Waiting For Your Rich Relative To Help You Make It Is A Big Lie

Most of the time we all put all our hope in our rich/wealthy uncle or Aunt. Forgetting the fact that about 80% of this family are not ready to help at all. if I stop seeing assistance in every of our rich relatives we'll stop getting disappointed,If there's someone who has been horribly turned down by wealthy and well known relative it's me.

I then got to realise that I'm getting myself more harmed and hurt than good, so I tightened my shoes and flexed my hands putting myself more at work. It even got to a time that I stopped seeing blame in them you know, they also hustled for themselves.

So let's hear your views too about this

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  • Now understand this life is a big struggle warehouse. In the midst of it all let no man feel guilty on relying on somebody for financial assistant because they won't give you. 

    I am a typical example of someone neglected by my relations. 

    - Lucky Ogheneovo - 2019-08-20 06:11:06 Quote

  • If You have come to the realization that you are the first Helper of your Destiny then You have right Perspective.

    Be the Help You want Other to be first then God will assist you not looking Unto Man.

    - Aina Bamidele - 2019-08-20 06:23:17 Quote

  • Most of our relatives want as we obey their command so will our children obey their children, so it will be difficult for them to help you to make it in life. So don't rely on them.

    - Sule Abdul - 2019-08-20 07:19:16 Quote

  • You're are right don't depend on people to help, not all around you wants to see you make it in life. So get up hustle for yourself grab opportunities and make good use of them, and God will surely reward you.

    - Fanim Peter Rimven - 2019-08-20 07:29:14 Quote

  • Waiting from rich relative to help you to make it is like siting under a mango tree and waiting for wind to blow and plug a mango for when it's dry season

    You will face disappointment cox ur relative to hustle so you better go out and hustle

    - Gideon Nengak Chishak - 2019-08-20 07:49:29 Quote

  • Well, I think it's okay to ask for help from your relatives especially those ones that are wealthy enough to help, but u can't just be asking everytime because it will surely get to a point where they'll be tired of you asking Everytime,they will be like "are you the only one"? so one has to wise up and roll up one's sleeves and try to be independent on your own with what you have gotten from them and try to be economical with your spendings and learn how to save and invest

    - Ridwan Aliu - 2019-08-20 08:02:40 Quote

  • Honestly speaking, it's a big lie... Because there are a lot of people out there making it without any of their relative's help

    - Omotoso Olamide Paul - 2019-08-20 08:11:14 Quote

  • While I will agree with your opinion, I also want to add this:

    Don't become an opportunist too, don't misuse or abuse opportunities when it is given. Bcause someone help you today doesn't mean that you are automatically entitled to always recieve help from that person every time. Let's take the help rendered tonus as a big privilege and be grateful for it.

    - Ifeajuna Abraham - 2019-08-20 08:13:43 Quote

  • For me is never a good idea to put your trust in man, I was talking to one of my friend who has put his trust in his uncle who lives abroad but now he is almost clocking 40years but no help from the said uncle, not long ago he got a job now at lagos I was very happy for him. 

    - Kenneth Orji - 2019-08-20 08:19:53 Quote

  • Waiting for your rich relatives to help you make it big in life is the easiest way to fail in everything you do because you dont only become lazy but also deprive yourself from acquiring knowledge and being exposed 

    - Moses Osgood - 2019-08-20 08:31:54 Quote

  • I have them all around me, but I never contact then for assistance 

    - Akinlabi Faruq - 2019-08-20 08:58:55 Quote

  • Yes it is a big lie because the loudest voice in a man's life is his voice and the voice of God. You will only be intimidated if you wait for someone to help you.

    - Iniobong Akpan - 2019-08-20 09:14:18 Quote

  • Exactly what I shared with my brother some days back... today every man's wealth is to be enjoyed within his immediate family. very few people do otherwise.

    - Lubem Terzungwe - 2019-08-20 09:21:14 Quote

  • In this country that we are in?  Nobody is ready to help anybody. Like a caption says, 'Nobody cares, work harder ' and I will even say, 'Nobody cares, Join NNU Version 2 and earn smartly'. 

