How Can I Stop Wet Dream

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I have a problem and I want solution for it.

When I was still close to my girlfriend I did not have this problem, but ever since I left her I have been having this problem called wet dream.

Sometimes if I sleep at night, I will wake up with sperm all over my underwear and I don't know why this is happening to me.

Please what might cause this problem? Is it normal? Should i be worried? I need a solution please.

How can i stop wet dream - By King Gerald - 2019-10-01 12:06:41

As a matter of fact my dear the cause of wet dream is not only because your Girlfriend left you it’s also because of your mindset, at nights before you sleep you are always thinking of her, picturing her in your mind, imagination things you and her are doing together in that moment when you are alone , so that result to this wet dream you say you have , they are several people who have this same particular issue going on in their lives, you are a mature man already as matter of fact you can’t be staying or being alone cause if you do you will still end up thinking about her and it will result to that so go out and hook up with someone

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How can i stop wet dream - By Jeremiah Efosa - 2019-10-01 12:41:16

My dear, most of our dreams are reflections of the things we think about before going to bed. Maybe you really missed your girlfriend so much and due to that fact you can't just clear her thought off your head, perhaps, you've been reflecting on memorable moments you guys used to share together. 

I'll suggests if you still love her you can simply go and make things right with her hopefully she might accept you back, that is if she is still available for you. Or you can just try and get her thought off your head.. 

Nevertheless, if all these doesn't work,  my brother,  you should go and see your spiritual guardian.. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Olajide Emmanuel - 2019-10-01 12:43:58

It is not because you left her but there is something spiritual more attached to it.all you have to do is pray for redemption and revival, wet dream is really a bad thing and can only be fought with prayers.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Adedolapo Quasim - 2019-10-01 12:49:21

as a matter of fact the issue you are having may be due to the psycological effect of being with your girlfriend for a long time, the level of your intimacy with her may have been quiet deep so your body is yet to adapt to the fact that she is not around any more so just give yourself sometime and once you are able to get over her you will notice that the wet dreams stops. talking from experience

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How can i stop wet dream - By Jinad Ibrahim - 2019-10-01 13:19:42

Well the truth is that, this wet dreams is all about mind set and how u and ur ex do relating during ur relationship it very easy to put and end to it, avoid over thinking of ur ex and stop watching romantic movies, pond and any thing relating to nudes. That will help you over come it 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Giggs Simi - 2019-10-01 14:04:28

Wet dream is a natural way of the body to balance sperm in the body.Do not watch pornographic videos so it will not trigger a wet dream,although the wet dream will still happen but not regularly.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Owolabi kikelomo - 2019-10-01 14:05:43

Once your heart is free from something, you begin to live a new life. Having a wet dream isn't because you left your girlfriend. It is because you heart has not released your girlfriend. All the good times you have spent with her, will not allow your mind rest. The solution is if truly the love between you too has ended, try to forget about her and you will be free

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How can i stop wet dream - By Oluwafemi Olukoya - 2019-10-01 14:54:57

You shouldn't be worried. In fact it's normal, because at a point in puberty without even thinking of anything you can wake up withyour underwear covered with sperm. The solution is to clear your mind, it's not your girlfriend issue. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Wisdom Tosin - 2019-10-01 15:20:04

Actually,while some people think it's spiritual, 

Let's have it in mind that most times your dreams form from what has been on your mind..so I think to stop wetdreams on a more physical approach you should do a lot mind excercise and free your mind..

