She Claimed To Be A Virgin But I Didn't See Blood. Was I Fooled ?

Have being dating this girl for about two years now and every time i try having s8x with her she always stop me telling me she is a virgin and that even though she's not saying she won't give it to me, she needed more time. 

I decided to chill. But last week was her birthday, the early morning of that day, she called me to tell me that she will be surprising me today. 

Later at the end of the day, after all the celebration she said she is going to be sleeping over in my place and that was when i started guessing the surprise she said earlier that day that she has for me.

In the midnight she woke me up to tell me that she is ready, as a guy pretend not to know what she was talking about and she said she's ready to have s8x that she was actually waiting for a day like this to mark it.

Normally i had a little difficulty penetrating but throughout the whole game i didn't see or feel a drop of blood.

Have read and heard that there has to be blood. I was confuse and worried.

My question is, must there be blood ? Or was i lied to ? 

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  • I don't think she was lying my dear, most times the hymen can tear due to sports or exercise, so it's possible that she was a virgin but she didn't know it tore. There are also situations where the hymen wasn't torn, but blood still won't come out. So my dear, I feel if she was lying about it she wouldn't want to willingly give it to you on her birthday

    - Ashley Victor - 2019-10-07 06:42:23 Quote

  • No ...some girls have thin or thick hymen ...the thin hymen is very easy to break but the thick hymen finds it hard to break ..so to me I think she might have a thick hymen..another thing is that some girls do break their hymen at a very tender age ..during exercise some times during hard domestic duties ...but if you find it hard to penetrate ..she is really a virgin

    - Mmesoma Sandra - 2019-10-08 06:13:51 Quote

  • Due to the fact that you didn't see blood does not mean she's not a virgin. It may surprise you to know that not all women have hymen when they were born and it's possible she's one of them. Since you said you had problems with penetrating, then it's a sign that you're the first person she met with

    - Otabor Promise - 2019-10-08 06:45:22 Quote

  • You are not fooled man. . Same thing happened to me,,same story and stuffs and I was confused as well.. But why are girls or ladies like this... If they say we shouldn't force them we respect that stuff but later fooled 

    - Abdulgafar Oluwatoyin - 2019-10-08 11:22:55 Quote

  • Not all virgins have a release of blood after their first intercourse... Some ladies have their Hymens broken during exercises... Sometimes.. Exercise shrinks the Hymen and makes it small and dries up.. Not all virgins must release blood... Hymen is what gets broken during intercouse because the veins are exposed to the outer Flesh of the Vagina walls

    - Ijomah Rocky - 2019-10-08 15:46:23 Quote

  • My brother hymen is a very fragile tissue that can cut or dissolve due to any external  force,your girlfriend might have lost it through the straining of the tissue and as a result lost it unknowingly ...or she does not actually possess it but it's rare.. Have experienced it too though n we laughed about it

    - Oyewo Joseph - 2019-10-08 18:43:12 Quote

  • She might not be lying. When it comes to virginity, its a very delicate thing. Some people are even born without the hymen. Some were born with it but broke it during sports and exercise. Such things have been found to be able to break the virginity

    - oreoluwa omowaye - 2019-10-08 18:43:44 Quote

  • The concept of virginity or rather proof of virginity is much more than what you think(the flow of blood and all) Virginity in itself can be lost through other means like Sports, because the existence of hymen(is what determines a virgin) if the hymen is not thick quite straneous exercises can render it off,so it all depends.

    - Onabanjo Rereloluwa - 2019-10-08 19:17:21 Quote

  • Exactly. You see, the hymen is very fragile and as such any little force like riding on horses, bikes especially on a road full of potholes, e.t.c. would make the hymen break and as such, you wont know if she's truly a virgin or not. In order words, hymen can break due to stress and hard work females engage in.

    The reason they use the blood method in the olden days was because it is on the males that do hard work while the females are expected to sit at home as such it was a best way of testing for virginity, but its not a valid method again.

