - 2019-09-26 07:02:14 Quote

  • This is obviously something that isn't right. Just look at her as your sister and avoid being in suggestive positions with her because you're a man and things could still happen. Just avoid locations and positions that would tempt you to do anything.

    - Oluwatobi Adebara - 2019-09-26 08:15:33 Quote

  • Please you people should stop it Biko. It's a very sinful act . It would attract a cause upon the life of you and your sister. What if your sister gets pregnant nko?? . I advice you people to stay away from each other , tell your parents that you want to go to a far place , like your uncle's place ,stay there for a long time . Please you people should stop that act 

    - Adirika Chisom - 2019-09-26 14:58:03 Quote

  • I suggest that you and your sister should not stay together again that is one of you should travel far away from the other .Then if you feel like having s8x, get yourself a girlfriend that can satisfy your urge . 

    Because this is a very ugly situation, it can also be called child abuse oo

    - Sanni Rose - 2019-09-26 16:09:52 Quote

  • I don't think your parent is aware of this but I will suggest you tell them, don't cover your sin. Remember the Bible says he who covers his/her sin shall not prosper. The moment you say it out, you have disgrace it and two, you have given avenue to help you. They will be the one to know where they will send you to for abstainance from each other. More so, ask God to help you.

    - Dairo Idowu - 2019-09-26 18:35:04 Quote

  • This is beyond normal!!! Please o you guys don't know the wrath this thing is incurring to your future... Pls open up to a confidant or someone you trust, probably he or she can help.. Or better still stay away from each other!!!!! 

    - Albert Modeniola - 2019-09-26 18:44:41 Quote

  • this is a serious issue and it's very bad your blood, however, what need to do now apart from prayer is to part ways, part way I mean is to leave the house both of you are staying, and it must not be distance that you can easily decide to go at any time. one of you have to relocate to either of your relatives that is living in a far land. and e en at that you must both go for deliverance in a church where the trueth is preached. God help you. 

    - Ekigwe Chinedu Raymond - 2019-09-26 18:59:26 Quote

  • I think you guys should date other people maybe that will take away your lust for your sister and also stay away from each other if possible relocate to a different area so that you won't see her for sometime it might work. 

    - Idi Grace - 2019-09-26 21:43:45 Quote

  • Staying far from each other is right but note thant with God all things are possible so there is nothing above spiritual so even been far u try to fast and pray for mercy and deliverance from God cause there is every possibility that wen you meet again or separate u guys will be looking for someone in Oder to satisfy your need so pray and give yoursefs a distance.

    - Philemon Ezikiel - 2019-09-26 22:07:13 Quote

  • Hmmmm. This is serious, am quite sure you both do that when no one is around so I think you should limit the time you spend together alone. Even if you both are in the house, u can just decide to do something fun, something you  love doing, like leaving the house to go a friend to play video games and stuff. With time you'll find yourself no longer interested in her. Also pray about it and ask for God's grace. It's really not very easy to stop but may God help you!

    - Matthew Solomon - 2019-09-26 22:57:28 Quote

  • Hmmmm. This is serious, am quite sure you both do that when no one is around so I think you should limit the time you spend together alone. Even if you both are in the house, u can just decide to do something fun, something you  love doing, like leaving the house to go a friend to play video games and stuff. With time you'll find yourself no longer interested in her. Also pray about it and ask for God's grace. It's really not very easy to stop but may God help you!

    - Matthew Solomon - 2019-09-26 22:58:32 Quote

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