The Devil With A Human Flesh

This temptation commenced last month when my neighboring friend went for a vacation to his home town isiagu in Enugu state. His wife and his baby boy is left to stay at the house herein okija, and with me next to their apartment. 

His wife and I are very good to each other because she help me get my job through her husband who is the supervisor of the security company am working for. And on the other hand is helping her sometimes with house shores.

So she came to me last month 20th a week after her husband had left, telling me that she need a favour from me. I asked what the favour is and she told me that she have never been satisfied by her husband and she would love it if I can satisfy her for the night. Truly I was really tempted but with God I I was able to say no to that. She kept tempting me till today and I am really confused. I have told her to stop or I will beat her I even threatened her that I will tell her husband but yet she keep coming. Now her husband arrived three days ago.

Please I need your advice,what do think that is the best thing to do that will make her stop?

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  • In such cases the will to resist lies with  you letting her know that you are not such guy that enjoys breaking people's homes for their own personal pleasure, that your faith forbids you from commiting such crimes and also try to limit the rate at which u associate or get closer to her, you could stop doing any house chores that brings u in close contact with her.

    - Adumekwe Henry - 2019-10-05 16:03:40 Quote

  • The best advice I'll give to you is to tell her Husband inasmuch as you've told her to stop and She doesn't want to then speak out. If you don't she will continue to come whenever her Husband isn't available, at the end of the day if she continues like that you're likely to fall into her temptation and give her what She wants.

    - Obagunle Paul Kehinde - 2019-10-05 16:42:40 Quote

  • In this case, I will advise you leave that neighborhood

    There's no other way to get out of it, if you keep staying there, she will keep coming and you will be forced to take part in it, who knows..... You might be caught.

    - Ferdinard Samuel - 2019-10-05 16:50:17 Quote

  • to be very honest. it depends on the person i question. they are some people who have low resistive nature and maybe she wasnt beautiful enough for you. if she was all this young beautiful married women you might have been saying a different storyby now

    - Obi Chukwuebuka - 2019-10-05 16:50:45 Quote

  • Limit your visit to their house especially when her husband is not around then when your rent expires, you ensure you relocate to another apartment and don't disclose your new address to them. God's grace is sufficient for you,apply wisdom.

    - Chinomso Nwokoma - 2019-10-05 17:00:16 Quote

  • You have very careful. This is a delicate issue. Since she doesn't want to stop, let the husband know of it, but before that use your phone to record every conversation between two of you in case if she Denise. Act fast before she turns the table. She may tell her husband that you was the one disturbing her.

    - Anyanwu Benneth - 2019-10-05 17:17:20 Quote

  • First of all you have to be very careful as woman can be so evil, deviate yourself from what brings you close to her. You cant tell her husband as it might destroy the home. You shouldn't be a weapon of home destruction ,just try as much as possible not to get close to her ,another advice whenever she comes again make sure you have your phone in record and make sure you forbid her from coming to you again,try to talk her out of the thinking and tell her to talk to her husband about satisfying her . Just make sure you have the conversation recorded to serve as evidence because she might try to put you in trouble when you use a hard voice on her wise brother may God see you throug this

    - Azeez Raji - 2019-10-05 17:26:21 Quote

  • I think the best thing to do is that, you should just evacuate the house, go somewhere else and rent another apartment. Make sure you are far from her, because if she keep tempting you, one day, you will fall into that temptation.

    And what she telling you to do with her is a sin, and it also have an hazardous repercaution.

    - Oluwadarasimi Stephen - 2019-10-05 17:32:03 Quote

  • It is always right to not fall into sin no matter the condition one finds his/herself.So i will advice you tell her husband about it to stop her from coming to you again.And do not fall for her temptation because of her role in getting you your job, believe me you will get a better job if you get sacked because of this issue because God rewards those who obey him...Remember the story of Joseph in the bible

    - Samuel Chidobi - 2019-10-05 17:32:53 Quote

  • Be matured in handling this matter especially as it has to do with marriage of someone and the person involved is a woman so that she won't turn the table against you by accusing you of trying to rape her. Let wisdom lead you. Do not harm her but stay far from her

    - Chimezie Anyiam - 2019-10-05 17:39:11 Quote

  • My own little advice for you is to be very extra careful, before it is too late for you, all you need is to inform her husband to be watchful on her wife, because if you don't do that, I tell you one daywill come that she will rope you that you want to rape her, and there is nothing you can do that time to clean your self, may God help your decision 

    - OLUWASEUN OYENIYI SONIBARE - 2019-10-05 17:44:19 Quote

  • This kind of ensue is a complex one I tell u. Because number one is that ur job is definitely at risk and u faith is also been put to test too. So i advice u to just make her understand with good reason y u can't do such a thing with her and also see if u can give her some marital tip on how to go about her husband problem.