    - Samuel ogunshina - 2019-10-08 20:07:25 Quote

  • Actually she might truly be a virgin according to your explanation, and the memorable moment she wanted to make out of the fun you said tho' it was kind of tight when you tried to penetrate. It is not all the virgin women that actually have their hymen intact. Some lost theirs as a result of sport or when they were young by innocently playing with the thing.

    Thank you.

    - Samuel Abiola - 2019-10-09 20:11:42 Quote

  • No she is not lying cause I had the same experience when I got disvirgined there was no blood but pain it was on my second s8x I saw blood and pain so maybe I something like that try do it again and if it still the same I don't think she is what she call her self(virgin) 

    - Akinbode Boluwatife - 2019-10-09 20:45:13 Quote

  • Is your problem about she being a Virgin or not are you ready you that is speaking before you go on judging someone else by the way not every time blood will come out and at the sight of blood you would be thrown away so it's a good thing that you didn't even see any blood because it would have been much more bitter

    But there's more to relationship than that

    - Joseph Lawrence - 2019-10-09 22:12:08 Quote

  • She is not lying not all girls bleed when they are disvirgined some are caused as a result of tampon and may also be caused as a result of sport....you said it yourself that you found it difficult to enter but if she wasn't a virgin you would have entered easily...

    - Blessing Titilope Ajayi - 2019-10-09 22:15:48 Quote

  • No brother I don't think so, not all girls bleed when being disvirgin, while some do but the fact that she didn't doesn't make it that she's not a Virgin, it could even be that she was bleeding when she got home or wherever she came from, just don't jump into accusations immediately bro. 

    - Rilwani Latifah - 2019-10-10 20:37:40 Quote

  • I dnt think she is lying, there some ladies who dnt bring out blood when they s8x for the first time. Since you kinda find it hard to penetrate at first I think she is telling u the truth

    - OYINKANSOLA SHOBOWALE - 2019-10-10 20:42:53 Quote

  • Not all brings blood ,its obvious that its our believe that blood must gush out when disvirgin a lady or a girl but nowaday different exercise like dancing,running and so on breaks the hymen covering the vagina

    - Adebayo Oluwafemi - 2019-10-10 20:42:55 Quote

  • At all,it not a most blood must be present.. The hymen might have been broken since birth so it not her fault blood did not come out. It is normal and you are not fooled

    - Umoru Toluwalope - 2019-10-11 23:28:48 Quote

  • No it is not compulsory you see blood after you disvirgin her

    Ladies have different kind of hymen maybe thick ,medium or thin so it depends on the kind of hymen she has if thick you will see blood but thin there won't be any traces of blood at all

    - Akano Christianah - 2019-10-11 23:30:39 Quote

  • I don't think she lie to you.  It's not cumpolsory there is blood during the s8xuall act she might be a virgin problably lost her hymen during menstrual period or any hard exercise she's still a virgin the fact you don't see blood having encounter with her did not mean she's not a virgin

    - Oretan Ayomipo Micheal - 2019-10-12 18:23:38 Quote

  • I don't think she's lieing.

    She might be telling you the truth for the fact that when you tried penetrating it was hard and for her to ask for it willing after all your plea for it

    - James Nnenna - 2019-10-12 18:29:46 Quote

  • Since you found it difficult to penetrate, bro she is because not every lady bleed, hyme is like a balloon it can burst any time, may be during exercise, bicycle riding, balley dance e.t.c

    - Chibundom Eunice - 2019-10-12 19:10:17 Quote

  • Op, study her character in the coming months. If you discover that she isn't lying to you concerning your day to day activities then believe her that she didn't lie to you concerning the virginity issue. 

    - Monday Neboh - 2019-10-12 19:35:46 Quote

  • Not seeing blood doesn't mean she wasn't virgin,u said it yourself that you had difficulties penetrating her,just know that not all girls bleed,sometimes it could be maybe you haven't really tear the hymen,this goes with how hard or strong your manhood is to tear and make her bleed . i believe she didn't fool you anyway,because she wont be so confident about giving you as a birthday gift.

