How The Love Of My Life Changed To My Worst Nightmare

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Hello Good morning 

First my name is Okoedion Lucky and i met this girl on Facebook Dec 1st 2014(my first year in the university) while she was still working and trying to gain admission into the university too. One thing led to another we became close and started dating. She was the first girl i ever kissed and i was overwhelmed with happiness and joy, we continue dating and after like three weeks we finally got to disvirgin each other, it was the best time of my life. Before then i never knew how love making feels like, i was so happy to the extent i leave school to be with her at work, 

as time goes by we became very close and no day passes by without us seeing each other..

she wrote her jamb and didn't make it. So her parents and family thought i was the cause/distraction which made their daughter to fail the jamb examination.. They started to pressure her to quit the relationship which she refused. 

months went by and she finally agreed to leave the relationship i was so down and confused there was nothing i could do to help out in thr situation 

i practically had to watch the love of my life go away for weeks i could not eat or sleep. I lost focus in school and it affected my results..

she later gainned admission into the university but it was too late for us to come back cause she has already gotten a new boyfriend. An older guy i could never stand against.

its been 3 years since we got separated yet i still love and wanna be with her..

she was my everything??

How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Micheal Ikumapayi - 2019-11-04 10:03:55

This is Touching one.. Well this situation for her to think of getting another boyfriend means she doesnt love you like you think she does..although things like lack of communication, lack of creating time for one another destroys love bit by bit..but still she shouldn't have thought having another boyfriend, you should just be who you are.. Don't be moved or discouraged or with that hate ladies, she has her reason for leaving  , you should just try and move forward, i think you should just focus on your education first then ladies come after...

 Sorry dear...but note this that if she truly love you she will surely come back to you,  make sure  you dont send her away if she actually comes back 

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Gafar Olatunji - 2019-11-04 10:55:33

The only advice I can share is for you to stay focused and achieve your aims of getting your degree and make sure it worth’s the pains, come out in flying colors, don’t lose your focused over emotional trauma, you can still achieve a lot and even a wonderful married life, don’t lose a future over few Pains 

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Afolabi Tomisin - 2019-11-04 11:34:30

My advice for you brother is to try to move on, focus more on something else and try to make yourself happy, because without that you'll only loose yourself to depression which can cause a lot of havoc to your life, she maybe truly loves you but she moved on so I think it's healthy if you do too. Focus on your studies and success, that way you don't loose both ways. 

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By David Ahmadu - 2019-11-04 12:43:46

My advice to you is that you should look for another one, if she truly loves you she couldn't have done such, for you to continue in this condition, definitely your studies will be affected which will lead you to change of future, encourage yourself and move forward to be successful in future.

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By FAVOUR ANN - 2019-11-04 15:27:35

Somethings are not meant to be it's a touching one tho, but she has moved on I advise you do the same, focus on your education, love will find you when you ready, don't let distraction or love steal your future, the best is yet to come, get over it, try giving attention to friends family or what you enjoy doing with time you'll be just fine and back on your feet. 

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Lucky Rita - 2019-11-04 15:30:27

My advice to you is just try to be focus, sometimes is always like that, getting emotional break from the one you love.

If she truely loves you the way you love her she would have not left for another guy even if her parents ask her to do so as afar  that love is their. Please just try to move on God knows the best for you.

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Francis Mofunlewi - 2019-11-04 16:03:37

This is really touching and I guess you should just move on and don't let that be a distraction for you for life. Things happen in life, the way you take them will make you know the difference in life.

Move on man, its very hard but you still have to move on and let by gone be by gone. This is life bro, they said if you don't learn in the simple way, you will learn in the hard way. I guess this is the hard way and you just have to accept and move on.

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Folashade Roberts - 2019-11-04 16:42:58

Love is a beautiful thing but when it becomes a distraction it becomes a problem. The best advise is just to move on without her, she left you already and even has a new boyfriend, that is a clear sign that she has moved on, move on too. Whatever you might have had together should bring you joy and not distraction, there's a better person out there for you.

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By chikwendu happylove12 - 2019-11-05 07:22:43

Sometimes things happen the way we don't want. It might please us and might not. Just move on with your life. Face your studies, you will definitely find love someday. I have once been in that shoe. Its not easy to let go the one you really love. Not all individual understand that but you need to be strong. 

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Harrison Danga - 2019-11-09 14:16:29

Everything in this life happens for a reason, she may mean the world to you but it may happen that God wants what's better for you that's why you can't be together at this point. All you need to do is to move on because I know she has moved on too, thinking of her now will only add to your depression. Just move on... 

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How the love of my life changed to my worst nightmare - By Joshua Sunday - 2019-11-11 18:28:06

Ladies move on faster in this kind of situations, so just try to let things go because I believed that the guy is given her everything you couldn't since he is bigger mature than you their is no possible way she can love you again since she had tested a mature mind just forgets about her she is beyond you now

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