Women especially those who want to get married always ask themselves this question.
As a woman if you think that you're a real catch, that is if you think your doing him a favour by marrying him,then the man feels that he's marrying trouble. Men want their women to feel blessed that they have chosen you.
The most valuable character trait of a woman that any man likes is a "thankful heart". A thankful spirit is the opposite of a prideful spirit. A girl that laughs and enjoys life,bubbles with joy is what men look for in a wife.That's the number trait followed by an attitude of gratitude.
So men what other trait do you look for in a woman?
I am a female but from experience I realize a man dorsnt want a match for a wife or girlfriend, he wants someone he can fill up a position in her life,he want someone that makes him feel like a man, someone he can say i did this for her, men are naturally proud, they want someone who can make them proud, someone with a need.
All u have said is true.. For me the woman should always be kind, submissive, cheerful, thankful like u said, loving, caring. If a man has all these in a woman, wat else would he ask for. Women should inculcate the habit of knowing what makes their man happy and doing that thing.
The most important thing I will look for in a woman for marriage is kindness and good attitude. Most women loose their marriage because of their harsh behavior and their bitter heart. They cause trouble wherever they find themselves.
Actually all men are different.. But all I want in a woman is that she should be kind, nice, lovely someone who appreciate things, a religious one again, someone who will actually gives me courage and be proud of me.
Me as a man I always look out for true love: does this person truly loves me cuz it's good to marry someone who love u than someone you love
2. I look out for the person's character
All other things can be corrected if u av selected this 4 things
Wow. your points are clearly stated. I'd like to add a few.
A man likes to marry an intelligent woman. beauty with sense. A woman who is confident enough to bring up reasonable ideas without the fear of being turned down
This in addition to beauty makes her more cherished by her husband.
What men look for in a woman are so many... Men want a wife material, a woman who is playful, funny... Always making him laugh.. A good cook... As they say the road to a man heart is through his stomach.. Men want a woman also that is God fearing
That which i seek from.a lady or woman per say is Freedom, Kindness and Forgiveness a lady that is always free and good3 when it comes to giving out and also understand the downfall of his spouse, not man is beyond mistakes but I am not saying this as a part of unfaithfulness in the relationship but as a part that shows that I am deeply sorry for any offense that I might have committed...
So those three is all I seek from a lady.
I also think men need a eoman who will be his peace, modern day world is filled with troubles especially on men and a woman who makes life bearable is needed by a man, a man also needs a supportive woman; one who can support his career and moltivate him to higher places
As a man, what I need most in relationship is as following ;
From submission she can dance to your tones, follow your instructions and be humble as well.
From respect she will make you to be proud and so on
Men no longer look at women who are proud, arogant, or sexy as the case maybe but they are looking up for a lady who has brain, she has something up stairs, Who is neat and smart, who has the managerial skills to be able to manage his wealth, one who does not only loves him alone but also loves his family, kids and ready to sacrifice for the love, one who can be their not just in good times but also in bad times, One who is understandable and can also assist in raising the family in come and in all a happy lady not the nagging ones..she can be able to complement you and also represent you
We actually look for women who give us joy,accept us for who we are,help us during times of difficulty and also stand by us during hard times.we also look for caring,loving and understanding women.some women are unapproachable because of their bad behaviour or attitude.
As a female,as there is a saying that the way to a man's heart is food and again if you dont have a good character,you will always have issues.Men nowadays don't want a liability,they want women they can share responsibilities with.
All I want in a woman is something who is empathetic, who isn't just about herself, a girl who isn't very demanding, who is understanding and expressing in various ways. I want a woman who would love me with my flaws
What attracts me first is the physical appearance, How she looks. Then The other traits I'd like to see in her is the way she cares about people, The way she talks to people, The way she dresses and the type if company she keeps.
Real Men need a trustworthy woman with good character, a woman that can make him feel at peace anytime he sees or stays with him, a woman of wisdom and dignity who will always be beside him to support and encourage him in all he does.
Men look for the following
Love, respect, submission, skills, inner beauty, character, posture, and the most important thing they look out for in women is Vision. A woman with vision is a woman with future.
What men look for in a woman is respect. When a man receives respect from a woman, he can do every thing for the woman. That respect is inclusive of s3x too. Most women are not submissive when it comes to this area. Hence, they have shattered their homes.
Well first of all i love this post thanksfor it, well as for me I look for a rare trait, if the woman is able to bring herself down just so she can raise others up thats the rare trait which makes her a gem of beauty
Noting matters most in relationships than submissiveness....what a man really demands from his wife/girlfriend is totally submission..
So girls also need to fully submit there self and also be grateful and appreciative
A man is looking for a woman who can play the role of a mother in his life, loving, caring, forgiving, strong, hopeful and many others.
A woman that will always lead his husband back on the right path is a rare woman...
All these men shouting submission, it's not only a woman that needs to be submissive, there are times the husband ought to be submissive too because he can't be right always. Many men nowadays only marry for beauty, they marry anyone presentable in an occasion, regardless of what they are going through in the house.
Based on guys that I have met so far
They look for a submissive lady, a lady who doesnt ride on them anyhow.
They look for a godly lady in terms of spiritual stands. They look for beauty not necessarily physical but inner beauty as well
Don,t make yourself a pornstar to him; most men now believe that the only thing that a lady can offer in a relationship is s8x. No, u can help him in other ways ,always find a way to cheer him up , give him advice , always be there for him, always be there to give him a ray of hope when thinks its all over.