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How can i stop wet dream - By Abigail Banjo-Akintimehin - 2019-10-01 16:17:33

As for me, I will say is not because you left your girlfriend that makes you to be having such experience, it miqht have spiritual implication especially if the experience is a constant one. I will advise you to consult your pastor if you're a Christian or Imam if you're a Muslim.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Wilfred Okpala - 2019-10-01 17:57:06

I don't think it is because you left your girlfriend because, it is a normal thing go experience it especially based on the thought that comes to your mind before you go to bed. Take some time to clear your head and I believe all should go back to normal  

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How can i stop wet dream - By Abdullahi Aliyu - 2019-10-01 18:10:10

You shouldn't be worried. In fact it's normal, because at a point in puberty without even thinking of anything you can wake up withyour underwear covered with sperm. The solution is to clear your mind, it's not your girlfriend issue

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How can i stop wet dream - By Kalio Emmanuel - 2019-10-01 18:20:12

It's actually not hard to stop by for you it will because you are not stable it's either you can't get her out of your head or you have wild thoughts so the way to stop it is to stop thinking the way you do.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Daniel Olanikawo - 2019-10-01 18:21:58

İt's because you are missing her or probably  having a flashback of your past relationship with her whenever you want to sleep.On a normal ground, it is good for a guy to experience wet dreams once a while but not in a situation of yours.You have to takeoff your mind from her since you no longer have a relationship with her.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Okafor Chigaemezu Ifeanyi - 2019-10-01 18:33:46

I don't think it is a problem. It all happens to all the guys one time in out lives or all the time. It happens to me, happens to every other person so don't think that its an abnormality. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Jayxy Ebl - 2019-10-01 18:45:06

it is not abnormal it  but i feel its cause you always sleep with her on your mind.you should think less about her and focus more on something else

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How can i stop wet dream - By Idemudia Favour - 2019-10-01 18:45:39

You should be worried with this kind of problem of yours because it is in no way normal. It could be as a result of depression, your experiences with her,or any other thing.. My advice to you though is to confide in an elderly person.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Emmanuel Omotoso - 2019-10-01 18:47:19

I think it natural cause it happens to me very well, I don't know why some people think it spiritual but, if it going more viral, I think you should consult the doctor

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How can i stop wet dream - By Osikha Cynthia - 2019-10-01 18:48:59

Wet dreams occurs with what we think of before we sleep. Infact any dreams Is from our mindset. So to stop we dreams you need to be caution of what you think of, it's not a spiritual something. You just need to control your mind

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How can i stop wet dream - By Oguntoyinbo Damilola - 2019-10-01 18:52:48

You need to make sure your mind is clean dear. 

Wer dreams are often as a resukts of what you think before you sleep  it might not necessarily be your girlfriend, it could be a girl you saw her pics online and lot more. Clear your mind and I'm sure you will be fine. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Ruth Oyeleke - 2019-10-01 19:04:39

You have to engage your mind with something else,  something good though,  thinking of her before you sleep is contributing to the wet dreams,  get close to God,  meditate on the word of God and pray before you sleep. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Obalu Johnkennedy Kenechukwu - 2019-10-01 19:06:46

Wet dream is not bad to my own best of knowledge, it is just that you are the one that always call for it because we constantly dream of what we have in mind and that is what makes you have such experience. Blame no one and focus your mind else where

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How can i stop wet dream - By Owolarafe Olalekan - 2019-10-01 19:09:07

The issue is  not about your girlfriend, its a two way occurrence...... It can be spiritual or physical, at times our dreams of imagination makes us have wet dreams always. Learn how to control yourself when having a dream of you been pressed in your sleep, and if its spiritual you have to be prayerful.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Isaac Christian Ejimofor - 2019-10-01 19:17:45

Well is not because your girlfriend left you or you left her, is all about the mindset before laying down to sleep, thinking you wish to have s-x and feeling in the mood already, when you eventually sleep just meet your self either the plans coming through by feeling in the mood to Urinate from there you may see your self with a girl and boooooom you're trying to slot your d--k in her p---sy my brother... Before you wake up the deed had been done.. Advice is to Stop Changing your Mindset to that stuffs just Focus on the future....

