Should I Accept Back The Relationship?

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I was in a serious date relationship before I traveled from my hometown to my state city just to hustle hard to make money. God did it for me in a miraculous way that I earn money beyond my imagination

The fame started on Social media every girls in my community wish to be my girlfriend then I fell in love with a particular girl from my hometown we start our love affair until I plan to visit my hometown just for her sake I secretly enter my hometown lodge in a hotel with my new girlfriend

My secret visit leaked out my serious date girlfriend at out jealousy went to Police Station to reveal all my secret of money income cos she knew everything about me 

I spent lot of money just to avoid prison

Now am back from detention she's begging for forgiveness that she did everything out of jealousy..... Should I forgive her or not?

Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ezeh Echezana - 2019-09-11 12:41:55

Forgive her but don't allow her come into your life again, cause if you allow her into your life, that means you have allowed her to come and destroy you the more.

 I don't think she loves you, cause somebody that loves you will not leak you business and try to put you to jail that is not jealousy that is wickedness. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ibraheem Rasheed - 2019-09-11 13:56:52

That shouldn't be new to you as women are prone to acting before thinking. Your decision to accept her back or not will hinge on what you in your unbiased view think she is and what she's not. A meticulous scrutinization of your time together, her demeanour and potentials. Because even if she's the jealous type, I believe if have been averagely upright, you wouldn't have been affected by all malicious actions.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Aladetan Justina - 2019-09-11 14:24:05

She is a very bad  person really, this country has gone beyond worrying about how u make your money, due to the situation of the Nigerian  economy, everyone is struggling to survive even the FEDS are on their toes too...but the truth is if really u have nothing to hide you should not be worried about the authorities..

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Chukwuemeka Ogba - 2019-09-11 14:32:42

This is not good  at all why would she have done that at the initial time can't she just dialog with you, discuss on your relationship with her before your left to the city. She made a big mistake and I would advice you never to accept the relationship back

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ojo Isaac - 2019-09-11 14:43:52

Well I couldn't figure what the issue is here, but I think it's best is that if you guys love each other so much you just have to let go of the past and forgive her not necessarily you accept her back.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Alhaji AA-General Lee Azongar - 2019-09-11 14:57:18

Bro you have to forgive her and move on with your life without her in your life because a girl that make a decision like that can affect your image tomorrow ,bro try to forgive her because we offend God and we ask for forgiveness and he forgive us please forgive her in the sake of God I pray God bless you more than you expect

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Aderopo Elijah Garuba - 2019-09-11 15:02:15

From my point of view, firstly forgiveness is what matter most because we are all sinners and God in his infinity mercy always forgive us. As a human beings we burn to makes mistakes. Secondly, I won't advise you to accept her back in to your life because ladies are very hard to believe. So tell her you have forgiven her and you're not interested in her again.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Vera ochim - 2019-09-11 15:09:06

Well, I think it’s still depends on how you still about her,jealous of course can lead to anything and you have to put in mind that she might still react in an another way when next she gets jealous of whatever you might still do in the future,you just have to be very careful with her.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Isomkwo Clement - 2019-09-11 15:10:29

Forgive her, but don't allow her into your life again, because if she can report you to the police out of jealousy then she will go to any extent to make sure you are hurt whenever the two of you have some misunderstanding.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Paul Agba - 2019-09-11 15:25:57

Third parties are not very healthy for a relationship, you know this person better than anyone else, take a stand, if she's worth it let her back in if she's not you know what to do. But why would you cheat in the first place. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ishaya Tanko - 2019-09-11 15:27:49

As a human beings we burn to makes mistakes. Secondly, I won't advise you to accept her back in to your life because ladies are very hard to believe. So tell her you have forgiven her and you're not interested in her again.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Chrislavish Juiceback - 2019-09-11 15:30:40

This is quite complicated from my point of view,  she reported you to the authorities about the source of your money because you had a relationship with someone else?  That is not jealous its cowardice. If you had been jailed would she be begging for forgiveness? Pls forgive her but don't accept her into your life anymore. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By John Deborah - 2019-09-11 15:43:13

From this article it first started with love then money and fame....she has a reason for her actions she was there while you had nothing ,you forgot her when you became rich so she has done her revenge now it's 50-50 so I'll say you accept her apology because it's now an even case and if you want her back it all depends on you whether you still love her and if you don't you let her go

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By PETER MMADUEKE - 2019-09-11 15:52:03

Date responsible  person even though you may not be responsible, in that vein, they respect your secrets and protect your identity. As for the girl in question, forgive  her bimut don't take her back. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Oreoluwa Amusan - 2019-09-11 15:55:53

Forgive her and move on with your life,she's not worth risking ur life for again because if she comes back as ur girlfriend she will do worse.What if you where not granted the bail will she still come back to you that is a no for sure,so I suggest you move on but don't show hatred towards her

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ottah Blessing - 2019-09-11 16:02:09

