Should I Go For Implants?

Unlike our mothers in the olden days that are comfortable with their body features, we the youth especially females are not satisfied with our body features. Could it be low self esteem or why???

As for me I am a female sometimes my friends stylishly makes best of me by saying flat taken flat chest, I feel pained everytime they do this but I just play along, there are sometimes my clothes doesn't fit all because I don't have big butt and b**bs. 

What's your advice for me? 

Should I go for implants or just accept myself the way I am?

Comments Reply
  • There's what thin line between what we want to do and what we need to do. I believe you know what's best for you but I wouldn't advice you to go for it. You should one you're beautiful just the way you are. Your friends wont marry you. Nobody is perfect but there's always someone out there who thinks we are perfect .

    - Olayinka Ayobami - 2019-10-02 18:23:58 Quote

  • My dear God created us in his own image and all he created was good and pleasing in his eyes .... I won't advice you to go for implant you are created well..... No matter how much you try to please people they would always say something (most times criticize).

    - Blessing Ukeka - 2019-10-02 18:28:32 Quote

  • My dear, being natural is the best thing ever. Don’t try anything of such, you’re not fat or busty but who says you’re not fine? It’s the best thing ever, and people around you likes you for who you are.

    going for implants definitely has its bad sides, so please stay natural.

    - Omodunmiju Oluwaseun - 2019-10-02 18:30:13 Quote

  • 90% of our ladies do complain about themselves. Now it's now a normal statement to me, all ladies what there body shape to be perfect so that all guys can have their eyes on them when they see them.

    It's normal every woman wanna look good lol

    - Arighwrode theophilus Oghenevwogaga - 2019-10-02 18:30:19 Quote

  • You don't need to go for any surgery you are perfect the way God created you.... Don't let inferiority complex push you into doing something you will later regret

    - Babatunde Akande - 2019-10-02 18:33:56 Quote

  • In my opinion, i wont advise you to go for implants because some of these things can be risky if you are not handled by an expert and they are very expensive. About your self esteem, it's because you are always self conscious thats why you feel or have low self esteem. I would advise you to read self improvement books. But its a matter of choice, you can choose to go for implants if you wish and have the money for it.

    - Qassim Abubakar - 2019-10-02 18:34:47 Quote

  • I don't think you should go for implants. If you do, you will regret in your old age. Be satisfied with what God has given you and I'm sure that your husband will love you the way God has created you. Don't spoil your body just because your friends doesn't like you that way

    - Ibrahim Olatunde - 2019-10-02 18:50:55 Quote

  • I think you should just be you do not go for implants of any kind accept yourself and be happy because u might end up with what you didn't expect when you go for implants...... But if you are that desperate then I suggest work outs I think it increases them

    - Onwuta Charles - 2019-10-02 18:51:50 Quote

  • My dear, you don't have to worry about what say about your body. If you groom yourself well, you're will look infront of the person who love you more. For the implant don't try to do it all, its a sinful act.

    God knows what is the best for everyone. Its probably your statue change with you're comfortable and stress free.. Don't let that bother you.

    - Bibire Ibrahim - 2019-10-02 19:02:21 Quote

  • My dear, you don't have to worry about what people say about your body. If you groom yourself well, you're will look infront of the person who love you more. For the implant don't try to do it all, its a sinful act.

    God knows what is the best for everyone. Its probably your statue change with you're comfortable and stress free.. Don't let that bother you.

    - Bibire Ibrahim - 2019-10-02 19:04:51 Quote

  • Be yourself....don't listen to wat they say ...dont make them feel you are yielding to their noisy talks.. dress decently and uniquely... You are beautiful just the way u are.. .everybody has one challenges or the other . Learn to overcome yours and not quit. 

    - ADEYEMO OMOLOLA - 2019-10-02 19:07:05 Quote

  • My dear, you don't have to worry about what people say about your body. If you groom yourself well, you're will look infront of the person who love you more. For the implant don't try to do it all, its a sinful act.

