Should I Stop Being A Playgirl?

I have experienced a lot of heartbreaking from guys. The one that happened last was bad. I cried till my tears refused to flow. Ever since then, I have decided to play on guys feelings. 

Truly, it has been working for me. I've played a lot of guys. I would pretend as If I loved them. Would make them trust me and can't do anything on their own. I did this to almost 5 guys. I feel happy when I'm doing this. Because I'm taking revenge of what they have done to me.

Recently, I met a guy. I tried my normal way of playing him like I always do. But didn't work. The way he penetrated into me was different. He always help me, do my chores and always giving advice. I'm beginning to fall in love with him. I hope I'm not making a mistake.

Please what should I do.

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  • Lol I think the bow of Cupid has finally shot his arrow at you and there is no escaping, if you feel different for him and the feelings are real then get on with him. Being a play girl isn’t the right thing to do in the name of avenging how you have been wronged by the opposite s3x.

    - Onekeneke prince - 2019-09-27 15:28:26 Quote

  • I believe this is the right time for you to give up on your old ways, I understand how guys have treated you in the past but you can't expect every guy to be like him. This might be your chance to actually settle down, just be patient as let's see where this goes

    - Otito Okigbo - 2019-09-27 15:30:07 Quote

  • Well I think you should give him a chance to see because is not all guys that are players there are some good ones out there you have done enough I think you have to stop it so that it will not affect you in future because the right person for you might comes your way but you use him to play so stop so that you will not regret it at last

    - Miracle Boniface - 2019-09-27 15:30:21 Quote

  • Babe just keep loving don't be a play girl because what you do is what you get,have faith that you'll get back the love give one day.

    That you'll be tired of his unlimited and infinity love.I was once in your shoes until I met the love of my life,after losing hope on finding true love,we'll be a year together next month.

    - Kuburat Abdulsalam - 2019-09-27 15:34:00 Quote

  • There is nothing you can derive from that but shame and regret, why not live a befitting life so you can train your children well, being a play girl, you are just destroying your self especially your future, I pray you won't regret, if most people especially elders are saying something is bad, you should know it is not good and I'm sure you won't regret taking to advice of the aged, it may be hard but it's worth it.

    - Daniel Johnson - 2019-09-27 15:36:05 Quote

  • I think the first thig to do is learn to forgive those that have hurt you in the past. You have to let go of that gabbage in order to fully move on. I believe that your reaction was as a result of the hurt but you need to let all that go. If you like this new guy, go ahead and enjoy time together. You need to stop believjng or thinking that he is like others. He might be like those that hurt you abd he might actually like you but you wknt know if you do not try to see where it all leads to with an ope mind. 

    - Ifagbemi Toluwani - 2019-09-27 15:37:03 Quote

  • Your story  sounds funny though. You are not making a mistake  at all my dear. All players are bound  to love someday. You will fall in love with someone after playing all of them.   It is better you fall in love sooner  because ost player end up regretting  though. 

    - Abolarin Deji - 2019-09-27 15:40:29 Quote

  • this is the problems players normally get into the person you finally fall for might be the same player, you must understand that life is give and take, those you hurt in the past relationship might have the right one among them. if you are sure you are ready to settle down then it means you need to relax and open up your heart to let the feelings flow naturally. it's sweet to love and to be loved.

    - Ekigwe Chinedu Raymond - 2019-09-27 15:41:39 Quote

  • My dear, it is not good to pay evil with evil. two wrongs can not make a right. if you continue on this revenge mission, you might come across a genuine guy who loves you and meant well for you and you let him slip out of your hands all because of the revenge mission. yes you've been dealt with by guys, relationship wise, but the truth is you'll be destroying your own life if you continue on this path

    - Chinonso Henry Ikueze - 2019-09-27 15:44:48 Quote

  • See! You don't need all that! The more you do that the more you keep hurting your self even though you feel you're enjoying your revenge. Now you met someone whom you feel different about, i just want you to give him a chance. If you dont give anyone a chance you wont end up with any body at the end of the day and that's the worst pain

    - Johnson Adedeji - 2019-09-27 15:45:03 Quote

  • The people u are playing are different from the people that hurt you. What if u meet a bad and ruthless guy and after you had played him he will want to take revenge on you by gang raping you or harming you? 

