My boyfriend and I were having issues due to the fact that I was facing some challenges in my life. I decided to go stay with my close friend during those period and told her most things I was going through then.
I told her about my boyfriend,that we were having issues because my boyfriend thinks am cheating on him with another guy which i was not. My friend then told me that my boyfriend had another girl he was dating in town,she told me that I should forget about him I should start hustling(sleeping with guys for money). She told me that I shouldn't trust him and I should just forget about him and join her in her business.
Meanwhile,there was this rich guy that stayed close to her and the boy was all over me. I told my friend about it she told me to hold him tight that girls are really crushing on him. I didn't feel anything for this guy but due to my friends pressure we became friends and then the guy started spending on me. He took me out,bought me things,gave me money etc. He invited me over to his place I didn't want to go but my friend forced me to go then I went.
While I was in his house,he confessed his love to me and told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend. I refused but he begged and begged and I told him I will think about it.As I was about leaving,he kissed me so bad but I couldn't just resist him. He kept on kissing me until my friend walked in without knocking.
I got back to her room only for me to see a breakup message on my phone from my boyfriend. He told me my friend sent him screenshots of the messages the guy sent to me,he said my friend told him that I have been sleeping with this guy and my friend asked him to leave me that am not a better person.
Please friends I need advice,I don't really know what to do right now.
This is really touching but to me I would love you to go back to your boyfriend and and ask for forgiveness in doing that explain everything detail and how your friend pushed you into what you never wanted at first, if he is still not happy with you I think you should give the other guy the chance to make you happy, sorry to say such is life.
What's actually on my mind now is, you shouldn't have let your friend tell you what and what not to do but since its the thing of the past, I will just say you go back to your boyfriend and make up that's if he wants to and try as much as possible to stay away from that your friend.
It's quite sad what happened to you. I will not blame you for confiding in your 'friend' because you were under pressure, i'm sure by now you know that she is not your friend. My advice? Calm down, give yourself sometime to cool off, don't be under pressure, be very composed, then meet your boyfriend in a neutral place and camly tell him what happened, am sure that if he is matured as I am sure he is, he will give the relationship a second chance.
What to do now is to forget about your girlfriend for the time being,try to explain things to your guy, but if he sees no reason or truth in your explanations,then take the walk and don't deny yourself peace of mind. Don't be surprised to see her hanging out with him soon.
The problem with you is that you don't know what you want in life. How can you allow people to still push you around? Well, love the current guy and leave the formar, you never know what God has for you with the new guy. If your friend likes, she can have your former boyfriend.
I think you should explain things to your main boyfriend i.e the one that broke up with you,if he's able to understand and forgive you then move on with him.if otherwise,my dear forget the both guys, distance yourself from that your friend that adviced you wrongly cause you don't need such people in life,dust your self up, wipe your tears and move on.there are better things ahead of you
You shouldn't be telling your friends about relationship issues, if you can't solve your own problems then you don't deserve to be in a relationship. You should just try and go to him and explain everything so that he would understand but that your friend is not really a worthy friend she is an enemy and you shouldn't be together.
Firstly this goes to everyone,don't trust people to the extent of telling them a whole lot of things about you cause they will use it against you someday,My advise is plead with him and try to explain everything but if he is still adamant ,lock up cause it was never meant to be, Rest, Eat well, another will come and please leave her house
So painful....your friend isn't a good friend for the advise...you shouldn't trust people too much to the extent of giving out your information or problems...and when it comes to having issues in a relationship the interference of a third party isn't good...Just move on there are better things ahead.
In.my opinion your friend shouldn't be the one telling you what to do rather move out find your own space explain to your boyfriend how everything happened and ask for forgiveness but next time try to have a mind of your own, not every advice is to be taken
If you truly love your boyfriend, go back to him, explain how it all happened and apologize, then you need to build trust in your relationship to avoid argument and fight. Also, keep away from your friend, she's not a good one and you should be careful of the company you keep.
This is really heartbreaking but I would advise you to pick yourself up and move on because I don't think begging your boyfriend would do you any good due to the fact that he was already having doubts about you and you just proved him right ,trust me when I tell you you going back and begging him would make matters worse because even if he decides to take you back it would be out of pity and no one deserves that. And as for that friend of yours just show her the door out of your life for the sake of your sanity