    - Melody Ohanya - 2019-10-05 17:52:53 Quote

  • For a start, dont tell her husband because its gonna ruin your friends marriage

    Well, I will advice you to try and avoid her presence, stay far away from her because there is a saying that "evil communication corrupt good manners"

    If you continue been close to her, her evil communication will definitely corrupt your good manners and you might fall into her temptation sooner than later

    - Osas Nice - 2019-10-05 17:53:08 Quote

  • Thank God you were able to overcome the temptation. You don't need to break her home. Just avoid her and also prevent her from coming into your home. Warn your wife as well to just stay alive little bit back away from her cause she could as well damage your home. 

    - Tomiwa Boluwatife - 2019-10-05 17:53:35 Quote

  • You should try as much as possible to stop doing any house chores for her. Explain to her that you cannot do such and it is against your religion and also your values. Stand your ground and eventually the truth would always win.

    - Ibeh Charles - 2019-10-05 17:54:41 Quote

  • Thank God you were able to overcome the temptation. You don't need to break her home. Just avoid her and also prevent her from coming into your home. Warn your wife as well to just stay alive little bit back away from her cause she could as well damage your home. 

    - Tomiwa Boluwatife - 2019-10-05 17:55:42 Quote

  • In a disgusting circumstance like that, you should let her know you aren't that type of person and she should look for someone else. If she doesn't yield to that, you should warn her you will report to her husband, make sure a day she comes you record your conversation as proof because it might turn our bad for you. The main thing you should do is to record her anytime she tries that again.

    - Okeimor Success - 2019-10-05 18:00:04 Quote

  • In this case I'll have to advice you to tay away from her in fact pack out from the house and don't tell your bro anything and you can also advise your brother to always have his family's time

    - Damilare Ogunnunyin - 2019-10-05 18:02:30 Quote

  • Such senerio happens a lot. A woman trying to break and defile her home by sleeping around. 

    She made you see reasons for indulging or wanting to involve in it.  Make her see reasons why you won't indulge in her plan. 

    Trust me, it's gonna cause problem for both of you and even the entire family. 

    If you should eventually fall for it,  it won't last,  you gonna regret it everyday of your life and you will be held responsible for tearing a family apart. 

    Try to stay far off from the woman,  avoid her whole being and cut ties with everything you have with her....  Don't tell her husband so as you won't break her home,  let her do it herself if she really want that. 

    - Emmanuel Aibueku - 2019-10-05 18:12:23 Quote

  • It will be very dangerous tell her husband without concrete evidence, all you can do is get you conversation recorded if you are able to video her advance it be very good at least if will serve as evidence if her husband should find out. And always be careful when you her with her. Always don't stay indoor with her.

    - Alamu Olayinka Abass - 2019-10-05 18:15:44 Quote

  • you should just be positive and while all this is going on you should have an evidence to prove your innocence incase she told lies about you 

    it always happens to God will prevail in fact it might be a trap from the husband

    - Akinade Taiwo - 2019-10-05 18:16:04 Quote

  • You just have to know what you want and stand by it.... You sure are not the kind of guy that wants to break a home and at the same time beating another man's wife is a taboo.... So just let her be and keep your limits

    - Owolabi Esther - 2019-10-05 18:16:22 Quote

  • Hmmmmmmmmm, this is serious, warn her for another time and if not, resist her, telling her husband would be like you want to destroy their marriage life, and we all know that you can't settle quarrels among spouse, pray for her deliverance 

    - Godwill Ezeoka - 2019-10-05 18:16:22 Quote

  • I wont say you should tell the husband cause it might bring a serious trouble which you may not like but all i can say is at anytime the husband is not around if she tries to enter your house lock the door and do not give her the chance to enter always, if it calls for an alarm call any of your matured friend to talk sense into her.