    Been a playgirl or play boy doesn't profit anyone. Search yourself and know what you are doing wrong and change. Follow your instinct, learn how to recognize true love. 

    Stop the playgirl stuff please. You might even get deadly diseases self

    - prince kingmaker - 2019-09-27 15:46:22 Quote

  • Well I won’t say you shouldn’t be in love but what you wouldn’t want to do is make the same mistake as before, I’d advise you to study him a lot, know his own definition of helping hands he has been rendering to you and I pray you’d find yourself a good answer.

    - David Olatunbosun - 2019-09-27 15:46:30 Quote

  • I think it is the right time to have a second thought about your action. You have done what pleases you but to the wrong people and that isn't fair at all remember everything we do in life is always against tomorrow and it is high you change begin to adjust you life and pray to God for forgiveness and direction.

    - Iniobong Akpan - 2019-09-27 15:48:31 Quote

  • You can't continue to be a play girl one thing I want you to understand is that all the guys that were playing you were not made for you,when you meet your real partner every thing will seem to be different just like the way are now feeling on the last guy just treat him fair he might be your compatible partner

    - GBONGBON Mson - 2019-09-27 15:55:26 Quote

  • Turning to a playgirl because you were played by other guys is the reason why we still have girls and guys who play on people, now that i can guess you are already in love with this guy please make sure your don't play on him too because everything you do on this earth will come for you like karma. Its still early you can turn a new leaf

    - Agbo Ephraim - 2019-09-27 15:55:57 Quote

  • You can't continue to be a play girl one thing I want you to understand is that all the guys that were playing you were not made for you,when you meet your real partner every thing will seem to be different just like the way are now feeling on the last guy just treat him fair he might be your compatible partner

    - GBONGBON Mson - 2019-09-27 15:56:52 Quote

  • My suggestion is to talk to this guy you love tell him about your plans from the start, tell him you love him I think he can help you since he is showing so much care.

    Try as much as possible to just let go. You need to relieve yourself girl. You got this.

    - Boluwatife Akinyoola - 2019-09-27 15:59:01 Quote

  • Enjoy playing them until Karma visit you, the same measure you use for others will be used for you. You are punishing innocent people  that had no hand in your ordeal. The time you will be ready for true love, love will be very far away from you

    - CHIKWADO B OSUCHUKWU - 2019-09-27 16:00:29 Quote

  • You're not making a mistake my dear, go ahead and love him. Although there are some guys who will do this for u, and still play u. But u have to be cautious, for now..I will say, love him but not too much, then when you feel he isnt against u, you can then love him as u want.

    If you had continued playing guys, your life would have been ruined dear, because in the future you wouldn't be able to control it and you'll end up alone in this life.

    So that's my advice dear.

    - Kenechukwu Lawrence - 2019-09-27 16:04:09 Quote

  • Love is a very good thing that shloud happen to someone in his or her lifetime so being in love is not a bad thing, the ones that you have played should be enough for your revenge so let the grieving die and find a space in your heart to love again.Give him chance by loving him back.

    - Oyerinde Morounfola Margaret - 2019-09-27 16:04:13 Quote

  • Awwn I only have some little words of encouragement for you, am also a guy but I have to tell you this good guys are really hard to find when you find a man that claims he loves you, dear give it a try no one knows it may turn out good for you. Playing with the heart of guys is not really a nice idea.

