The popular artiste, Omawunmi during a talk show, hosted by Mercy Johnson titled; "Mercy's Menu" Kitchen talk show revealed to us that even if her husband cheats on her, she wont leave the marriage. She went further to say that cheating is not by mistake, however if the deed has already been done. She would just call her husband and they would talk about the reason behind what he did and also ask, if he would do it again.
The talk show which is the Season 1, episode 4 was an interesting one, as Omawunmi prepared a native dish called Ukodo and other gist was also talked about during the show too.
So the question now is; Would you tolerate a cheating partner in your marriage?
Lets hear from you.
I won't leave him even if he cheats because he is my husband, and we have promised to stay together until death do us part.
Yeah I think I will do same I cannot leave my girlfriend so because she cheated mistakes are bound to happen you know
Typical of an average Nigerian wife, they'd rather die first than not bear Mrs. If shes the one who cheats, will such be pardoned?
I'm not gonna leave my husband if he cheat.But if that's he's life style and I'm no longer happy in the marriage after trying my possible best for him to change, then I guess I would have to leave the marriage and have my peace.
while it all depends on the reason behind the act.
for me i'll sit on the fence
Not many women can say this.. but it also a msg to others that devioce is now the other of the day.
Am not encouraging men cheat oo. All am saying there should be a way to settle every dispute other than devioce
Tolerate a cheating patner?
Well even life is a choice, cheating? It's an intentional act, but I won't say one should leave the marriage though, but personally, I can't and won't tolerate a cheating partner. 😊
I can't leave my girlfriend...Humans aren't perfect, everyone is bound to make mistakes
the question now is; Would you tolerate a cheating partner in your marriage?
If my partner cheats she is leaving immediately.operation no mercy
I support her, because that is a good sign of a good wife, you shouldn't leave your partner simply because he/she cheats if truly there are in love because like there say love is blind so let the blindness cover there eyes when it comes to such things
This is really a hard one as not so many persons will take it but i see a strong build up of love and trust but the husband should not abuse it. For me on my part it will be difficult for me to tolerate a cheating partner
That is your own choice but it's not proper because your trust in him is deminished
Well, know your partner well. It important to allow love flourish in any relationship. But both parties involved in Marital bond should heed the Bible's advice on marriage; l"the marriage mate be without defilement". But if something unpredictable happens, Individuals have to make his own decisions. If forgiveness is allowed to take the lead, then I think that should be the best.
I love her statement,not that cheating on your spouse is good,but we as human's must learn how to be consederate,but unless on one condition if she or him purposely did it,but despite that it can still be consider.
Yea,some women have done it and some are still enduring such from their partner but the truth is, it's easier said than done considering the fat,Omawunmi is a celebrity
It's a 2 way thing. If it's my boyfriend, I would leave him immediately o. I can't stand a cheating boyfriend but it's my husband, I won't leave him. We promised to stay with each other till the end.
Cheating is not good, even bible said you can put away your wife on adultery purpose but then I will not advice anyone to leave her husband because If you leave him you will still meet another cheating man which might be worst than your husband which can be heart breaking
The popular artiste, Omawunmi during a talk show, hosted by Mercy Johnson titled; "Mercy's Menu" Kitchen talk show revealed to us that even if her husband cheats on her, she wont leave the marriage.
Well, since she knows she also has a cockroach in her cupboard too
She really love her husband so much even to that extent
Wow! This is a bold step by her. I advice every woman should consider this idea.
I like this from a woman like her, encouraging
We can't blame Omowunmi, infact I admire her courage and boldness.
Atimes we women can be funny, imagine you knowing your husband has a chick out there and you still make love with him.
I as woman can never tolerate that to be sincere. In addition, it can be very risky for her Healthwise what if he brings in a sexually transfertra disease like HIV,STD?.. It's Brave but risky
MARRIAGE IS A FOREVER THING.
In1990s, our mothers used to say, I won't return to my father house because of my children but In 2000s,they gladly leave not minding the state of the kids. Omawummi is that great woman that value her husband beyond mere issues.
