How Long Should It Take Before Letting People Into Your Life

So I met this girl at my work place,presented her to family and every of my partner as my best friend. She told me lots of things about her supposed family that seemed true,I kept loading her pictures on my page until one day,another lady called me and warned me seriously to tell my friend to pay off the balance she was owing,for the women trafficking she helped her do.....I was shocked and told the caller that it was a wrong number.

I still didn't tell my friend about it,until one Sunday,the police came to my place to arrest me .This girl had told the police I was the one who introduced her to such business,although I was vindicated,everyone believed her because I always announced her as my best friend. Who would believe I didn't know my bestfriend's occupation

How long should you take before letting people into your life?

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  • It depends how serious you want to be with the person,  but I think there is always a gradual process before letting people part of you . There should be a high level of acquaintance between you and that person before any kinda relationship... like what she does, where she's from, if she has a job, her religion... these are just basic things to know about the person. 

    - Chukwudi Miracle - 2019-12-21 10:16:45 Quote

  • For as long as possible, don't just let anyhow persons into your life all because you've gotten to know a little thing about them, like where they live and where they school NO  things ain't done that why. Get to know more about their personal life, the kind of person he/she is deep down.

    - Taiwo Ayomide - 2019-12-21 11:41:19 Quote

  • Firstly friendship should be a gradual process where you have to study each other's part and when it suits with yours then you'll have to be free with each other. Study has shown that you should understand the likes and dislikes of each other before you sail.

    Anyways, letting people into your life should depend on the compactibility of you and the other party. 

    - Udoka John - 2019-12-21 15:23:07 Quote

  • Letting people into life should be a gradual process thing,,, you shouldn't rush into anything that has to do with friendship or relationship,, because these things are long-term , some are even for lifetime,, so I believe that after getting acquainted the next thing is to know the background of the individual and occupation and then gradually study the person's personality

    - Jokeh Happiness - 2019-12-22 07:52:44 Quote

  • It takes a precise step by step to allow people into your life.Always pray to God to allow you choose the right people that would not implicate you.You need to study the behavior of the fellow for at least 1 year or more.Apart from the information they give you about themselves, you need to do a thorough research on them.

    - Opemipo Ayomikun - 2019-12-23 08:42:41 Quote

  • Firstly friendship should be a gradual process where you have to study each other's part and when it suits with yours then you'll have to be free with each other. Study has shown that you should understand the likes and dislikes of each other before you sail.

    Anyways, letting people into your life should depend on the compactibility of you and the other party. 

    - Bolarinwa Olowe - 2020-01-01 14:15:39 Quote

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