    - Janet Araoyinbo - 2019-08-20 11:20:38 Quote

  • I swear this the most reason why some people will never make it big in this life cause they solely depend on their rich relatives 

    - Onweh Victory Ifeanyi - 2019-08-20 11:56:11 Quote

  • I agree with you. This is what being an adult entails,being self reliant and independence. Those in foreign countries find it very easy to live without depending on relatives and parents,especially once they reach 18years. The truth is nobody is responsible for you as an adult.

    - Precious Ogiemwonyi - 2019-08-20 11:58:47 Quote

  • We need to know dat we need to earn ours and stop waiting for someone to help us...money made by one self is usually been spend wisely..

    - Olaleye zainab - 2019-08-20 13:30:36 Quote

  • I have them around but no one want to help, one is saying i don't want anybody to be rich than my son hmmmm

    - Emem Edem - 2019-08-20 13:55:07 Quote

  • I swear, you can't find them when you need help. It's good to hustle on your own. Lol

    - Victoria Victoria - 2019-08-20 13:55:15 Quote

  • waiting for a rich/wealthy people around you is lyk hunhun... you are waisting your preciouse tym they also work very hard before reaching that point, and mostly now everybody is own is own now, because there problems is even bigger than yours, so dont waist your precious time by waiting for anybody u rather waith for God than humanbeign we are not predictable, so its your time to be your self.

    - Ibraheem Danteni - 2019-08-20 14:11:17 Quote

  • Sincerely speaking but i only seek God help.

    - Isah Muhammad - 2019-08-20 14:14:13 Quote

  • This is the only outstanding truth I have read online today. It's as if you are in my mind. Most of us have rich relatives but yet we are struggling in school, passing through a lot of hard times; and when the help finally comes, it's not even from them.so pathetic!

    - WINNER IDIMAH - 2019-08-20 15:41:23 Quote

  • It is only but very few family members that helps nowadays, even the Bible made it clear for us that to put your trust on  men is a sin. We should better focus on our hussles

    - Dorothy Azodo Amaka - 2019-08-20 15:56:05 Quote

  • Those uncle's are not ready to help like the saying little drop of water makes an ocean so is better we start doing  small business with time the sky will be your limit

    - Helen Egole - 2019-08-20 16:36:56 Quote

    • In as much as you need not depend on your relatives, by stretching out to work, don't forget that in life there's the place of destiny helpers.
    • It's good we strike a balance, because some people in a bid to make it by themselves have carelessly reject God's help for them through men. So watch out! 

    - Panshak Dader - 2019-08-20 19:01:27 Quote

  • Waiting for your rich relatives to help you make it big in life is the easiest way to fail in everything you do because you dont only become lazy but also deprive yourself from acquiring knowledge and being exposed 

    - Michael Oguzie - 2019-08-23 02:05:41 Quote

  • Don't wait for anyone to help you in becoming someone you want to become. Expectations always hurt. Be independent. It's only God who can help anyone.

    - Albert Emmanuel - 2019-08-28 14:12:57 Quote

  • One thing people need to learn and understand is that nobody owes you their money. People tend to feel so entitled to other peoples money instead of going out there to make something for themselves. Then they get disappointed when that rich aunt or uncle decides not to assist them. My brother hustle your hustle. We all came to this world alone.

    - Oge Okeke - 2019-08-31 23:29:29 Quote

  • I have come to understand that most of these uncles and siblings are not willing to help one because most of will tell you that you have to work which is true anyway. But they forgot that it is someone that help them. So, it is high time we started looking for a way to survive not depending on anyone.

    - Cyril Izuchukwu - 2019-09-01 14:37:01 Quote

  • This is a true fact because many of them are not ready to help therefore it is better to work hard by putting in more effort. Hard work pays equally ask God to help and bless. Prayer and hard work pays. Let us stop hoping on people. 


    - Ifeoma Mmaduagwu - 2019-09-03 06:48:59 Quote

  • If You have come to the realization that you are the first Helper of your Destiny then You have right Perspective.

    Be the Help You want Other to be first then God will assist you not looking Unto Man..