    - Alex Gabriel - 2019-10-05 18:17:29 Quote

  • You are very strong and faithful to reject her request even though you were tempted. I suggest that you warn her for the last time and if she does not hear report her to her husband. Let them work out their problems together on why he cannot satisfy her

    - Muhammad Faeezah - 2019-10-05 18:29:02 Quote

  • Just be frank with her in this case. I was in your shoe with same situation. In my case then the husband was even around but because I was teaching her computer, she always texted me and tell me how her husband is unemotional and less romantic in bed. But by the grace of God, I was able to be frank with her. I told her it is not possible and when she persisted I told her friend because telling her husband will be a very dangerous track. So I believe if you do as I did, you will actually overcome her. 

    - Joel Mejida - 2019-10-05 18:39:18 Quote

  • Try your best to stay away from her and reduce your interactions with her. If you too should talk it should always be about business and nothing else. If she notices your distance she should understand that your not interested in her.

    - Osamuyimen Aganmwonyi - 2019-10-05 18:49:25 Quote

  • This is a big temptation indeed. Sexual urges can indeed make people want to do the undo able,since you were able to say no to her demands,I will advise that your relationship with her shouldn't be that close and try as much as not going too close to her.

    - Jude Aguoru - 2019-10-05 18:52:09 Quote

  • The only way to make her stop is only by placing a can unknowingly to her and when she came seductively, the can picked the whole even and us it to threaten her.

    - Sulu Ahmed - 2019-10-05 19:01:27 Quote

  • Try avoiding her And don't let any long conversations come btw you too.....and in most cases wen you meet one on one,it's should not be more than greeting each other give her space and let her know you don't have her time 

    - Phorl Adeyemi - 2019-10-05 19:12:45 Quote

  • Firstly,I will advice you not to tell her husband so that you don't end up being the person who scattered their home.Secondly,you can talk to her peacefully and maybe advice her to tell her husband so they can sort it out together.Finally,do everything possible to avoid and stay far away from her.

    - Yakubu Esther - 2019-10-05 19:14:53 Quote

  • I'd advise you to tell her in a calm way that you are not interested since all your other approaches didn't work. Also get proof that she's the one coming unto you, prefarrably a video. Tell her to tell her husband her problem and they should find a solution together. If you love your life and your job you'll not fall for her temptation. 

    - Mofolu Ayo - 2019-10-05 19:32:49 Quote

  • Wow this is temptation indeed.

    My brother please for the sek of your future I mean your spiritual life and family and also many more, do every possibility to avoid her if not for any other thing remember the statement what God has join No man shall put asunder in order words God will not be happy with you if you thought of it, talk more of doing it please help your future. And I pray for Gods' Grace on you 

    - Uchenna Victor - 2019-10-05 19:36:24 Quote

  • Guy, I will advice you as my fellow guy. Don't allow 20mins pleasure ruin your life. Flee from such temptation, if she's still single I would say maybe you can try but bro, don't joke with married women oo. Flee from it bro. 

    - Ikenna Henry Onyemekesi - 2019-10-05 20:00:06 Quote

  • My advice for you is to leave the house since you have gotten a job because  she is trying to put enemtiy between you and your friend and if you tell your friend about it you broke their home  so I suggest you look for a house 

    - Viviain Baby - 2019-10-05 20:03:24 Quote

  • My advice for you is to pray to God for a direction always keep ignoring her I can’t advice you to open up everything to her husband cos when you do that you definitely gonna spoil her marriage and she won’t take it funny with you she might even do something that you didn’t expect her to do so just pray for Gods direction bruh.

    - Philip Bassey - 2019-10-05 20:05:29 Quote

  • My advice for you is to pray to God for a direction always keep ignoring her I can’t advice you to open up everything to her husband cos when you do that you definitely gonna spoil her marriage and she won’t take it funny with you she might even do something that you didn’t expect her to do so just pray for Gods direction bruh.