Its not easy to be a man,thats why men need women in their lives , women are one in a million , they have a way of making everything alright .
I can only speak for myself but I know my choice also applies to so many other guys. Guys are initially moved by what we see, the sight has to be one to behold and character comes next. But character is so important that it can make a very beautiful lady so unattractive if she lacks it.
Humility is also a great quality of a wife material. Most men are being" charmed" by women of humble character. Men in their nature always command authority over the women no matter their stature. Therefore, humility is a great gain for women seeking for marriage.
A woman who can be submissive and give peace in all aspects and always give joy to her man,making him feel like a king can never be pushed to the corner by another woman because even if it happens,the man is sensible enough to know what he is missing,he compares and knows you are better off so he will still come back
For my own choice, I just want a respectful and trustworthy woman who can give me peace of mind. Because a woman who don't have respect can come meet her husband in public and embarrassing him, such things can lead man into quickly death.
I am a female and all what you said is true. A man want a woman who is always kind, caring,cheerful,loving and submissive too. A man also want a woman who will be proud of him,a woman who will be supportive and also respect him.
It all depends on the type of person the man is. Different people have their own taste and traits they admire in a woman. Some will prioritise the Outlook over the morality and behaviour of the woman while some will go for good behaviour and morals. I look for good religious and moral traits in a woman, and in that order, that is what should come first.
Men also want women who can understand and manage with them...They tend to love a woman who knows how to manage resources. Don't try and act like you know everything but try and make him feel loved even when he is going through a hard time.
Man also wants a woman that will bear with him when things are hard and will also encourage him not someone that will always oppose him in all his endenvour.
Man wants a woman who is not after what is seeing now but can plan towards a futurethey are seeing together.
Man want a loving wife, caring wife, God fearing wife e.t.c
Based on what I have seen and heard from men, there choicsc of a woman differs. But generally, they all want a good woman who is a home builder, not a home destroyer. Most of them look out for the women who are easy going, hardworking, well mannered, homely and independent, not a liability.
Personally i need a woman who can accept me but change what needs to be changed a woman who would give me hope when all hopes seems to be lost a woman who knows how to love and accept love, thats the kind of woman i want.
Trust me men don't joke with food so someone who can cook well, understanding, faithful, humble, good looking and great fashion sense, caring, even though they might not show it but someone who's Godfearing and an intelligent woman with elegance
As for me what I cherished most in a woman is obedient, the woman who will respect and love my parents and my siblings as well. She should love them and understand their aged and childish behaviour. Learn to tolerate them and love them the way she will love her own parents.
The things that men look in a women is trust and love. But when a women advice a man,the man remains loyal to the woman and will never leave her. Men are hard to get but when they see a woman that care and love them to the fulliest and can trust and advice them,then they are satisfied with that woman
As a young not getting ready for marriage yet, what I look for in a woman is the physical appearance of it is appealing enough.
But when am getting ready for marriage, what I will look for will be the character, religion and the physical apoearance.
The type of woman I want should be someone I will be able to discuss life with and not the one that will give me headache every morning of the year. My wife should not be too gentle in case of urgent matters which I'm not really giving attention to and she must not be rude in any form. Of course I won't be either. We're meant for each other, we played important role in each others life so life must be moved in with 4th the most respectful and humble lady on earth. My wife should be the best mother for my children, she should be a kind of person who takes life in between enjoying it while taking it very serious.
A woman is a gift of God to a man. Some single ladies are yet to come to this understanding that they are a gift to a man. A gift must be acceptable because it is presentable. If a single lady wants to settle, she must be presentable in all its ramification.
In my own opinion there are losts of things men want in women but I feel there are some points that needs to be pointed out such as
1- A man want to be deeply attracted to a lady
2- He wants to be able to share his passion with you
3- He wants a good listenner
4- He wants a woman who has a dream for her self
Though there are still lots more but i think this is still enough
some men only got married not because they want to be a family man , but because they had no choice, at times I asked my self why I am all over this so call girlfriend of mine, yet I have found a suitable answer for that, but I think most men favorites in women is money.
For me as a man, the qualities I'd keep an eye out for in a woman are; Loyalty, Inspire others, Honesty, Takes responsibility for her actions, Positive vibes, Encouraging, Passionate, Optimistic, Great sense of humor and knows how to have fun
Good day everyone
As a man, I look for like 5 things in women
1) The woman body shape
Like some kind of shape where by is wen they undress Yu will now see there body shape
2) A religious woman
As a Muslim I can't go for a woman of not my religion.
3) The intelligence and manner of the woman
Normally I can't marry a woman who lack respect, manner and some other good behaviors
In a real woman a real man will forward to A woman, A wife, An helper, A sister, a companion, and a Mother. Most time women thinks that if they have big boo or back side, this is what attracts men, but the truth is NO. A real man is not move by those. Beauty is good but good character is best.
The character traits any man wants in a woman are; A humble, loyal, industrous and an obedient woman. With these 4 and probably more as a woman, you have already made your self a very big target that many men will compeat for. You will not stay on the spinter's queue any more provided you don't sleep around with men. You know what i'm saying?
Am a lady actually, but men really likes a lady with good behavior and well trained, a woman he can leave his house and kids to that is a good wife and real mother that is ready to support her husband in all what he does.
Islamic all you the prophet(pbuh)said that when searching for a wife or a spouse first of all make research about her family and second her beauty and third her character and lastly her religion and we should take hold of the one that has religion sense the more .