How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend

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My name is Samuel and I was betrayed by so called best friend Tolu. I ad Tolu were close friends, we share our life stories,events and even secrets with each other.

I love a girl called precious but I couldn't approach her due to fears. So I told my best friend, he can ask any girl out. A play boy you know.  So he said he is gonna help me. He met d girl  he spoke with her  instead for my friend to speak with the girl on my behalf. He asked d girl out due to how pretty d girl is. 

It broke my heart because d girl accepted to my best friend whom I asked to approach her for me. He betrayed me. 

What should  i do?  Should I forgive him? 

Am really sad and angry. 

Have you also been betrayed by your best friend before? share experience.

How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Nicholas Usiahon - 2019-09-26 06:44:38

That is to tell you never to trust anybody again. Mankind is never to be trusted. Something like this has happened to me in the past. I learnt the lesson never to trust anybody full stop and anytime I feel any affection for anybody I go straight up to tell the person expressing yourself cannot end up killing you

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Olajide Emmanuel - 2019-09-26 06:44:58

Am still stunned but I started laughing when I read this post,you see what happened to you is very common among guys of nowadays I once had a story of such before,but my advice to you is that you just forgive him and move on with your own life,but I will advise you to be very careful of what you tell him next time, perhaps you have known who he is like that,so be very careful around him.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Opeyemi Amos - 2019-09-26 06:49:12

my brother, you don't have to get mad at your friend,at least by now you should have learnt your lesson and this is gonna make you step up your game and have confidence to approach any lady you wishes to talk to.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Hassan Kamaldeen - 2019-09-26 06:49:38

You have to forgive him and just move on with your life. But when I say forgive, I mean you only needs not harbour grudges for him. Please don't ever trust him or entrust him to anything ever again.As for me, I have never been betrayed by any friend though. I give no room for such because,I am such a guy who gets reluctant to trust . I believe almost all friends are like thorn in flesh. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Ifeanacho Amaechi - 2019-09-26 06:52:29

i have not been betrayed, but I have seen many people that has been betrayed, by there so called best friend, it is very easy for you to be betrayed by a person that you know so much because some of you secret we be made known to him or her.

Please trust nobody

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Isaac Anyama - 2019-09-26 06:52:59

My brother! I'm so sorry for your heartbroken, but see this as a challenge you need to overcome. It is time to do away with fears of life and take a bold step towards achieving what you want. Forgive your friend and Never involve him in such issue again to avoid forther occurrence. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Erhieta Anthonia - 2019-09-26 06:56:00

You were not betrayed by him, you are just not man enough to talk to the girl you love.your friend is a very smart guy.how will you tell him to talk to a girl for you, just forgive him and move on

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Akinleye Iteoluwakisi - 2019-09-26 06:56:12

Hiii, I think you should forgive him because it wasnt his fault. You should have manned up and gone to tell her your self. They probably fell in love. Don't worry, you'll still find love.....

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By George Goddy - 2019-09-26 06:58:09

Sorry about that bro, life is full of betrayal especially from ur friends and the one u trust, and if there were no friends the words betray won't have come out, just move on bro and I believe u will see the girl met for u, maybe that one wasn't for u

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Nwosu Vincent - 2019-09-26 06:59:27

Lol it's very funny. Please forgive him oooo for his still your best friend. It's not his fault, it's your own fault. How can you send your friend whom you know to be a play boy to go speak to a girl on your behalf

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Miracle Boniface - 2019-09-26 07:03:34

My dear don't allow woman to come in between you and your best friend nothing is there forgive him you are a man you supposed have that boldness to talk to any girl you want to so next time don't do that if you love a girl go talk to her

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Olawumi Adedeji - 2019-09-26 07:05:08

You should have apprpacapp the girl yourself , your friend is not at fault. How do you want her to feel? Telling someone to ask her out on your behalf? It is not really reasonable. Just forgive him and next time, don't be afraid of sacred of being told no. Sorry hun

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By David Jesse ifeanyi - 2019-09-26 07:05:45

Oga you don't have to bear grudges or feel betrayed. This case is a sensitive case because the girl might turn out to be the one that made ur friend date her... 