Yes, you have to forgive her but don't trust her again. If she can betray you once she can do it over and over again she can kill if she could send you to prison because of so called jealousy. And as for you, you have to engage yourself in a good job that will avoid people you trust linking your secret and leading you to prison.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Mary Omolola - 2019-09-11 16:02:11

You have to forgive her bro cause thats all in the past, now you should accept that there is a reason for everything maybe God wanted you to truly see the kind of person she really is..If you decide not to forgive her bro it  is not adding anything to you.So forgiving her will even make her respect you the more even though she did it out of jealousy,you just have to let her know that you have forgiven her but can't take her back again

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Seun Samson - 2019-09-11 16:03:44

She is a very bad  person really, this country has gone beyond worrying about how u make your money, due to the situation of the Nigerian  economy, everyone is struggling to survive even the FEDS are on their toes too

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Nwaonye Kingsley - 2019-09-11 16:03:53

you see ladies are like that after they call it jealous upon you respect her by lodging in a hotel still she don't understand but try to bring you down because she knows the secret of ur money forgiving is very important but I will advice you as you forgive her also try to forget her she go too far with her jealousy what if you nw be put to life in prison or shut dead will she come back to apologize to the grave that is out of jealiuos forgive and forget her she is not URS

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ifunanya Precious Elodichukwu - 2019-09-11 16:20:19

Honestly what she did was wrong,she couldn't have done that but in this life nobody should be trusted but since it has happened you should just forgive her and let it go but never allow her back into your life to avoid more damages, just continue with your new relationship and move on.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Marvellous Olatunbosun - 2019-09-11 16:26:15

My brother! My brother!! Don't be scammed! I repeat, don't be scammed!! Don't be scammed to receive her back as your girlfriend but you can always forgive her and you become friends. Not even good friends o, let's be guided o please. Someone who can do that out of jealousy can go ahead to plan something more worse.

Just my opinion.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By OLUWATOSIN ADEOYE - 2019-09-11 16:32:15

Firstly, forgive and forget because God said forgive and you shall be forgiven. Don't allow her in your life again because for her to tell police about how you make your money that means if she have chance to kill you without telling police she will do it. Don't allow that kind of person in your life if you want to leave long. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ifanyichukwu Laurence - 2019-09-11 16:32:25

To err is human,to forgive is divine,so forgive her.But you need to be very careful with her if you are to continue the relationship.If you are a christian,I suggest you hear from God before you continue with her.Thanks.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Abdullahi Nurudeen Olayiwola - 2019-09-11 16:33:49

As a human beings we burn to makes mistakes. Secondly, I won't advise you to accept her back in to your life because ladies are very hard to believe. So tell her you have forgiven her and you're not interested in her again.meticulous scrutinization of your time together, her demeanour and potentials. Because even if she's the jealous type, I believe if have been averagely upright, you wouldn't have been affected by all malicious actions

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Boluwatife Olugbenro - 2019-09-11 16:39:27

It's okay to forgive, it'll give yoyinner peace but you don't have to get back together with her, jealousy is a very strong emotion and if not handled properly, it can make someone really do extreme things in the name of love, you have to be careful here. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Divine Dimkpa - 2019-09-11 16:40:32

It's alright to forgive her but u can't continue that relationship it's best to move on with ur life cus such a person can kill u. If she really loves u why wud she want u to go to jail, it's unacceptable

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ottah Blessing - 2019-09-11 17:01:01

Forgive her but don't accept back the relationship because if she can do that she can do more. Yes she made a mistake out of jealousy fine forgive her and forget it. But you don't have to trust her again.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Precious idisi - 2019-09-11 17:01:26

You just have to forgive her, but don't let her into your life again. For her to purposely report you to the police, that means ig she have a chance to kill you, she would have done that as well.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Nkechi Orji - 2019-09-11 17:09:19

This is law of karma taking its place,you were wrong first for treating a lady who was with you when you had nothing like that. Accept your mistakes,Forgive her then ask for forgiveness from her

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Idris Owolabi - 2019-09-11 17:20:41

I believe if have been averagely upright, you wouldn't have been affected by all malicious actions.

Your decision to accept her back or not will hinge on what you in your unbiased view think she is and what she's not. A meticulous scrutinization of your time together, her demeanour and potentials. Because even if she's the jealous type, I believe if have been averagely upright.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ogundipe Aisha - 2019-09-11 17:55:35

Forgive her because it wasn't her fault, she acted out of jealousy. And besides if you really love her it wouldn't even be an issue and besides, low key you deserved what she did, how can you have a girlfriend in the city and go to your hometown and lodge in hotel with another girl. 