    - Adeshina Adewale - 2019-10-12 20:09:16 Quote

  • Dear,you've heard and read wrong information. This ignorant statement has belittled so many girls who were actual virgins in those days. A virgin doesn't necessarily have to bleed. But as long as the vaginal canal was really right and she gave you her word then yes, she's a virgin 

    - Ayemobuwa Omotayo - 2019-10-12 20:15:50 Quote

  • It's possible she's thought she was a virgin in the sense that, maybe when she was a little girl she grid fingering herself which she didn't probably remeber again ,due to what she was taught in school and she didn't think it was something of concern ,but she's the only one definitely who has the right answer to your question if you try talking to her about it the day you both are feeling happy together she might tell you the truth behind it, or if it's another guy she won't tell you no matter how.

    - Ope doyinsola Theophilus - 2019-10-12 20:41:13 Quote

  • You aren't fool my brother. Some girls may lost their virginity during excercises or physical Activities. Or even when traveling this Nigeria bad road that has too much of pot holes self can may the hymen loose and deflow  girls as they travelled. As this motor enter gallop with force you understand . So far you fill it's tight then she is a virgin. Even if she is not may be it's has just been penetrated like twice only

    - Mubarak Abdulwahab - 2019-10-12 21:30:04 Quote

  • My brother, difficulty in penetration is not a sign of virginity some smart girls after dabaruing about will pure some guming liquid on their vj to make it look tight. The blood is a natural sign.  I think you have been fooled 

    - Stella Maurison - 2019-10-12 23:08:58 Quote

  • You were not fool guy, you not seeing blood does not guarantee you that she not a virgin, but since you penetrate before I got there truly she is a virgin 

    - Olaifa Kikelomo - 2019-10-12 23:56:49 Quote

  • She is not lying to u at any point so would say you take what you see and learn to believe what she says.

    It happen sometimes that after she done having the sex with when she get to her home the blood flows like river you may not be there,to see for your self.

    - Emediong akpan - 2019-10-13 00:41:52 Quote

  • Nope. What causes the blood flow is not the fact that she's claims to be a virgin but the presence of a broken hymen. The hymen is a thin tissue filled with blood covering the entrance of the vagina. The hymen can be broken when the female, of course goes through strainous or physical activities like exercises, rough riding a bicycle. There have been cases where the hymen got broken due to masturbation also. It might even be that it was broken without her knowing or she wasn't even born with it. Yes, few female aren't born with it. So, it might just be that you met one that wasn't born with it. Hope this helps ; ) 

    - Joseph Ibe - 2019-10-13 00:58:06 Quote

  • My brother even though she might not be a virgin but I must tell you this. She in my own part, should be best of her type at least for keeping herself till date proved  that she has self control, which one of the major virtue needed in a woman. That should make u love her more, cos she worth trust

    - Ejiofor Justice - 2019-10-13 16:00:41 Quote

  • It is not compulsory that blood must show. I had the experience with my first love. She used to ride bicycle to school.  She was a footballer. So excesise can lubricate that part and it will not be strong as to produce blood. 

    - Chizuram Nwokoukwu - 2019-10-13 16:36:01 Quote

  • My brother if she was not a virgin she would have agreed even before you asked but whereby she asked you to give her some time I doubt the possibility that she could actually be fooling her self in pretence I think you should ask her something about that

    - Okeke Promise - 2019-10-13 16:44:46 Quote

  • You have the right to doubt my brother,though she may still be a virgin but not all penetration leads to bleeding or blood,breaking a virginity isn't like that it depends on the body and how she's created dear

    - Taofik Adebanjo - 2019-10-13 17:01:01 Quote

  • Not every lady bleads first time, you felt an obstruction that alone is something. Sometimes men ought to believe ladies it's not every girl that will lie to you about being a virgin or not.