You have to be brave and smart enough to go for what you want..  Who no like better thing? 

Forgive bro, build yourself up and probably give him a payback, trust me it's gonna be fun

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Michael Abioye - 2019-09-26 07:06:16

Omg!!! This is hilarious, you need to forgive him man he's a human being like you and he's got blood flowing through his veins. I'll advice you to work on yourself and tell him to teach you on how to be bold towards such things fighting won't solve the issue but only worsen the case. Just let him know that what he did was very bad and let it end there. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Mary Ogbinya - 2019-09-26 07:09:17

That one should teach you a lesson, you called that your so called friend a playboy, playboys don't care about trust they just want to lay the girl down and leave.

You ask what you should do, I think what you should do is to man_ up and approach a girl you like when next you see her.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Joseph Lawrence - 2019-09-26 07:15:47

Shows that you have to man up to any problem you face 

Don't always be shy, the highest thing that can happen is that she will turn you down but will it kill you

Don't ever let someone else do your heavy task for you

By means of use do we gain mastery 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Princess 202 - 2019-09-26 07:21:28

Ehhhhhhhhhhh! This is hilarious. He betrayed you and you are still thinking of accepting him back? Haven't you heard that a betrayer is always a betrayer?

If I were you, I would tell him to go far from me oooooooo. Abegi......if you still forgive him, that means the next act that he would do again, e fit to make persin die oooo.

I am just warning you sha ooooooo.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Ebiloma Victoria - 2019-09-26 07:24:46

It's sad though, but next time no matter how shy you are, or how you feel someone is better at talking to girls don't let them do your approach for you,people are not to be trusted and nowadays people always want what others have in their own possession,or what others are craving for especially in the case of relationship instead of trying to get theirs...just forgive him to do yourself the good, holding grudges will only disrupt your own peace. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Ebiloma Victoria - 2019-09-26 07:25:07

It's sad though, but next time no matter how shy you are, or how you feel someone is better at talking to girls don't let them do your approach for you,people are not to be trusted and nowadays people always want what others have in their own possession,or what others are craving for especially in the case of relationship instead of trying to get theirs...just forgive him to do yourself the good, holding grudges will only disrupt your own peace. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Luckru Bako - 2019-09-26 07:25:16

Is a lesson to learn you don't need to get mad at your friend the fault is from you you could have go to her yourself this thing could have not happen forgive your friend but never trust him again because that kind of friend can even kill and you should stop telling him your secret if possible you should not be coming close to him like before and move ahead with your life the are so many fresh girls out there.. This thing is common with our guys of nowadays 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Daniel Ogbu - 2019-09-26 07:26:08

Something happen to me last year 2018 December

And the worse part of it is that my so call best friend told me that nothing like that is happening later gbam I find it out by myself..

Bross you just have to let them be but that kind of friend you should be careful

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Albert Modeniola - 2019-09-26 07:28:04

that's  to tell  you that mankind should never be trusted, never ever!!! And please stop opening up to that your friend cos who knows what he might do next time... But for this one that he did, forget it, wish them the best but don't associate with him again... You would definitely find someone better!!! 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Omoniyi Felix Ifeoluwa - 2019-09-26 07:35:34

that your friend is a real betrayer, but nevertheless you stil have to forgive him, but it will teach you a very big lesson not to share your secrets with friend and also be motivated to try doing things by yourself and not depending on anyone, no one deserves trust, even including yourself

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Damilola Talabi - 2019-09-26 07:43:30