    - Okechukwu Jude - 2019-09-03 17:03:32 Quote

  • I would not completely agree or disagree on these because, since our rich uncle/aunt are already in the line of success, they can serve as a stepping stone for us to become a better person, but the mistake most of us make is waiting for fish to be given to us instead of telling them to teach us how to fish, your rich relative would find joy and happiness seeing you at the top rather than at the bottom 

    - Oluwatobi Ilupeju - 2019-09-17 15:50:50 Quote

  •  the advice I can give anyone is never to depend on your rich relatives. They prefer to help the people outside other than helping you the relation but the very moment you realise that you can make it without them is the beginning of the journey to be successful

    - Amara Blessing - 2019-09-17 22:10:54 Quote

  • To succeed in this world try and be independent because people can disappoint, even your own blood. We all have things bothering so 'never switch'. Be courageous you can do it yourself 

    - Christopher Cornelius - 2019-09-18 09:31:31 Quote

  • You can't wait for your rich relative to help you make it in life; coz expectations from human being is null and void, but stand up to God and be the one to write your own story. Coz The man who follows the crowd will go no further than the crowd, but The man who walks alone will usually find himself in a place no one has ever been.

    - Tijani Ibraheem oyewole - 2019-09-18 09:41:11 Quote

  • I don't depend on any family for a living... How would I do that? I have my life to live they have theirs to live too.... And I live my life based on this principle'80%of your relative don't wish you well'. You see that ur uncle that you think he's your bread winner enh  will surely disappoint you someday ... So tryna start a life on your own 

    - Ayeni Mayowa - 2019-09-18 09:47:16 Quote

  • The  issue of waiting for relatives to help you is one of the major setback we are having in this country because as they help us they usually look up to you feeling you are indebted to them and mostly they may request for maybe your child which will later lead to child abuse and so on more over there are many ways of being independent and one of those ways is this platform thank you nnu v2 for empowering most of our youth

    - Fahad Sani - 2019-09-18 20:19:36 Quote

  • Relatives have their own family and they tend to put their family first no matter how close you are to them or how close they are to you so you as a relative will find it hard to make it because they will focus more on their family. 

    - Phany Nwoye - 2019-09-18 22:00:11 Quote

  • Relying on someone else to help you it's an act of laziness...because the person you're hoping on is actually hustling to make his/her own money while you waste your precious time lying in wait .

    - Chukwujekwu okoye - 2019-09-18 22:24:00 Quote

  • It's your hand that never deceive you because those your wealthy uncles and relatives you are waiting for to make you rich does not want you far to their length. Those that will help you can only help in feeding your mouth but not to the extent of getting rich like them. The only human who wants you to make it better than them are your parents, so buckle up your shoes and get on the track yourself....

    - Gbenga Makinde - 2019-09-26 20:04:52 Quote

  • Anyone who's waiting on his or her relative to help him or her make it in life is wasting time because before your relatives can remember to help you they'd rather look into their in-laws and start helping them before helping their very own family and i myself is not waiting on anybody even my father and my mother because I'm working to sponsor my education myself

    - Samuel Oladeji - 2019-09-27 07:50:51 Quote

  • Putting your trust in man is a great mistake you will ever make because man can fail you anytime. It's better to be independent so that you won't keep living a life if struggle. Find something and start doing so that you too can be able to offer people help.

    - Emmanuel Agbasielo - 2019-10-04 18:30:10 Quote

  • Yes oh.. We should not put hope or trust on our rich and wealthy uncles, auntys, brothers, sisters, Because them too hustle for them self to be who their are right now... So you don't have to be depend on them... If you do so.. You will get disappointed 

    - Morrison Preye - 2019-10-13 17:54:13 Quote

  • Well, I think its okay to ask for help or assistance from relatives but then depending too much on them is a waste of time. One will face a lot of disappointment if you rely on your relatives. They also have a lot to do for themselves. Not everyone around you will want to see you make it in life. You just have to work hard and grab any chance or opportunity you see and make good use of them. Most importantly, always pray.

    - Alex Kujore - 2019-11-20 20:18:25 Quote

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