Is Divorce The Best Way To Stop Marriage Issues? And Why?

Divorce is an official or legal process of ending a marriage i.e no longer married to your wife or husband.

Look at marriages today, you tends to hear various kind of marriage issues between couples on social media, news, radio stations etc, and some person thinks that filling for divorce will actually stop marriage problems and complains,but filling for divorce, is it the best way to end marriage issue between couples? and why?

Lets hear your thoughts.

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  • Divorce is not the best way to end marital issues. The key thing in marriage is understanding and forgiveness. If your partner offends or hurt you real bad, why not try to forgive him/her and try to work things out

    - Elizabeth Edionwele - 2019-08-19 14:59:13 Quote

  • Divorce is the last option one should take in marriage. Counseling is the best approach.

    - Adamu Usman - 2019-08-19 16:25:14 Quote

  • Yeah, with divorce actually you can end abuses in marriage, but why marry to divorce? 

    Was there no love? 

    Was there no communication? 

    What's happening now then? 

    - Richard Ngirigwa - 2019-08-19 16:25:21 Quote

  • Divorce shouldn't be an option at any point because it makes it known that the love wasn't there at first sometimes a little understanding can bring back the joy.

    - Lawal Damilare - 2019-08-20 05:03:47 Quote

  • No divorcing ur partner is not the end...the solution is for the both parties to work on their weaknesses

    - NGOZI GODWIN - 2019-08-20 11:21:47 Quote

  • To me divorce is not and never be a solution to marriage issues. Rather it is better they solve every single issue amicably and also should not prolong any issue.

    - Ugochi Lucy - 2019-08-20 17:27:09 Quote

  • To me the ladies of nowadays they don't want to endure anymore they follow celebrities lifestyles on social media that is why as you can see all those celebrities to they don't live in their husbands house they divorce everyday and they sure things that they can't even afford and the ladies of nowadays the river of nowadays want to live that kind of lifestyle the celebrities are leaving so they want to be like them and when the provision is not coming out for that the divorce that is social media for you

    - Barnabas Ilesanmi - 2019-08-20 20:19:51 Quote

  • Divorce is not best option, because it will only end the marriage if that is accepted. Both parties should be able to settle their differences harmoneously among themselves and should not linger long.

    - JOB OMEIZA AUDU - 2019-08-21 06:13:51 Quote

  • Divorce is not the best way to stop marriage issues, in my own opinion before you get married to a man or woman make sure u make them ur best friends, ur play mate, ur advocate and most of all take and treat them like u will treate yourself before getting married if not you will have different marriage issues.

    And the reason why divorce is not good is that it kills ur emotional being, were there is children is becomes a big problem to the children because they we Lack parental love and care. So the best option is not divorce but understanding and managing each other differences in the marriage or in any relationship.

    - Richard Ejiro - 2019-08-21 08:54:20 Quote

  • No, I don't think divorce is the best option rather they should meet a therapist for proper examination of their life and find a solution to their problems.  UNDERSTANDING is very important. 

    - Chinwuba Henry - 2019-08-21 13:40:32 Quote

  • Divorce should never be an option unless in extreme cases of abuse,consistent cheating. Sometimes you need counselling from parents and elders but we should note that most tyrant children are products of divorced homes

    - Utibeabasi Elijah - 2019-08-21 14:27:45 Quote

  • Divorce is not the best way to sort marriage issues but the couple should try and solve their issues if possible without third parties even family members

    - John Akingunola - 2019-08-21 18:55:49 Quote

  • Divorce is not the best way of ending marriage problems but engaging in constant communication as couples with that they'll get to know each other opinions. And iron things out amicably without resulting to divorce 

    - Chinwe Igboh - 2019-08-22 09:43:54 Quote

  • I don't think divorce Is an option in marriage. This is marriage, things unexpected happens, but facing it is like a test on its own.

    - Tijani Yusuf - 2019-08-22 10:22:06 Quote

  • Divorced is not the best way for husband and wife,because if you divorced your wife,she can caused problem for husband

    - Jagunna Surajudeen babatunde - 2019-08-22 13:01:47 Quote

  • Divorce Is not the best way to end a marriage...... The couples should always create time to talk to each other about the issues affecting their relationship and also they should seek advice from their parents,relationship adviser, therapists 

    - Atere Yinka - 2019-08-22 13:32:29 Quote

  • Divorce is not a good way to end a relationship..... people divorcing their partners....are really sinning....breaking  the vows and convenants they made on their marriage

    - Ikenga Dominic Chukwuemeka - 2019-08-22 16:24:27 Quote

  • Divorce is good in many ways because if the couples were not enjoying each others they must get divorce because it's not good to be in an unhappy relationship

    - Lawal Babatunde Busari - 2019-08-22 19:31:06 Quote

  • Truly divorce is not an option in marriage. This is caused by misunderstandings in marriage which is not supposed to be. That's why we have courtship before marriage. That period is meant for the duo to understand each other better. So I don't see any reason for divorce in marriage. If you can't cope with each other after marriage you should make it clear to each other during courtship. 