    God knows what is the best for everyone. Its probably your statue change with you're comfortable and stress free.. Don't let that bother you.

    - Bibire Ibrahim - 2019-10-02 19:09:29 Quote

  • Just like you said in the first paragraph, low self esteem is killing we youth of nowadays, my advise is that you should be comfortable with your body,there are people out there who has essense of what you said u like and they aren't comfortable with it also,so be yourself dont let friends take you to early grave

    - Toheeb Atanda - 2019-10-02 19:17:45 Quote

  • Omo is better u stayed the way u are, remember what the holy book says, ur body is the temple of God so keep it holy.. so pls don't follow muptitude yo do evil... Don't mess up ur body pls... Ur attitude is what a real need not it body 

    - Ibrahim Kayode - 2019-10-02 19:25:21 Quote

  • Bible says everything that God created is good while do you want to go for implants because your friend are making jest of you,are they your Creator? God has made you the way your partner will accept you and love you, I will advice you not to go for implants

    - Oluwayemisi Adebisi - 2019-10-02 19:26:05 Quote

  • Take youself the way you are, believe in youself and do not let any one decieve you  to go for a tranplat, A lot of person have tried it but surfered the deadly effect and consiquences after all.

    - achor nelson - 2019-10-02 19:34:02 Quote

  • Why would you even consider going for implants... Yo!!!

    There are some people who would kill to have the body you have...

    If you're thick...flaunt it

    If you're slim....Rock it

    You should learn to be satisfied with what you have...Dont go and do something you'll regret at the end of the day

    - Adeoluwa Adesina - 2019-10-02 19:44:50 Quote

  • Why would you even consider going for implants... Yo!!!

    There are some people who would kill to have the body you have...

    If you're thick...flaunt it

    If you're slim....Rock it

    You should learn to be satisfied with what you have...Dont go and do something you'll regret at the end of the day

    - Adeoluwa Adesina - 2019-10-02 19:45:14 Quote

  • I will advice you accept yourself the way you're.... You have to be contempt with the situation life brought which is God's gift you have to appreciate... You have to also think of future effect of implant so I will advise you don't go for implant but accept yourself the way you are 

    - Oretan Ayomipo Micheal - 2019-10-02 19:47:04 Quote

  • Just be content With what God has given you, be very grateful because some people are looking for your shape but could not, if you implant, how are you sure you will survive like them, what they did is temporary but yours is natural, God that made it so have a reason so don't blame God.

    - Sule Abdul - 2019-10-02 19:48:40 Quote

  • You go implant then you are certainly going to miss out someplace someday because every advantageous has disadvantageous. Take it or leave, those who venture into such a stuff end up blaming themselves in one way or the other when it comes to point of death.

    - Funke Grace Fapohunda - 2019-10-02 19:50:07 Quote

  • Please my sister

    Do not implant yourself, don't mind your friends they are only jealous of you,some people are out there that want to be like but God never give them the opportunity

    Anyhow you are just believe that you are pretty

    - SHAIBU KEHINDE MERCY - 2019-10-02 19:50:12 Quote

  • Beauty lies in the eyes of its beholder. You are beautiful. Do not try to tailor yourself to your friend's specifications. You are you. It is the same friends that mock you now that will mock you more when you get the implants. You get nothing worthy from being fake.

    - Aliyu Abubakar - 2019-10-02 19:51:07 Quote

  • You are parts of God's beautiful creation and you don't need to feel bad to the extent of going for inplants. Moreover these things have their own side effects.

    Just look at urself and see if you can change your sense of fashion to suit your body shape.

    For me I wear free flowing gown that are fitted only down to my waist😉 and it suits me completely!.

    I hope this helps.

    - Abubakar Raliyah - 2019-10-02 19:55:13 Quote

  • My dear you got two options. One accept yourself the way you are God knows why he gave you your body going for implants has too many disadvantages, it might feel good for the next ten years but as Time goes on complications may set in because the implantimplants will get old and you will go for many more sugerys. Two you still wanna go for implants go to the best plastic surgeons to avoid regrets and complications that my even cost you your life. 