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How can i stop wet dream - By Paul Chidozie - 2019-10-01 19:20:51

It can be 2 things , either spiritual or mental problem (mental could be your mindset) the best thing to do is to seek medical help (don't be shy to tell your doctor) and pray about this seriously 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Hilda Egenti - 2019-10-01 19:26:32

To me it's normal between the teenage age grade and I also think you do still have them till now because of your weird imaginations. From what I know the only way you can stop it is by hooking up with someone or selfgasms tho it doesn't work 100% but I also think its your body, Its your mind so I also you can actually control your thoughts. I mean controlling your thoughts and mindset can also be a remedy

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How can i stop wet dream - By David julius - 2019-10-01 19:29:24

For you to have wet dreams it has to do with your thinking about sexual things and about your girlfriend, the only solution to it is that you should stop thinking sexually before going to bed. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Okwoche David - 2019-10-01 19:40:42

You have had a sexaul lifestyle,and to abstain now becomeb a problem is quite common with guys but it's something to worry about because only God can deliver you from such act if truly you want abstain you have to pray for delivery. Otherwise go back to your former liflifestyle 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Osayemi Akeem Olasunkanmi - 2019-10-01 19:55:00

It is all been said.  You always thing about your girlfriend before going to bed and when you are on the bed,  you always imagine what you and her have had together.  

Just try and  hook up with  someone so that you will get off thinking on her and focus on the new girlfriend of yours

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How can i stop wet dream - By Maximilian Eluh - 2019-10-01 19:58:08

This is the kind of post that I've been waiting for. As boys tend to grow and mature, they experience that feeling called wet dream. This is as a result of all the romantic feelings, lust, infactuation ,love, gathered during the day. I feel wetdream can be stopped by not thinking too much of love .

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How can i stop wet dream - By Sule Abdul - 2019-10-01 20:01:04

It happens to me as well, I usually have wet dreams at night and sometimes in the afternoon when I sleep, sometimes I will realized it's coming and I will immediately stop it with my hands holding my Oga at the down, but I am not having it again when I realized the source, some people says it is the marine world that controls you at night so I began to pray and commanding the spirit of wet dream to leave me, sometimes even after prayers I will still have wet dream, but I keep praying and avoiding any pornographic film or pictures until its finally left me.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Onwa Matthew - 2019-10-01 20:13:24

Some times, this is caused by agent of darkness. Maybe, the enemy is tormenting you or evil one in your Locality is bewitching you. Some times you have dreaming about what you have in mind. Pray hard for God to intervene and deliver you.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Onwa Matthew - 2019-10-01 20:14:42

Some times, this is caused by agent of darkness. Maybe, the enemy is tormenting you or evil one in your Locality is bewitching you. Some times you have dreaming about what you have in mind. Pray hard for God to intervene and deliver you.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Victor Ekpenyong - 2019-10-01 20:35:56

Wet dream is a normal thing caused by your emotional feelings.

You said it started when your girlfriend left you, that is because you miss her.

At night you imagine her beside you, which cause your wet dreams.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Ezekiel Aromasodu - 2019-10-01 20:41:00

It is normal. You just need some therapy to get over it. It may be spiritual or psychological. That is why sexual intercourse is tagged by some spiritual people as a spiritual exchange. Tackle it both spiritually by deliverance and psychologically by not thinking of past sexual experiences.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Emmanuel Agbasielo - 2019-10-01 20:45:26

Let me ask this question. Do you always imagine yourself having s8x with your girl. If the answer is yes,then that's where the problem is. You must stop every mindset of s8x because there's always a spirit behind it. Sometimes, due to your thougts,you find yourself having s8x in the dream and at the end you spill the sperm physically. Guide your thoughts and feelings.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Muhammed Abdulhazeem - 2019-10-01 20:50:49

Sometimes, what we think about most before going to bed becomes a dream in our sleep, so if you think of your girlfriend before sleeping it possible for you to have a wet dream. Having wet dream isn't a sign of disease unless what you emit is not the normal #lolz.

I suggest you clear your mind before sleeping, this should help reduce it. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By UCHENNA NNAMDI - 2019-10-01 21:03:04

I have read and seen some comment concerning about, wet dreams!! Some says is mental illness.. While some says is Spiritual issue....  But this is what I have to tell you.. Is very normal for you or someone else to have wet dreams.. Like me I do have it when am about 16 to 17 years old. And it was because I do think 🤔 of my first girlfriend and first love ❤️.. So when ever I think of her when she is not around, I do have wet dreams at night! !