I sincerely dont blame your friend ooo, he is a sharp guy, how on earth will u tell a friend to ask a girl out on your behalf and u want to date the girl, it is like he did the work and you want to enjoy the fruit of his labor, it isnt betrayal it is the right thing to do. How will the girl feel, dating someone who doesnt have enough confidence to ask her out, why will she date you, it might be that your friend didnt cheat you or sly you,the girl might actually prefer the guy to you, you cant blame her or the guy.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Jael Orji - 2019-09-26 08:16:00

You just have to forgive him and continue with life

Just that you learn from your mistake and improve your self on how to talk to a girl so that next tine you wont have to look for someone to help you

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Nenye Anyigaenwe - 2019-09-26 08:17:39

I understand your plight bro but I want to tell you be happy that God has revealed to you the kind of friend you keep this early and on an unnecessary thing not involving money, just forgive him and move on.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Wasiu Adegboye - 2019-09-26 08:24:06

Huhh, your friend is a betrayal as you have already said. Now for your mistake. A man Must be courageous you shouldn't be feeling shy especially when it comes to situation like this. If you love somebody work on to her and tell her you love her. That's one has gone. Forgive him and continue your friendship but you have known the type of person he is and you have learned.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Bilya Musa - 2019-09-26 08:30:38

Ur friend did not really sale you out he just gave you a lesson, which is only a friend who can. Come to think of it why can't you talk to a girl you like that much how do intend to keep the relationship going, did u think she will bit u if you talk to her. Every girl is looking for confident man do it ur self.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Paul Nwaso - 2019-09-26 08:31:04

Cut off that friendship with him immediately cos he is not someone you can rely on. Even when you are married, this type of friend can woo and sleep with your wife. He will take the advantage of being too close to you get closer to your wife, and before you know it, he had laid  with your wife even in your matrimonial bed. Because women are weak and can be convinced easily but they are champions in keeping secrets.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Boluwatife Fashina - 2019-09-26 08:51:17

Well that's life for you, this will teach you a lesson,  next time, summon courage, face your fear , she'll either accept or reject you.if she accepts, lucky you, you ve gotten ur girl,if she rejects,  no probs, life goes on, you'll get some better.  What you can do now is forget the girl, you ve loose her, forget it, learn how to approach girls

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Anthony Braimoh - 2019-09-26 09:27:19

I think this experience will enable you to man up and become confident in approaching a girl, I don't think you were betrayed, you were taught a lesson. Girls like guys that are confident ,even if your friend helped you to approach her you might still not be able to be vocal enough to her and thus she might not like you so u have to man up bro!

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By David Okon - 2019-09-26 09:34:04

My brother That guy did not betrayed you, because you and that girl where never friends before, it just that the guy fail to do what you ask of him of which maybe he accepted to do. And probably he saw in the girl what he has been looking for. Next time try and do it your self it just a lesson don't hold grudges please. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Aliyu Gana Aliyu - 2019-09-26 10:57:03

Something similar has happened to me before. To be frank, you made a big mistake by asking someone to approach the girl on your behalf. What your friend did was very bad indeed, he should have told you he was also interested in the girl and you could have worked out something between the both of you. Now the deed is done and cannot be undone so I suggest you forgive your friend if you can and becareful next time.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Irene Obas - 2019-09-26 11:33:33

I think you should just find it in your heart to forgive him. Use this experience as a lesson learned and move on. Next time you should just find the courage to talk to any lady of your interest by yourself. The worst thing that can happen is for the girl to say no. Rejection is also a part of life. Just be yourself and good luck!