    - Idi Grace - 2019-10-13 18:12:21 Quote

  • No, I don't think you were supposed to see blood.  Since you testified to the fact that you had difficulties trying to penetrate her, then that is enough to convince you she was a virgin.. Pls respect her and take care of her, since you took away are virginity.

    - Obaitan Mary - 2019-10-13 19:48:05 Quote

  • It may not necessarily meant that blood must come as it was in the days of our forefather. Today young girls play football or do one exercise or another. This make that part loose. 

    - Nwokoukwu Jerome - 2019-10-13 20:02:31 Quote

  • She might not be lying because according to latest discoveries,a lady can be disvirgined by exercise and a whole lot of other things,but since there was a hard time before penetration, it's likely possible that she might have been disvirgined through other means 

    - Dimale Toma - 2019-10-15 17:25:27 Quote

  • She wasn't lying because it will be of no use sleeping around and lying to you that she's a virgin, their were possibilities that the hymen in her virginal didn't tear or must have tore before then due to excerise so she wasn't lying to you all along

    - Adeotu Celestine - 2019-10-16 09:18:39 Quote

  • It is not a mandatory that blood will come out while disvirgining a girl, so it's normal. The hymen is very delicate that it broke during one strenuous activity or the other doesn't mean she is not a virgin. Virginity can only be taken with a penetration of a penis.

    - Governor Esther - 2019-10-17 08:05:54 Quote

  • Don't get it twisted together she might be saying the truth or otherwise but activities she has involve herself with in the past is what will be a judge. Activity like sport,  acrobatics,  gymnastic and so on can cause this so be rest assured if she is involved in any of this then she is saying the truth

    - Oluwasegun Ajao - 2019-10-17 09:45:18 Quote

  • It's not all virgins that see blood after the first intercourse 

    This is because some of them may have broken their hymen unconsciously. The athletes that do more of jumping high jump or long jump may loose it too

    Some women loose it too due to infection contacted 

    And some people naturally don't see blood after the first intercourse 

    - Ajileye Sharon - 2019-10-18 06:51:49 Quote

  • Not seeing any blood does not mean she is not a virgin, you should read more about this and you will see you were not fooled, and she considering it as a surprise for you alone is enough to convince you, don't let this cause any spiff between you and her please.

    - Damilola Sodiq - 2019-10-23 08:53:01 Quote

  • For the fact that you confessed that you had difficulty penetrating her, then it only means that she was actually a Virgin. Please don't be eager to discard her. No decent girl will ever give you her virginity if she didn't love you. She could have given someone else but she chose you. 

    - Olufunke Edmond - 2019-10-24 21:03:50 Quote

  • She may be a virgin according to some biological factors, the hymen may have torn a long while ago maybe during sports or exercise, stress and all. You weren't fooled if the above factor is the case but if not, she lied to you. 

    - Miracle Oshe - 2019-10-25 16:16:25 Quote

  • It is not always by blood. Just like there are different kinds of skin, there are also different kinds of hymen. Some girls have thick hymen and some girls has thin hymen. Her hymen could have torn due to the rigorous things she does like sporting and other activities. So it might not be a lie

    - Oyetade Kehinde - 2019-10-26 09:48:48 Quote

  • She may be a virgin according to some biological factors, the hymen may have torn a long while ago maybe during sports or exercise, stress and all. You weren't fooled if the above factor is the case but if not, she lied to you.  

    - Francis Kcee Wilfred - 2019-10-31 06:53:05 Quote

  • You weren't lied to ...the hymen must have been broken during domestic work , exercise or an accident...she didn't lie to you since it was hard penetrating...it means she was a virgin..it's not a must for blood to come out all the time...it differs between ladies and the activities they are involved in

    - Chukwuneke Scholarstica - 2019-11-26 10:24:23 Quote

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