If she didn't react at all about you taking another girl to an hotel, that means she didn't love you. Her reaction was just rash, she acted without thinking. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Odoh Ukamaka - 2019-09-11 18:11:37

Forgive her but do not accept her back as your girlfriend because you may do something that will get her angry  and she will report you to the police and leak your kind of job to them and knowing how police behaves in this country, you will serve another second jail term. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Ilesanmi Martins - 2019-09-11 18:16:27

Forgive her but don't continue the relationship again, because the person who link your secret can kill you,she may even want to close with you and know your secret more so that she can nail you hard so that u won't be able to come out of it again,so my brother flee

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Goodness Otaru - 2019-09-11 18:36:50

Just forgive her and move on with your life,both of you are wrong and two wrongs do not make a right. You should have ended things with her if you didn't love her anymore then you would have been free to go out with any girl you wanted,she only acted out of jealousy and anger since you guys never broke up

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Joshua Oritogun - 2019-09-11 18:54:39

Why would you do such a thing at first? She did it out of jealousy and pain accompanied with betrayal. So, forgive her and also ask for her own forgiveness, cause what you did was wrong. You could have let her go in peace. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Prince Robinson - 2019-09-11 19:11:09

Bring a man down is the highest sin a lady can commit in relationship. I will advice you to forgive her and move on with your life.

She is not worth keeping, there are many girls out there better than her.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Adesola Gideon Oguntola - 2019-09-11 19:12:39

Sorry to say from my point of view the way you mad your money was not legitimate. Though she did what she did out of jealousy and anger but the truth of it is either you forgive her or not you've got to watch your back cos she's not the threat anymore but others that have known about it

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Akinola Jubril - 2019-09-11 19:19:15

Just forgive and move on. In this life, we offend our creator, we asked for forgiveness and He is forgiven us. If u forgive her and still be with her, she may do another thing worst than that. So just forgive and forget about her

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Uwem Akpan - 2019-09-11 19:25:54

I think you should forgive her and learn your lesson, and also learn to be faithful. In the first place, you shouldn't have traveled to see a girl in the same community with your date. You should have invited her to come over to where you are staying. To her, it shows you have no regard for her. You may not know the sacrifice she made while you were out there making your money, especially on her knees. It's wrong to raise someone's hope so high and then smash it on the ground. So it's not her fault. Women are jealous types and they act before thinking.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Olakojo Yusuf - 2019-09-11 19:42:45

You ought to forgive her because if we as a sinner begs God for forgiveness he answers us.But the only thing involved is that after forgiving her nothing should bring both of you together that is to say no relationship should exist between two of you because it is dangerous and deadly. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Michael George - 2019-09-11 19:44:10

If it's me I will not accept back the relationship because someone that did this to me can even do more than that when the time comes, such a person, we can't keep our secrets with them because they will later expose someone

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Adeshokan Sherriffdeen - 2019-09-11 20:31:55

When I'm not mad fa!! Just tell her to pay you back all the money you lost in the process of her stupidity. I mean couldn't she talk to you in person instead of going to police station, she now came back begging for forgiveness after she have destroyed my life and reputation.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Adindu Godsgift - 2019-09-11 20:34:53

Jealousness is one of the easiest thing that kills we human being. But from the look of thing the guy is very wrong, before I use to believe that guys are very secretive than ladies but most guys have proofed me wrong. You made the worst mistake by telling her the source of your wealth, some girls are full of camouflage.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Lagbenro Mary - 2019-09-11 20:52:10

Forgive her,but you accepting her is a bit of concern.truth be told most times women act without thinking when they are jealous but if truly she loves she should have thought about the consequences of reporting you the police.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Kehinde Mejida - 2019-09-11 21:06:58

How many  time  did we sin before God   and he forgive  us, first  thing  is since  she  has  come  for  forgiveness, then you have  to. Secondly, if you  she still  love  you  and  you  love  her  back  then  you guys  are  free  to  take  the  train.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Victor Nwafor - 2019-09-11 21:07:55

Bro listen to me if you have legs then run for your life. Any that can go to that length out of jealousy knowing the implications can kill you. So my brother a word is enough for the wise. Mind you am not saying what you did was right or deserved an accolades but come on she went too far.

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Trixie Osas - 2019-09-11 21:20:42

Forgive her but then let her go. Don't let her get in a way of whatever you do again don't even let her know what's going on in your life..forgive her and move on but never forget what she did cause that is not really possible..you can forgive but literally cannot forget what the person did

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Rahimat Abdulazeez - 2019-09-11 22:01:37

From my own opinion I will like you to forgive, Atleast give her a second chance cox everyone need a second chance to make everything right, some girl her not saying that to make you believe her but just to protect her relationship with you, even at that she likes you cox if she did not likes you she wouldnt allow you do even no or no the test of her. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Adeyemi Tosin Peter - 2019-09-11 22:05:10

With my own perspective, I will suggest you forgive her. As we all know ladies issues, they are fond of that, they get jealous easily. She might not know what she did is wrong. But because she is really mad at that moment of the issue, she can do anything, you not expecting from her. When she has came back to beg you. That means she really truly love you,thank God she knows well that she's faulty.  Just forgive her.. And take her back. 

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Should I accept back the Relationship? - By Kennedy Ikechukwu - 2019-09-11 22:19:46

Forgive and forget most people will say. But forgiveness is when you are able to move on with the person, forgetting is when it doesn't hurt you anymore even when you remember what happened. Although its not easy but we all make mistakes thinking we might be doing what's right, as for me i would rather forgive than putting my self through emotional pain

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