How Do I Get Rid Of This Recurring Nightmare?

My life has been an endless suffering. I can't sleep well or function well, suicidal thoughts are evading my mind. The genesis of this roller-coaster of hell began six years ago, when I was molested and defiled. The manner in which I was gang raped left an unforgettable memory in my head which plagues and torments me ever since.

I have nightmares almost every night, recurring that very day, I became depressed, paranoid and insecure. I don't know what to do, when will this pain end? This world truly is filled with monsters, monsters I can't escape. 

At this point I think death is the only way, seeking advice has failed me, mental therapy has failed me, I even tried hypnosis all in a hopeless attempt to save myself. Where do I go from here?

These were the words of a very troubled friend of mine seeking help and advice, one in which I have no other solution for... Please help her get through. It is often said two heads are better than one.

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  • there is still God, He sees and know everything that happened, the wicked shall not go unpunished thats for sure,He should just keep His trust and hope alive in him, commiting suicide is not the best option for there is no second chance in the grave

    - Christian David - 2019-10-05 14:08:00 Quote

  • I believe that this your friend should start by forgiving herself, being gang raped wasn't her fault and there's really nothing she can do about it now but to forgive herself and the perpetrators of the crime, she has to embrace the incidence as part of her past and stop trying to fight it, that's what would help her get back her life. Suicide doesn't solve the problem, it only is the give up button 

    - Sometochi Okolo - 2019-10-05 21:32:29 Quote

  • I understand what you are going through. You have to look within yourself... There must be a reason to live,even if it's just one. Life is war.if you give up,you end up a failure. Yes,yoi have been you want other girls your age to go trough this. You are facing depression..habe you tried taking to your maker... He is the way,truth and life

    - Christopher Peace - 2019-10-05 22:53:18 Quote

  • Killing herself won't do her any help, I advice you to talk to God about this issue I believe he will see you through on this, their is nothing hard for him to do, also try to erase that emotion to your head, if you keep on remembering it that's when you will start hurting your self again, try to help your self that's not the end of your life you still have a long way to go as you do this may God help you Amen.. 

    - Igwe Francis - 2019-10-05 23:03:55 Quote

  • sorry about the incident it's so unfortunate that you have to go through this all these years but don't worry there's always a solution and you will surely find it. In order to get rid of an evil thought or something that is bothering me I usually engage myself in any kind of activity I don't allow myself to rest in a place for a long time that will make me begin to think of many things.. 

    - Emmanuel Ekaka - 2019-10-13 10:15:28 Quote

  • Very sorry such event can be very damaging but suicide isn't an option my dear seek spiritual counselling in your local church spend time praying to God to deliver you from suicidal thoughts and heal your heart because that's the last relsove o only God can save you at this point 

    - COURAGE AGBONS - 2019-10-13 20:02:29 Quote

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