    - Fasoranti Victor - 2019-08-23 10:23:27 Quote

  • Divorce is and cannot be the best way to stop marriage issue because God said 'I hate Divorce' remember marriage is for better for worst in sickness and in health. So I think the best way is understanding the principles of marriage. Marriage is a Union instituted by God.

    - Divinefavour Okoroekumah - 2019-08-24 00:09:09 Quote

  • No, you just have to find out the reason behind all your spouse actions and then, you will definitely find the way out

    - Olofintuyi Timi - 2019-08-24 06:38:21 Quote

  • I don't really think divorce is the best option, they should consult a counselor to advice them what to do. The solution for them is to work on weaknesses, differences and understand themselves

    - Emmanuel Chinedu - 2019-08-24 10:40:34 Quote

  • Divorce is not an option when it come to dealing with marital problems. I think the best way is identifying the root cause of all the troubles you are experiencing in you marriage and finding ways to tackle them. But divorce, don't consider it.

    - Stephen Danladi - 2019-08-24 16:18:47 Quote

  • Divorce is never an option. That's why the pastor always quotes 'Do you Miss this that take Mr that this as your lawfully wedded husband In sickness and health, in wealth and affliction, in sorrow and happiness till death, I repeat the death do you part'. What God as joined together let no man or law put asunder 

    - Matthew Ajewole - 2019-08-24 23:25:41 Quote

  • Divorce is not an option at all. Good communication skills could help the problem because it brings about mutual understanding.

    - Yakubu Shelong - 2019-08-25 22:35:11 Quote

  • Divorce is not the best solve martial issue it's only trigger crisis,hatred and damages but mutual understanding and maturity, the ability to adapt to any situation the couple find their selves and acknowledge each other shortcomings. 

    - Uchenna Churchill - 2019-08-26 21:58:53 Quote

  • I think in some exceptional cases, divorce can be the only answer. When a marriage is damaged beyond fixing, staying in to continue might be the decision that dictates how deep one's own grave should be. 

    - Bolarinwa Bodunde - 2019-08-27 03:26:25 Quote

  • i am really not a fan of divorce, marriage is for better for worst, its not always sweet and its not always bitter either. when you feel you cant handle your differences, seek for a conselor

    - kenechukwu Anene - 2019-08-27 15:28:31 Quote

  • Divorce should never be the answer to a issue in the marriage because first a marriage should be a life time commitment and not some game u can pause and resume when ever u like... I also think that marriage should be have a free means of communication where by both the couples can discuss how to help the marriage work longer and better 

    - Duke daniel - 2019-08-27 17:50:12 Quote

  • Divorce is not a remedy to marital issues. Firstly it is important to seek the face of God before venturing into marriage because of course marriage is for lifetime. 

    Secondly, people create problems for themselves when they tend to fall into peer pressure, family pressure, promiscuity which leads to pregnancy thereby forcing them to get married. Desperacy, and love of money. In fact, people are no longer ashamed to get divorced.

    ​​If you visit customary Court sessions, some family issues you hear are truly avoidable. Let us try and settle down before choosing a spouse because people pretend a lot just to achieve their selfish desires at the detriment of another's happiness.

    - Anita Tobin-West - 2019-08-27 20:51:08 Quote

  • Divorce is not the best way to settle issues between couples, its just one of those solutions one can think of, I think in a place of proper understanding there won't be need for a divorce.

    - Lucas Lucas - 2019-08-28 11:24:37 Quote

  • To me divorce is the best way, if you have a woman that later reveals her true colors to you which is not accommodating in your heart the best thing is to divorce her and vice versa.  Men suffers emotional torturing most, that's the reason why in Africa you see most of the men dieing and living the wives. The whites uses this analogy as a defence mechanism that is why there is even high rate of divorce in the white man's land

    - Bulus Ali - 2019-08-28 14:52:05 Quote

  • The vow couples take on the Altar is for better or worse,Till death separates them,I don't think anyone who knows the meaning of the the vow on the Altar would file a divorce

    - Ajah Peter ugbo - 2019-08-28 17:27:59 Quote

  • Divorce is not the best especially if they have kids.because it will only affect the children one way or the other except if it is getting to taken life that's the time that nothing can solve it than divorce 

    - Azeez Ridwan olanrewaju - 2019-08-29 04:35:56 Quote

  • Hmm! Divorce is and can never the best way way to stop marriage challenges. Divorce is like fighting the wrong enemy leaving the real enemy. It is better to fight the real cause of the divorce and stay together.