    - Prince Ezinwa - 2019-09-27 16:12:30 Quote

  • This is just like a coincidence but I will suggest that maybe your soulmate and a trial might be blessings to you, hold the guy tight if you truly love him too and pray towards it, may God put you through 

    - Omidele Abdul Gafar - 2019-09-27 16:14:07 Quote

  • This is just like a coincidence but I will suggest that maybe your soulmate and a trial might be blessings to you, hold the guy tight if you truly love him too and pray towards it, may God put you through 

    - Omidele Abdul Gafar - 2019-09-27 16:14:08 Quote

  • Hmm this might your chance to fall in love and be happy or you are just getting a tatse of your own medicine you can't tell just don't have any hard feelings

    - Goodness Emeka - 2019-09-27 16:15:51 Quote

  • No matter what, you will find the one you can't play among them. That's the guy you met which means he's different among others which makes you fall in love with him. So, you are making sense of what you noticed about him. Hold him tight and share your story with him. So, move on.

    - Wasiu Abiodun Adegboye - 2019-09-27 16:17:43 Quote

  • It is a good thing to fall in love , you also need to apply wisdom in every relationship, so that you would not be hurt , but I will advice you to keep off of any action or feeling that you may later regret in life.

    - Sunday Adebayo - 2019-09-27 16:21:27 Quote

  • I would advice you to stop being a playgirl because u might later regret it. Observe the new guy and try to know if he is not pretending. Vengeance is of the Lord,don't try to take revenge by yourself

    - Tolulope Ijimakinde - 2019-09-27 16:22:35 Quote

  • No you are not making a mistake cause he might be a good guy. If you play him now you don't know when another good guy will cross your path

    In life you must take risk to get what you desire, so if you want a good guy you must take the risk of falling in love with him

    - Daniel Asomugha - 2019-09-27 16:25:42 Quote

  • You can't trust him because you have been a playgirl,so when someone who truly loves you comes into your life you feel  insecure..The best thing to do is to just flow with the relationship  and see where it leads you guys.

    - Elijah Ogboi - 2019-09-27 16:27:38 Quote

  • In my own point of view its let for you to either choose to either be a play girl or otherwise but it will pay you if your not a play girl... In the best of your interests

    - Yesiru Oloruntoba - 2019-09-27 16:29:25 Quote

  • Well,  keep watching him,  but stop toying with people's emotions, forgive the previous guy and let go,  thank God you have someone good at hand now. If you don't stop,  you might lose the one who is meant for you.  God will help you 

    - Ruth Oyeleke - 2019-09-27 16:30:32 Quote

  • Stop wasting your life, stop wasting your time. you arent playing the games, rather they are using and dumping  you. you are getting old and not younger anymore. time will come when you will regret what you have done.

    - Anekwe Francis - 2019-09-27 16:30:37 Quote

  • I suggest you stop being a play girl because it can cause you a big disgrace some day,and will make you lose the man that God desire for you to marry in life.

    Secondly is always good to pray for god to show you your real paterner instead of being a play girl which will not help you .

    - Ayuba Samson - 2019-09-27 16:30:55 Quote

  • If you know you're begin to fall in love with him the best thing is to show him your true love and stop being a play girl everything happens in  life for a reason maybe its because of the guy that the formal one break your heart

    - Oke Olawole Luke - 2019-09-27 16:35:26 Quote

  • My dear ,its a matter of choice,its all because he's getting into your head and tho he seens good too but be careful, i know having revenge feels like you've achieved something but why not quit being a playgirl and open your heart to this guy a bit,still be cautious tho

    - Tayo Yesufu - 2019-09-27 16:41:09 Quote

  • It is up to u whether u want to play him or not. But i am thinking it is better u stop cause the earlier the better and don't 4get the word that says what goes around Comes around. 

    - Shittu Oluwadamilare - 2019-09-27 16:42:28 Quote

  • This is such an unfortunate reality about love relationships, and I feel so much unease each time I witness its occurrence. I sincerely pray God Almighty heal your wounds. Amen!

    My sister, it's a call of nature to always fall in love, however hard we may pretend to harden our hearts, perhaps in distrust of past ugly experience. Remember, accident victims withdraw continually be conveyed to the hospital by vehicles. Failure gives ways to trials. 

    You have fallen in love now and it's interesting to know. I'm happy with you. May God establish this present relationship.