    - Bukola Ayobami - 2019-10-02 20:03:16 Quote

  • Take youself the way you are, believe in youself and do not let any one decieve you  to go for a tranplat, A lot of person have tried it but surfered the deadly effect and consiquences after all.

    - Ezeh Somtoo Emmanuel - 2019-10-02 20:03:48 Quote

  • My dear,if you want to look presentable,start eating well,taking good food do you won't add anyhow. Eat very well,then go to gym and reduce yourself. When you have gotten what you want, you'll know and be proud of yourself. Don't waste money on implant

    - Obi Chidera - 2019-10-02 20:11:15 Quote

  • I see we have a lot of musicians who lot of players a lot of everybody that are the same just forget about it don't you dare do it cuz at the end you are going to get it do you want to plan to meet go and increase your things definitely will you will regret it later so what you're going to do just start exercise to build them that's what I advise you to do

    - Abubakar Sadeeq Salihu - 2019-10-02 20:15:17 Quote

  • Dear,I would advise you to maintain your stature. Any guy that truly loves you will accept and cherish you for who you are. Do not be bothered about what anyone says,fit your clothing according to your shape. You will change for the better when you get married. My wife is a living witness

    - Ayodele Beckley - 2019-10-02 20:19:34 Quote

  • The fact that you're made the way you are it means thee are guys out there who'll accept you the way you are

    The first thing you should do is accept yourself the way you are and try not to hang out with those friends more often since they tend to bring dien your self esteem

    There's no need to be insecure

    Most of all these is coming from social media and celebrity life

    - Joseph Lawrence - 2019-10-02 20:22:16 Quote

  • I knew a lady who had the same issue but in a very different manner (she was slim). But over the the years she let go of her worries and had a vibe of positive thinking that changed her mindset, today she is a little bit fat because she watching her weight so that she can be the perfect shape for her guy. You know what i mean.

    - emeka ofuonye - 2019-10-02 20:34:19 Quote

  • First of all,be grateful to the Almighty then secondly, you must not go for an implant which is not healthy.There are different ways you cangood shape naturally which requires time and patience.

    - Hannatu Isqeel - 2019-10-02 20:34:29 Quote

  • Hi dear sis pls never let peoples opinion determine who you are.. Have one been in your shoe for been short until I accepted who I am that's when life becomes easier... Don't give in to what they say look into the mirror and say you are wonderfully and fearfully made.. You are the best version of yourself don't go for implant 

    - Adegoke Afeez - 2019-10-02 20:39:30 Quote

  • Don't allow people to make you have low self esteem because of your body. God that made you like that created a beautiful soul. Don't allow anyone one force you into that. The consequences of implant is unbearable. And again i see it as waste of money. You are wonderfully made 

    - Ajala Blessing - 2019-10-02 20:40:22 Quote

  • You better live your self the way you are before you make your self worse, you are not the one that create yourself allow the to be laughing at you, I believe if you just ignore them and move on with your life they won't see what they will talk about again.. 

    - Igwe Francis - 2019-10-02 20:52:03 Quote

  • Your natural body is the best body you can give yourself. Many people go into getting implants done and most of them face serious life threatening repercussions as a result of it. You should learn to be contented with your real self. 

    - Ayomide Adodo - 2019-10-02 20:53:53 Quote

  • Don't give yourself unnecessary headic. All you have to do is to ensure you feed well, get multivitamins tablet to use. I will prescribe you use feedfine it helps body to be boosted with good sleep. And above it it all, by the time you are marry it will change with the help of your husband.

    - Dairo Idowu - 2019-10-02 20:58:28 Quote

  • Its just better to be yourself, no matter how flattened you think you are, you are someones choice. Don't because of peer pressure dive into an unnecessary adventure. You bear the consequences alone, so be yourself and be proud of who you are.