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Mubarak Agboola - 2019-09-26 13:09:31

It's normal to get betrayed by friends, especially when it gets to girlfriend and boyfriend issues. Though there are good friends who don't do such even if he has feelings for the girl before, but they are very rare. One just have to know the kind of friend he chooses. Take heart bro

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Kelani AbdGaniyy Ola - 2019-09-26 13:09:36

Forgive but don't move with him anymore. You have to accept the fact that he has done you more harm than good and all you need to move on is to forgive him but you should not. Move with him again because if you're not very careful and you decided to always keep in touch with him like old times, he's going to cause more harm than good to your life by taking what is rightfully yours because it gillters to him also. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Chidinma Ugochukwu - 2019-09-26 13:15:51

You are to blame my dear if you see someone you like man up and let them know how u feel don't always ask friends to help you in things like that smart ladies likes smart guys and beware of that friend he will do you more harm than good 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By EJIROGHENE AJIBADE - 2019-09-26 13:28:25

that is to tell you that theheart of men is desperately wicked. no man can be trusted.i have had similar experience , where i was over back stabbed. then i realize that everything is possible, never take anything for granted.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Anthony Onyekachi - 2019-09-26 13:49:12

 Bro this life is easy if you love a woman you need to walk up to her yourself that shows you are a real man though it's hot seeing your best friend asking her out you just need to let go of it but you can still tell the girl your feelings if she truly loves you or your friend

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Victor Anodoro - 2019-09-26 14:03:36

Just be happy for the both of them.make sure you dont fight your bestfriend because of a girl.sooner or later he is going to realize he's mistake then apologize to you and pls forgive him.The fact that he took the girl away from you shouldn't make the both of you enemies.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Adediji Eniola - 2019-09-26 14:09:22

This act of this your so called best friend really shows how best he is to you. Never live to others what you can do by yourself, he's all trying to teach you how to have a mind of your own. If i was the one, believe me I will do the same . what's the big deal in approaching a girl? Next time you won't joke with what matters to you I mean who does that? 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Agewu Ayuba - 2019-09-26 14:13:30

I am Agewu Ayuba Daniel. When I was in  secondary School there was a lady in my class that I love her so much then I went and told her about my feeling then she accepted me. Then there was a day my male friend that we sit together with in the class went and report me to our head master that I am friending a lady in the school so should stop me if not I'll pregnant that lady of which my mission is not to pregnant her but to train her in education aspect.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Okereke Nzubechi Divine - 2019-09-26 14:21:11

I think you should forgive him because on some way you are at fault you would have done the approach by your self not him doing that for you so I think the girl fell in love with him,so forgive him don't let a woman cause problem between the both of you okay 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By ISAAC .O ADELAKUN - 2019-09-26 14:36:02

I can say you should forgive him,in the first place you should have going directly to her and approach the girl, though the boy did wrong because he is not  trustworthy, just seperate yourself he isn't a good friend. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Rukayat Olubode - 2019-09-26 14:40:01

Your own is even tip compare to mine, my so called friend, bestie, companion betrayed me just because of money.. Well you need to forgive and forget because all is just a lesson and now that you have learned you need to move on. 

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By OJO VICTORIA - 2019-09-26 14:40:03

My brother you don't need to get mad at him that is friend for you, you too should have confronted the lady by yourself you shouldn't have sent your friend on your behalf but bcs you don't know that he will betrayed you that is why you trust him.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By James Grace - 2019-09-26 14:57:38

You'll remember the saying trust no man. I'm sure you would have learnt your learn your lesson just forgive and let go. You'll surely meet someone else again and next time please try to summon courage to approach her yourself the worse that can happen is for her to say no she won't eat you up

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By GBONGBON Mson - 2019-09-26 15:51:01

You really have to learn from this mistake I know so many guys doesn't have courage,sending your friend to the girl you are in love is tempting so don't try it again just summon the courage and approach them by yourself many of these girls you feel scared to approach are actually simpler than you can ever imagined

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Chikwendu Chukwuebuka David - 2019-09-26 15:55:53

First of that's why we should not trust our mankind my dear you have to forgive him just to tell him that you worth more than that, there are more pretty young ladies out there.

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How I Was Betrayed By My Best Friend - By Mathew Paul - 2019-09-26 16:03:02

Things like these are actually not new, it has been happening for ages, you should have approached the girl yourself, even if not for relationship, just try to build friendship with her 

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