My Fiance Is A Scammer
I have a man that wants to marry me, we've dated for more than a year now and he was caring for me when we met recently and I had to go back to my base because of my job, it was difficult but he finally had no choice than to accept. We've been communicating ever since. This year around March I travelled to where he base to see him and we hang out but I knew he's never been really sincere with me, he lodged me in a hotel refusing me to know his house and I only had a day out of work to spend with him not minding the distance and transport spent with my own money to and fro, the risk, I fed my self because I was trying to understand when he said he wasn't financially buoyant so I spent that day with him and went back
We don't communicate too often but when we do am always glad. About a week after we met we were chatting one day and he said he wasn't feeling ok, he was involved in an accident and his car crashed and I should lend him 100thousand, I had upto that amount cause I do save up for my school with my little earnings he said he'll refund me in a month time. Since that march march untill now he hasn't refund me the money neither is he picking up my calls
I loved him and told my family about him but I don't know what to do now because only the both of us were aware of the transaction and am hurt now that I gained the admission I have spent all of my money and needs that money to continue with the admission processes but he's avoiding me now
Is it a crime to love and trust or help a loved one in need, am financially stranded now coupled with the emotional trauma I'm having
Please advise me on what I can do...