    - Philip Bassey - 2019-10-05 20:07:20 Quote

  • Hmmmmm,Thank God you were able to overcome all her temptation,stay away from her,I mean very far from her, remember how Joseph flee from fornication and also remember how David and Samson fell,the only solution that bibBi gave us is to flee not run or walk but flee from fornication and all appearances of evil,see brother if you love your soul and u really want to be free from her you have to pack or relocate from that house,if u tell the husband he won't believe u,she would convince her husband that u are the one lying,Stay bless

    - Omoghwigho Samson - 2019-10-05 20:29:04 Quote

  • I think the best thing to do is to try and inform her husband.because we are all human ,if she persist on that she may eventually implicate you ,

    So the best thing is to inform her husband or anyone who can be trusted 

    - Miracle Fadayin - 2019-10-05 20:39:45 Quote

  • She would still come again and if you are not careful she would plan a blackmail. The best thing to do is prayerfully tell her husband one of this morning when they are both around. Don't feel as if you are trying to cause conflict, it's better to save yourself from impending danger or else what you are trying to cover will boomerang sooner than you expected.

    - Agbaoye Benjamin - 2019-10-05 20:47:31 Quote

  • My brother, temptations come everyday and in sng form. Once you  have s*x with her for GE very first day, you're never going to stop and until her  husband finds out she is making out with you, and if you're caught, your life will be made mesirable. Tell her you can't ever do that, that it won't be comfortable  doing such and to the man who helped you secure a job that  sustains you. 

    - PETER MMADUEKE - 2019-10-05 20:53:06 Quote

  • All you have to do is try to get your own woman, because from what I read I can see that you have no woman living with you. Lemme blow your mind, women a have kind of look that when they see each other, it's either issues get solved or it things get messy, my point is if you have a woman in your house, and your neighbor sees her,  it's either she stops coming or the two of them have a massive blow out. 

    - Lawal Demilade - 2019-10-05 21:07:44 Quote

  • If you don't want future occurrence, then I advise you to leave their house and go and find another place to live. Don't allow her husband to know what's up between both of you because if he knows, it will make him hate his wife,or he may even accuse you of lying against his wife. So it's better to leave their house.

    - Emmanuel Agbasielo - 2019-10-05 21:12:22 Quote

  • In this case, she can do anything to relieve you of your job by lieing against you to the husband just because you didn't succumb to her request. I don't advise you to tell the husband, you can jst make a voice recording incase she tries something funny. 

    - Adelokun Temidayo - 2019-10-05 21:46:27 Quote

  • In such cases the will to resist lies with  you letting her know that you are not such guy that enjoys breaking people's homes for their own personal pleasure, that your faith forbids you from commiting such that.

    - Ishaya Tanko - 2019-10-05 22:20:39 Quote

  • She is aiming at something, don't give in to her temptation,if you don't want to spoil their marriage by telling her husband,you could stop her from entering your home

    You could also seek advice from people at the best position, like a pastor or priest

    - Ebuka Emmanuel - 2019-10-05 22:20:55 Quote

  • The best thing for you to do is to run for your life. Pack out of that place immediately, before you leave that place. When you have gotten a new place you will stay. Don't go there to pack your let your brother to do the packing himself and let your brother to know the reason why you are leaving that place,  before you leave there tell the husband everything and one day he will know what you are telling him

    - Anoke Richard O. - 2019-10-05 22:52:41 Quote

  • You have to be like Joseph and flee from temptation. I would have advise you report to the husband but I think it will go a long way destroying the marriage. 

    You just have to keep clear from such woman. Pray to God if possible pack out of the coimpound

    - Ealefoh Adesuwa - 2019-10-05 23:00:21 Quote

  • This is really serious issue. I think you should not tell her husband so that people will not say you destroys this people's family. You are man. Don't fall to her temptation and evil plan. I think what you should do is to leave that house and move in to another house. I think she will not be able to locate you there to disturb you. My God guide you

    - Onwa Matthew - 2019-10-05 23:15:30 Quote

  • Be more careful around her, don't beat her and don't report her to her husband, cause women are tricky at times and they know how to maneuver things. But I believe she will eventually do the same to another man outside and she will be exposed. I salute the grace and fear of God upon you, God strengthen and reward you. 

    - Oluwaferanmi Akinyemi - 2019-10-05 23:27:23 Quote

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