    However though, I'll advise you tread softly. Once beaten, twice shy. Always play safe and allow your instincts to give you a sense of direction. Trust him, love him and respect him from the bottom of your heart. But always be on active guard. The game of love is a dangerous one; it remains ever unpredictable. All you need do is to be on watch at all times. Most importantly, allow God into your relationship. He alone has the answer!


    - Aroge Babatunde Enoch - 2019-09-27 16:42:46 Quote

  • First of all I understood how you are feeling, but let me clear your mind guys are not the same. I would advice you to stop being a play girl if you continue doing this your real husband might pass you so thread gently and change your ways .

    - Macku Issa - 2019-09-27 16:49:59 Quote

  • what you should do is to keep it real with him but at the same time watch your steps towards to avoid crying again...And stop playing, players find it hard to settle even when the become serious..

    - Anthony Emeka - 2019-09-27 16:50:39 Quote

  • what you should do is to keep it real with him but at the same time watch your steps towards to avoid crying again...And stop playing, players find it hard to settle even when the become serious..

    - Anthony Emeka - 2019-09-27 16:50:51 Quote

  • The main things is that you should think straight, if u want to be in the relationship or u don't. An if u love him sit him down an talk to him about your situation and if he is ready u will know from us reaction. All guys are not the same 

    - SONUBI Damilola - 2019-09-27 16:53:36 Quote

  • You should stop being a play girl and actually give this guy a chance. You playing guys will not change anything, it seems like waste of time to me. Just give this guy a chance.  Those guys that played you weren't meant for you and you don't know maybe this guy is the right person for you

    - Lawal Kehinde - 2019-09-27 16:56:13 Quote

  • Yes and Yes and Yes!!! Please stop being a playgirl. Because you may unconsciously make your dream husband a boyfriend and later make an ordinary boyfriend your husband. Disappointment is inevitable in this world we live in. Trust God and He will guide your part. There are even dangers attached to being a playgirl. Think about this.

    - OLAYODE OLAWALE - 2019-09-27 17:00:17 Quote

  • dear sis,allow yourself to fall in love and be happy.the strongest person is he who forgives and lets go of bad experience and moves on.u playing guys makes u no different from those who have hurt u.u became just like dem.heart breaks is a normal phase that brings with it lessons. it hurts but then if u don't give love a chance the right love won't find you

    - Chinyere umeh - 2019-09-27 17:00:50 Quote

  • 'The sayings goes: 'one good turn deserves another and the measure you used for another person is the same that will be used for you'. I would advise that you stop being a play girl. Try and choose a youngman and settle down. It is a dangerous practice that you involve in.  Save your life now before you fall into the hands of hardened criminals or ritualists.

    - Nwokoukwu Jerome - 2019-09-27 17:04:50 Quote

  • Well I can't say you are making a mistake

    True love and feelings comes naturally

    So maybe you should give it a try

    And also the fact that you were played by guys doesn't mean you should punish every other guy for the sins they didn't commit

    - Adebayo Feyisara - 2019-09-27 17:09:42 Quote

  • You were wrong to have taken revenge. You made them pay other people's offences. You should have made a decision like not dating again, something like that. Revenge is never an option. As for this guy, you should jidt be careful with him

    - Ariyo Dorcas - 2019-09-27 17:09:59 Quote

  • I guess with all you have stated here, it is evident enough that you have been swept off your feet.

    Get your mind prepared to having a stable relatinonship with him. 

    - Adeniyi Ebenezer - 2019-09-27 17:11:56 Quote

  • Falling in love is not a sin or mistake and moreover all guys aren't the same, there are good ones among them and you can never tell unless you give the guy a chance

    For me,i will advice you to give him a trial and I believe everything is going to work out well

    - Ishola Damilola - 2019-09-27 17:17:56 Quote

  • The story is too pitiful.. give him a chance but do not pour out your whole heart to him, pretend asif you don't love her and it will click the way you want.

    - Blessing Gaadi - 2019-09-27 17:27:30 Quote

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