Wow! This is rare and very thoughful of her. People visit counselors this day too
One thing in marriage is to tolerate and build ur home....a man is the head of the family while the woman is the neck.... without the neck the head can not stand....one day he will realise his mistakes
She's right because u don't know the one u are leaving ur husband for so all u need to do is to put him in prayer and advice him.
she made a nice decision,u dont leave a cheating husband because of any minor mistake,remember marriage is for better for worst,so all she need to do is keep on praying GOD should change her husband that is all
I won't leave my husband because he cheated on me.why will i want to let go of everything we've been through and everything we shared together for a stranger.me leaving him doesn't solve the problem neither does it change anything because I might leave today and the lady takes over everything.i believe praying for him that God should change him and always guide him to always make the right decision when faced with temptation and also talking to him helps too.another thing is start reminding him of the sweet memories you guys had together.start doing the things you do that made him love you at first this will make him have a rethink of his actions and might even beg for forgiveness.
Even though, the question should've been directed at ladies, to me it shows that she's careless about her relationship with her husband, man is eager to see your response whether you care for him or not especually when scenario like that occurs.
Nobody is perfect....... Human beings are bound to make mistakes but it's our fault if we cant settle and avoid mistakes
Wow....that's really cool...She z really a woman of good virtue....The husband shouldn't cheat either.....cuz he has a caring And GOD fearing wife
Omawumi is a matured woman and what she said is from a matured perspective and ofcourse she knows and understands her husband well.
Cheating :The first time might be a mistake. But second,third, fourth time? It's an act already and I don't think its a thing of joy staying with someone who would constantly hurt your feelings.
That's the spirit, having a severe headache should not put you to cause to behead yourself... Everyone has their flaws , the earlier you know that , the better for you.
That's a good decision she has taken. And I believe she didn't take that decision today but the very day she walk up to the alter with him and agreed to be with him for the rest of her life, for better and for worse.
Cheating is something made up in the mind and not a mistake. Judging from my personal experience, giving your partner a second chance is like handing over a gun to him/her the second time so as to give you the final blow.
Well I think every woman needs to fight for their homes,the rate of divorce is high nowadays and moreso it’s doesn’t solve the problem of cheating so I think she has done well and she may also have her own personal reason
As regards cheating, nobody is beyond temptations. Only prayer can save a sinking in heart serial/parallel cheater.
If it has already happened, tolerance on one side, and nonrepentance on the other side is being back to square zero... Nothing changes.
Cheating makes a relationship unhealthy,But if the couple truly love each other and know what it really means for say till death do them part on the Altar,I don't think cheating is a good reason to quit your marriage..You may decide to take a break,Of course we all are humans and we have feelings, But not quit for life
First of all i must acknowledge the fact that everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion,as for me i see no reason why i should be in a marriage where my spouse is cheating on me,i will call it a quit.
as for me love is all about putting your loved ones before yourself there is a reason to every action taken no relationship without problem you would have known your partner before taking any marital decisions
It a very good decision but it might be costly at times..but on a more serious note all women needs to have that type of determination and this does not give men the go ahead to become cheating cowards.
I totally agree with omawunmi, because your husband cheated on you does not mean you should leave him, talk one on one and know the root/cause of him cheating. And always pray for him not to fall into temptation.
If my wife cheats on me, I won't leave. Although there has been a breach in our trust, I'd stick to her because we've made a convenant before God and man that we'd be together till death do us part.
Cheating is a sign he's bored or getting tired so instead of panicking or raising alarm...we women should try to please them by trying as much as possible to do things that makes them happy rather than walking out of the relationship
Using the word tolerate is like even if it continues with it I will have to cope with it every time.if he does it once and I get to know I might actually forgive him but for him to go on we with it might not settle well with me.
There is no way I would stay with a cheating patner, I may forgive the first time but if the act continues I don't think I would stay in that marriage because as you said cheating is not a mistake but an intentional act.
The thing is some Nigerian women will stay with their husbands when he still cheat and sort it out quitely but if it's the woman that cheated the whole family and community knows that's why its good to know your spouse before in other not to settle for less
Personally, i can't tolerate a Cheating Partner no matter what but that Doesn't mean i would leave my Relationship or Marriage...
I probably would talk things out with my cheating partner...but if he doesn't listen to me an try to make my effort pointless..
I will give him Space.