Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His.

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A viral news about a man who finds out that 2 out of his 5 kids are not his but that of his family doctor wants a divorce from his wife. It was reported that the wife has been having a secret affair with the family doctor but the man loves all his children. 

What should be his next action and what happens to the kids?

Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Alexander Akiama - 2019-08-16 09:36:41

Firstly this is really deep for just social media advice, I think they really need to seek a marriage counselor 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Arowolo Olasunkanmi - 2019-08-16 09:42:15

He should keep the children as his own as sensing the children too their father can cause psychological problems for the children and even how own because the children grown together as one

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Fanim Peter Rimven - 2019-08-16 09:58:50

It's will difficult for the children to accept the fact that their dad who brought them up is not their biological father, I suggest the man accept the children and find a way to settle with his wife..

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Alabi Sodiq - 2019-08-16 10:02:42

For me both the woman and the doctor are very bad person that should be run away from, I will divorce the woman and take care of the children because nobody knows who will bury him or her. I will just do it for God.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By David Chinecherem - 2019-08-16 10:11:10

I think the family is about to scatter because one cannot keep a woman he calls his wife and the woman will still be cheating on his husband with their family doctor to the extent of giving birth for the doctor I think divorce is the best answer for this type of issue 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Justice Mike - 2019-08-16 10:32:35

To me...the kids should go back to their biological father 

No kid should be discomforted from that opportunity 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By IBRAHIM HAFIZ - 2019-08-16 10:33:27

A DNA test should be conducted on all the children by a trusted doctor in a trusted hospital, nobody can say. who knows maybe all the children are not his own. 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Aina Bamidele - 2019-08-16 11:13:02

This is infidelity, if the Man faith can carry it He should forgive else return the children to the father and train up He's Own children.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Onweh Victory Ifeanyi - 2019-08-16 11:15:21

The woman don play away match or what? Anyway let the man follow this issue with ease

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Joseph Dorathy - 2019-08-16 11:56:57

This Is a big issue it will be like a nightmare to the man he should be able to handle this issue with care if not he will cause damage

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By DAUDA ABDULMUMUNI - 2019-08-16 12:04:50

Hmmm we have to be careful with ladies of nowadays

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Bello Ahmad Tijani - 2019-08-16 12:34:12

He should just accept what has happened as he can't change the past, he can either accept all the kids if he truly loves them or just take his own.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Ugwuota Kenechukwu - 2019-08-16 12:48:52

As much as fact has to be stated here, the man who loves all his kids will have to take them with him. Because since the man and the woman are lawfully wedded, all the kids are his, he should take all of dem and let the woman sort her self wit her new boyfriend (the doctor)

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Ishaq Ndako Suraju - 2019-08-16 13:36:41

The two chidren should go back to their biological father, that is just the best optoin 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Iorpine Loya - 2019-08-16 15:00:18

The 2 kids should be sent back to their biological father. The man should remain with his wife and the other children.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Daniel Adeyemi - 2019-08-16 16:17:48

Well, I believe they are grown enough to know where to go, but in my opinion, he the kids wants stay, the man should know he's more father than the man who's sole fatherly responsibility is semen. 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Lenee Letura - 2019-08-16 20:26:56

Is a sad story though, but he should Take care of all the children he may not have been there biological father but should take them as his 

For that woman hmmm na him know wetin they inch her 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By peter chimezie - 2019-08-16 22:52:13

The man should keep his wife and children including the other two that are not his children till they get to the age to decide for themselves who they will follow 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By ibukunoluwa oluwasoga - 2019-08-18 14:24:14

i believe it would take a very disciplined and soft herted man to take care of the remaining three, or to continue to take care of his wife, but still he should be reasonable and calmly resolve the issue.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Oludemi Michael - 2019-08-19 16:48:29

That's too bad after how many years he now later found out. The wife should br severally punished

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Agav igbadio Solomon - 2019-08-20 08:06:58

Personally, I won't have any issue with the kids, my wife will take them to her new husband and remain there to enjoy what was lacking in me as a husband.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Abraham Adams - 2019-08-20 13:59:03

It is only proper that the kids be given to their rightful parents and as for the marriage, if you ask me its as good as finished...if once is a mistake, what do you call the second time...9months + 9months....that's heartless woman!

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Nora Chidera - 2019-08-21 00:08:49

this is going to be a huge hit on him when he found out and a really huge change on the two kids that aren't his blood but loved them like they were his....The woman had no conscience, how cold you do that to a man you claim you loved and marriage not once but twice all i can advice is for the man to take it easy and meet a therapist, with time you will heal

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Nasara Victor - 2019-08-21 06:25:56

My own opinion there is if the family are living happyers family, what is there is that the doctor wanted to scarter the Man family because no any man that have can't not have sexy with so any drop of relis is his blood

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Barnabas Ilesanmi - 2019-08-21 10:38:00

What is happening in this world infidelity everywhere there's no one to be trusted can you believe that the family doctor then who can we trust anymore give the two that belongs to the doctor to him and take your three and separate with the woman

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Barnabas Ilesanmi - 2019-08-21 10:38:38

What is happening in this world infidelity everywhere there's no one to be trusted can you believe that the family doctor then who can we trust anymore give the two that belongs to the doctor to him and take your three and separate with the woman

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Ibraheem Danteni - 2019-08-21 14:49:18

A family doctor and house wife with secerate affairs which is very bad, the children life will be tempted by this incident, we just have to be extremely careful with ladies I not...

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Joy Eze - 2019-08-22 09:13:49

A big Lesson to every body stop entrusting ur wife's to ur family doctors, lawyer's, plumbers and even Gateman's are not left out, they children should go back to their biological father....