    - Billy John - 2019-10-02 21:01:25 Quote

  • Stay the way you are friends are of the greatest destruction when you have the wrong ones..Always appreciate how God created you.

    Note;small ass and boobs wont prevent you from getting married.Be Wise

    - Aku Dominion - 2019-10-02 21:05:13 Quote

  • If the money is avialable then go for it. If not, then you dont have to get worried over it. Do not let what people say affect you. Trust me, you are far better than lot of persons out there and there are some persons wishing to have like your body statute

    - Ealefoh Adesuwa - 2019-10-02 21:10:26 Quote

  • Well, I will have to blame your friends for body shaming you. No one has the right to body shame anyone because we did not create ourselves, so, i will advice you not to go for any transplant because it has a lot of negative repercussions that you ain't aware of, just try and be your real self because no matter what you do in life, people will still find fault in it.

    - Osas Nice - 2019-10-02 21:20:06 Quote

  • It seems like you haven't heard stories who got their butts burnt and damaged after going for an implant. A lady's b**be got bursted some weeks after doing implant and she died. Appreciate the way God created you. But if you are so desperate to get a bigger butts,go for exercise that help increase the fats in the butts region and you will surely see what you re looking for. You can also apply a mixture of egg yoke and Vaseline on the butt as this helps to increase the concentration of fats(adipose tissues) on the butt region, thus leading to a bigger one. As for b**bs enlargement, I have no idea for that.

    - Emmanuel Agbasielo - 2019-10-02 21:21:42 Quote

  • It's better u accept ur fate, don't push urself beyond boundary .Your soul mate will surely accept ur nature without complain. That's ur final abode as a woman

    - Ahmad Nasiru - 2019-10-02 21:26:16 Quote

  • To be yourself is the best things cause the rich also complain.. Those that make jest of you have what they don't like in their body and we've got some who would love to have your slim body 

    - Ikuerowo Blessing - 2019-10-02 21:26:21 Quote

  • Sweetheart my advice is to accept yourself the way you are. You are you and don't look down on yourself because you don't have a big ass or big boobs. You're still special you're still beautiful, you're still bold, brave, balsy look for a better word and most of all youistill a queen. 

    All women are Queens of their own queendom take it or leave it. Your body doesn't define you, you do.

    But if you're still interested in getting implants I'll suggest you don't cuz they're really risky. Just buy oils or creams instead though they jave side effects look for the ones that are fully trusted.

    - Babatunde Wuraola - 2019-10-02 21:32:00 Quote

  • Your friends making jest of you shouldn't be a reason why you should change your physical appearance. No matter hold yourself with pride, make them wish they we're you. 

    - Kabiru Sadiq - 2019-10-02 21:35:23 Quote

  • Its normal to feel down sometimes cos of your body shape.. But you just have to forget all that and accept yourself the way you are don't let the fact that your friends make jest of you justify your self esteem 

    Just take a look at simi, she is not physically endowed but that doesn't mean she will bow in shame

    So take yourself the way you are 

    - Lims Jr - 2019-10-02 21:40:45 Quote

  • One thing about this life most people don't notice is dat u are the best one for your self, you are you' God knows why he made you dat way.. Don't rusk your life going for an implant

    - Wilfred Ogidan - 2019-10-02 21:40:58 Quote

  • Its normal to feel down sometimes cos of your body shape.. But you just have to forget all that and accept yourself the way you are don't let the fact that your friends make jest of you justify your self esteem 

    Just take a look at simi, she is not physically endowed but that doesn't mean she will bow in shame

    So take yourself the way you are 

    - Lims Jr - 2019-10-02 21:41:15 Quote

  • The best  version of you is the you you have come to know, do not allow yourself to be body shamed by some undeserving friends or persons. You  are beautiful, smart, sweet, lovely and wonderfully made by GOD. Do you not hear of a young barrister of 27years who went for enhancement and lost her life cux she was always body shamed by her female friends. Love yourself, its priceless. 

    - PETER MMADUEKE - 2019-10-02 21:48:08 Quote

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