    - Samson Adamu - 2019-08-29 08:59:14 Quote

  • Divorce is what people think will be the solution but divorce divorce is not the best way to end a relationship.I dont think anyone value the vow made on altar.divorce is against the commandment of god

    - Adeboye Gideon - 2019-08-29 16:20:12 Quote

  • There is no perfect marriage that is why we take the oat "for better for worse, sickness and health" if you divorce this one, u will still meet another and you will continue to divorce, how many will you leave. 

    So NO it's not a way to solve issues in marriage. Try settle these issues and the experience will help u help others in future.

    - Umukoro Emmanuel - 2019-08-29 18:18:29 Quote

  • Divorce can never the solution to end marriage. When there is a dispute between two parties, they should try as much as possible have a unionism between themselves that is why is very important to be in courtship before marriage in order to avoid marital issues.

    - Sunday Imoudu - 2019-08-30 05:03:18 Quote

  • Some people are so hard if they make a decision today they will stand their ground. If in a relationship both spouse are not in love with each other again they will go their seperate ways by means of divorce.

    - Adache silas - 2019-08-30 06:15:37 Quote

  • Divorce is not the solution, because you are not even sure of what's going to happen in the next relationship. Both partners need to be counselled before taking that type of decision.You never can tell love happen again.

    - Olarinre Damilola - 2019-08-30 10:36:09 Quote

  • Firstly divorce is a sin because it is a legal union that has the blessings of God.... So marriage issues ought to b resolved by the couples bcoz they are matured adults and ought to act like one and face their problems

    - Timothy Barnabas - 2019-08-30 17:49:40 Quote

  • "what God has joined together let no man put asunder" "and the two shall become one" "till death do us part" it means all this oath as been broken, I believe in circumstances whereby all you can think of is divorce you should try And remember the oath you took.

    - Aneke victor ebuka - 2019-08-31 04:11:26 Quote

  • Divorce is certainly the best way to stop marriage, when the marriage is not working as it is suppose to,  there's no point staying in a relationship that is not leading anywhere

    - George Powell - 2019-08-31 10:01:26 Quote

  • Divorce is not the best way out, I think no matter the problem the couple's have can be resolved. Even if they have grown out of love with each other there can be a way to help them, there are counselors who can help. Divorce not only affect the couple's but also the children. 

    - Idi Grace - 2019-08-31 14:17:03 Quote

  • Divorce isnt the best way to solve marriage issues,because as a Christian it isn't biblical,but I think if every measures have been taken to resolve the issues,why not,divorce could be the best  option.If they continue living together it may excalate the problem leading to murder,or very bad occurrences.

    - Michael Eni - 2019-08-31 17:28:45 Quote

  • Divorce should never be an option why? Because u are under an oat..and u should have made ur findings before u knew his/her bad sides...

    But then God actually can change our mistakes to our joy..prayer works.

    - Ezema Princewill - 2019-08-31 19:50:43 Quote

  • In my opinion people see divorce as the best and easy option whereas it's supposed to be a last resort, like the case of both couples fighting, but people like the easy road and the easy road is not always the best ways. 

    - Emmanuel E - 2019-09-01 06:31:24 Quote

  • No. Divorce is not the ultimate or best solution to marriage issues. In fact, a marriage without issues is a child's play! Those issues strengthen the marriage more. The best solution or rather maintenance strategy for marriage issues is dialogue. Call the elders from the families of both the husband and the wife and resolve the issues amicably. That's the best.

    - HAMMED RAIFU - 2019-09-02 07:51:18 Quote

  • Divorce can never be the solution to marriage problems. What is written is written and what must happen must happen I think the problems for marriage issue can never be stopped unless marriage is stopped 

    - Christian Chekwube - 2019-09-02 16:56:07 Quote

  • Divorce is not the way out.....because every marriages faces it's own challenges then if you want a divorce because of marriage issues then you have it in mind not to remarry.... instead face your problem with constant praying and communication

    - Lol Laugh - 2019-09-04 12:09:10 Quote

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