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Oluwa Segun - 2019-08-22 10:36:05

This happens, but mistakenly the child’s should go back to the biology father and if the husband was nice to them, They will be different in their biological father and their moms husband 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Eka Ntuen - 2019-08-22 13:54:13

He should still go on and take care of them ..Theyvebeen calling him dad from childhood

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Iwayemi Kayode Damilola - 2019-08-23 17:10:22

Well that's so disheartening. Two for that matter. It would be difficult for those kids to believe, cos their real father didn't have hands in their up keep

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Miracle Boniface - 2019-08-24 16:25:56

There is nothing he can do about it he should not send his wife away nor d children let him just take them as his own

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Obagunle Paul Kehinde - 2019-08-27 13:08:12

I will suggest that the man should stay with his wife and children since he said He's still loves all the Children, and also the wife needs to plead with her Husband so that peace can reign again.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Sylvia Dupe - 2019-08-27 16:10:57

This is not new in the world of today, the man should just take heart and keep his wife and the wife too,no matter what happened between you and your husband, cheating him shouldn't be the next option.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Emmanuel Samson - 2019-08-27 16:55:43

No matter how he is adviced to keep on taking care of all of them, that love he had for them will not remain the same again mostly because he feels they are not his children and they are not the only children he has so I will advice him to try his best to keep this a secret from the children until they are matured enough to understand the whole situation and even if he feels he can't take care of them again, he can take them to someone who will.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Lucas Lucas - 2019-08-28 10:48:29

That must have made gum very sad, but despite the odds, I think he should keep on taking care of them, its also important to find out who their father is if possible, cause the might have. Other siblings they are not aware of, its a sad one though.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Samson Adamu - 2019-08-29 09:03:32

It is really very difficult to advise in this kind of issue and at the same time avoiding causing crises in d family. But there's nothing that can take the place of forgiveness in the side of the man if the woman is truly sorry for her action.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Matthew Ajewole - 2019-08-29 10:04:50

In my understanding nothing happens without a reason the best to do would be to consider the age of the two because keeping them would haunt them in the future if they are still young to understand whats happening he should keep them cause it can lead to brain trauma and seek advice on divorcing the woman from his pastor or a marriage counselor

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Matthew Ajewole - 2019-08-29 10:05:05

In my understanding nothing happens without a reason the best to do would be to consider the age of the two because keeping them would haunt them in the future if they are still young to understand whats happening he should keep them cause it can lead to brain trauma and seek advice on divorcing the woman from his pastor or a marriage counselor

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Tochukwu Cynthia - 2019-08-29 14:19:09

As for me, I will divorce the woman. Even if I love the children I will still divorce her besides the children deserve the love of their biological father. I will just take my own children and leave the doctors children for both of them

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Roland Chima - 2019-09-01 16:39:56

this is going to be a huge hit on him when he found out and a really huge change on the two kids that aren't his blood but loved them like they were his....The woman had no conscience, how cold you do that to a man you claim you loved and marriage not once but twice all i can advice is for the man to take it easy and meet a therapist.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Muheez Oladimeji - 2019-09-01 22:58:05

The tag of the family doctor should be removed first. The man who has been taking care of them for long will only have to continue doing that. But for his wife, she doesn't deserve a better place to stay to have done such to that innocent man

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Wilfred Okpala - 2019-09-02 10:45:38

If after a DNA test and this is still true then this is a very serious issue. How can a man cater for 2 unknown children which one at that could supposedly be his first child? If the wife had told him it would have been a different case entirely but the is so outrageous. 

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Abdullahi Nurudeen Olayiwola - 2019-09-03 14:07:57

will difficult for the children to accept the fact that their dad who brought them up is not their biological father, I suggest the man accept the children and find a way to settle with his wife..fter a DNA test and this is still true then this is a very serious issue. How can a man cater for 2 unknown children which one at that could supposedly be his first child? If the wife had told him it would have been a different case entirely but the is so outrageous

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By TAIWO ADEDOLAPO - 2019-09-03 16:44:24

My own opinion there is if the family are living happyers family, what is there is that the doctor wanted to scarter the Man family because no any man that have can't not have sexy with so any drop of relis is his blood

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By TAIWO ADEDOLAPO - 2019-09-03 16:45:54

will difficult for the children to accept the fact that their dad who brought them up is not their biological father, I suggest the man accept the children and find a way to settle with his wife..fter a DNA test and this is still true then this is a very serious issue. How can a man cater for 2 unknown children which one at that could supposedly be his first child? If the wife had told him it would have been a different case entirely but the is so outrageous

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By TAIWO ADEDOLAPO - 2019-09-03 17:14:19

If after a DNA test and this is still true then this is a very serious issue. How can a man cater for 2 unknown children which one at that could supposedly be his first child? If the wife had told him it would have been a different case entirely but the is so outrageous.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Emeto Adaobi - 2019-09-04 12:23:34

This is enough for depression to set in. Living all your life with the kids you've always known as yours, and then one morning Everything changes. 

I'll say he should keep the kids, and always see them as his own, who knows, maybe when they grow up and find out the truth, they may still choose to see him as their father.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By HAMMED RAIFU - 2019-09-05 10:04:12

My advice for the man is to accept his fate and continue to cater for all the 5 children. Who knows which of them will end up taking care of him in the future. As for the woman, let her stay, don't divorce her because the children needs her to grow fully.

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Man Finds Out That 2 Out Of His 5 Kids Are Not His. - By Alalade Taiwo - 2019-09-09 15:06:00

So complicated issue. i would have advice him to go ahead but blood is thicker than water. He should ask the mother to confess and return the children back to their father

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