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How can i stop wet dream - By Taiwo Itunuoluwa - 2019-10-01 21:05:55

There are so many physical causes of wet dream,this can be psychological that is what you think about before sleeping ,you might be thinking about the memories you have had together ,which means the kind of a person you are you will need another girlfriend. Also you need prayers to cancel the spiritual aspect of it

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How can i stop wet dream - By Ayomide Adedeji - 2019-10-01 21:09:01

Well,  while some might think it's a spiritual problem, it's definitely something that starts from the position of one's mind.  One cannot stop wet dreams if one's mind is filled with sexual desires and thoughts. 

So,  My opinion is that, first of all,you do a mind renewal check.  Focus the energy of your mind on any other things apart from sexual desires and thoughts.

Once you do this,  you are sure to have e a positive response. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Christiana Benjamin menku - 2019-10-01 21:13:00

Is she from edo or kogi state?  My brother run ooooooo go and locate better church and pray yourself out of it o, is like the hanty have decided to keep you somewhere until you decide to continue loving her o.... But for real, be very prayerful

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How can i stop wet dream - By Ogochukwu Chidiogo - 2019-10-01 21:16:41

U need to have control of your mind,whenever such thing keeps coming to your mind,say no to it,cos spiritual controls the physical,b in charge of what comes to your mind n finally pray to God to help u overcome this.

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How can i stop wet dream - By oluebube emmanuel njoku - 2019-10-01 21:17:54

Dream is as a result of multitude of activities during the day and the mind tend to play out what the heart has been hankering after during the active hours.

Your problem is not the friend that left but the inner depravity of the heart and soul that urgently need divine intervention.

What do you crave for during the day?

You tend to go after during the night, but brother, I suggest you give your heart and life to Jesus Christ, He will keep you not only from wet dream but eternal doom and damnation.

May God help you.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Adeyemi Tobi - 2019-10-01 21:18:32

At a point it normal once in a while but this it because of psychological interference. You think of always wanting to be with her and it also because it been a while since you have anything serious with the opposite mate.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Princess 202 - 2019-10-01 21:19:04

It is completely  normal and a sign of puberty... It could also be that you still miss your girl friend so you always think of s*x before going to bed.  To stop it,  just clear your mind and think of something else like football or songs,  before going to bed. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Caplife Osuji - 2019-10-01 21:19:24

Is just your mindset please just remove your mind from porns and romance

Just take life easy with ladies 

But sometimes is spiritual too you need to also pray against marine spirit 

Read your bible and pray always before you sleep every night

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How can i stop wet dream - By PRINCEWILL KENECHUKWU EGWUDIKE - 2019-10-01 21:21:02

First of all, there's nothing spiritual about it incase you had it in mind. It's a natural phenomenon. 

Before you go to sleep, you must have had naughty imaginations and that stimulate you sexually. Therefore resulting to the wet pants when you wake up in the morning. 

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How can i stop wet dream - By Igwe Francis - 2019-10-01 21:21:26

This happen to you when you think about s8x when you free your mind from that you won't experience wet dream again, secondly if you are going to bed pray over that before going to bed I think it will help you to over come it

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How can i stop wet dream - By Victor Anodoro - 2019-10-01 21:37:05

The cause of your wet dream is as a result of the last thought you had before going to bed and i sure your last thought is always about your girlfriend.if you want to stop wet dreaming it means you have to stop thinking about your girlfriend before sleeping.

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How can i stop wet dream - By Christogonus Uneze - 2019-10-01 21:43:26

Worry not my brother,  you already have the solution to your problem at your own hands. Your state of mind at any point in time has a lot to do in your life, some times things you see around you can also contribute to what you sees as a problem. Section your mind on possitive things and never think about that curvy woman you saw on your way home, be close to God in prayer,  make sure you pray with a clean heart before going to bed every night. Trust me, you will come and share your testimony with us here. 

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